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How to Develop a Child Custody Agreement Without Going to Court

September 27, 2022/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

Separation and divorce are difficult for everyone involved, but if you have children the situation can become even more complicated. There are two types of child custody that you must consider: legal and physical. Legal custody refers to who makes the decisions for the child related to things like health care, schooling, and welfare issues. Physical custody refers to who is responsible for providing shelter for the child and who spends the most time with them. Parents can have sole or joint legal or physical custody. In general, a child custody agreement must be approved by a judge in order to be legal and enforceable under state laws. Even though a judge needs to approve the custody agreement, many parents prefer to develop a plan outside of court before bringing it to a judge, which is sometimes more cost-effective and less contentious than a drawn-out trial in court.

Developing a Parenting Plan

The first step in developing a custody agreement is to agree on a parenting plan, which is basically a proposed custody agreement outlining whether custody will be joint or not, the details of visitation schedules for the non-custodial parent, if applicable, as well as the duties and responsibilities of each parent. Parenting plans usually also provide information about parental rights and the rights of other parties who might be involved in the child’s life such as grandparents or stepparents. Although there is no set form for parenting plans, they can be as detailed or as simple as the parties want.

Ways to Arrange a Custody Agreement Outside of the Court

There are a few different ways to arrive at a parenting plan and then custody agreement outside of court:

  • Informal Negotiations – if parents have a mostly amicable relationship they might choose to create a parenting plan together through direct communication and discussion without involving outside parties.
  • Collaboration – if parents cannot agree on a parenting plan, they might choose to communicate through their attorneys.
  • Mediation – if direct communication or collaboration fails to provide the desired results, some parents turn to mediation, a process in which a neutral third party works with both parents and their attorneys. It should be noted that nothing the mediator says or does is legally binding.

Using any of the methods above, once the parents arrive at a parenting plan that is acceptable to both sides, both parties must sign the agreement and present it to the court for approval.

Deciding What is Best for Your Situation

Custody decisions are always delicate because the emotions and well-being of children are involved, but sometimes they can also be complicated by more serious issues such as domestic violence, allegations of abuse or one parent moving far away or even living in another country. Even in less complicated cases, parents going through divorce and fighting for custody tend to be stressed and emotional, which might make it difficult to think clearly or come to an agreement.

Hiring an attorney to assist you can make a particularly difficult time in your life easier. Our team of experienced family law attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri has been helping families in the greater Bay Area navigate the complicated landscape of custody arrangements and the court system for decades. Call us today at 408-553-0801 to schedule a free half-hour consultation. We would be happy to discuss your options and help you decide on the best path forward in your unique situation.

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What Are the Benefits of a Prenuptial Agreement?

September 13, 2022/in Family Law /by Virginia Lively

Getting married is an exciting moment in your life. As with many pivotal life events, marriage can come with an increase in responsibility. Marriages are deeply emotional and can involve sharing almost everything. Prenuptial agreements are a great way to ensure that you and your partner are on the same page before you get married. A prenuptial agreement is a legal document that outlines which assets belong to who. A common misconception is that getting a prenup creates an avenue for divorce. This is, however, untrue. In the best-case scenario, a signed prenuptial agreement will never go into effect. If, however, it becomes necessary, it is a great way to make sure that both parties can leave the marriage with agreed-upon assets. Read on to learn more about other benefits prenuptial agreements can offer.

Advantages of Getting a Prenup 

  1. Ensures Honesty & Fairness
    Prenuptial agreements are, first and foremost, agreements. This means that they require both parties to understand and be on the same page about how things will go. They encourage honest conversations and can be an excellent opportunity to build understanding with your partner. Additionally, prenuptial agreements are designed to be fair to both parties. Deciding what is fair, along with what makes sense for you and your assets, is a unique conversation that should be had. Having this conversation without the emotional turmoil that divorce can bring ensures that you are making clear and well-planned decisions. A legally-binding document made in good faith can give both parties the peace of mind that hard decisions have already been made.
  1. Offers Protection
    Prenuptial agreements offer many forms of protection. This can include financial protection, such as defining which assets belong to who. Another form of financial protection that prenuptial agreements offer is protection from debt. If one party has significantly more debt than the other, it can be vital for the person with less debt to take the protection that prenuptial agreements offer. Another form of protection that prenuptial agreements provide is emotional protection. The ability to ensure that any children you may have can receive assets is vital. This can ensure that your children receive what is fair. Additionally, getting a prenup can prevent long and messy divorces. A primary focus of a divoce, in a legal sense, is deciding how to divide marital property. Since prenuptial agreements clearly define that, they greatly shorten divorces. This makes it far less financially and emotionally draining.

Get the Support You Deserve

Marriage is a life-changing and joyous occasion. When it comes to finances and asset protection, though, there is no such thing as being over-prepared. Having a prenuptial agreement provides you an avenue for an honest conversation with your partner prior to marriage. Additionally, it can offer you the financial and emotional protection you deserve. At Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri, our attorneys are well-versed in helping you navigate the tough conversations and decisions that come with creating a prenuptial agreement. Reach out to us at 408-553-0801 today to find out how we can support you and your soon-to-be spouse.

 

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Can I Get Divorced Without An Attorney?

September 6, 2022/in Family Law /by Gretchen Boger

Divorce can be complicated and draining, both financially and emotionally. While some divorces may include complicated legal battles, there are others that have the simple focus of moving forward. In the case of the latter, the process for divorce can seem simple enough. Having a lawyer to help you navigate the divorce may seem unnecessary.

Filing For Divorce Without a Lawyer

In some parts of the country, it is fast and simple to file for divorce without a lawyer. Areas with strong domestic court systems may offer options to spouses that allow them to file themselves. This could include checklists and forms that help spouses navigate through the divorce process. It may even be possible to expedite the divorce if it falls within certain guidelines.

However, without a lawyer, it can be difficult to understand and follow the rules necessary to obtain a divorce. Learning the process can be overwhelming. Some courts require self-represented parties to take classes that provide information on the divorce process. Other courts do not provide this, instead expecting self-represented parties to obtain the correct information on their own. Additionally, courts that do not offer support in navigating divorces, or do not offer a way to file online, can prove exceedingly difficult for parties representing themselves. Parties must spend hours learning the process, finding the correct documents, and filing them with a clerk. Having a lawyer, who has navigated the process many times and understands what to do, can make life much simpler. While it is possible to file for divorce without an attorney, it can make it a very time-consuming and difficult process.

Alternatives to Hiring a Lawyer

The emotional and financial burden of divorce can make many decisions feel overwhelming. It can be hard to find the right lawyer, especially if you feel your case does not warrant an attorney at all. If hiring a lawyer is not a possibility for you, there are other options. One option is consulting with a lawyer on an as-needed basis. This could include asking an attorney to look over your paperwork before filing or receiving help navigating an online filing process. Consulting with a lawyer when you need to can provide a great balance between doing everything on your own and hiring a lawyer full-time. If hiring a lawyer is not an option because of financial constraints, visiting a family law clinic can be an excellent way to receive quality legal advice. Many clinics offer sliding-scale or flexible payment options, depending on the circumstances.

Determine What’s Right For You

Divorce can be a very tough obstacle to overcome. With so much uncertainty, it can be hard to decide whether hiring a lawyer is the best option for you. While it is not strictly necessary to have an attorney to complete a divorce, it can be extremely helpful. At Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri, we would be happy to discuss your options and assist you in understanding what’s best for you. Call us for a consultation today at 408-553-0801.

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How Long Does a Father Have to Establish Paternity in California?

September 2, 2022/in Family Law /by Riley Pennington

Paternity is the legal term used to name the father of a child. In California, paternity can be established in a number of ways. It is presumed that, if a husband is married to the child’s mother when a child is born, he is presumed to be the father.

In the eyes of the law, a child’s mother is always assumed to be the legal parent, regardless of whether or not she was married to the child’s father at the time of birth. As a result, a father who isn’t married to the child’s mother will need to take legal action in order to establish paternity and gain legal recognition as the child’s father.

If both parents agree on the identity of the father, they can sign a voluntary Declaration of Paternity form. This form must be signed in front of a witness and notarized. It can be completed at the hospital when the child is born or at any time after birth. Once the form is signed, it is legal proof of paternity and cannot be undone without a court order.

If the parents disagree on who the father is, paternity can be established through DNA testing. The mother, child, and alleged father must all submit to DNA testing, and if the results show that there is a more than 99% chance that the man tested is the child’s father, the court will legally recognize him as the legal parent. Once paternity is determined, the name of the father can be added to the child’s birth certificate, and he will be given legal rights and responsibilities.

A father can establish paternity up to three years after the child’s 18th birthday, but there are several advantages to doing it sooner.

Why a Father Would Want to Establish Paternity in California

There are many benefits to establishing paternity, both for children and parents. For a child, establishing paternity provides a sense of identity and belonging. In some cases, it can also help children to access medical information from their father’s side of the family. It also entitles the child to financial support from the father and inheritance rights if the father should pass away.

For the father, establishing paternity offers legal rights such as visitation, custody, and taking part in any decision-making regarding the child’s health, education, religious instruction, and activities. It allows the father and the child to bond and develop a legal relationship.

We Can Help You With Your Case

If you are considering establishing paternity, or if you have questions about it, please contact our office for a free consultation. We are ready to discuss your case with you and answer any questions you may have. Our lawyers at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri specialize in family law and have helped families in San Jose and the greater Bay Area. We can help you navigate the process and ensure that your rights as a father are protected. Call us at 408-553-0801 or fill out our contact form today.

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September 1, 2022/in 2022, Spotlight /by Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri
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