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Couple on therapy couch after husband's infidelity
Gretchen Boger

Can I Sue My Spouse For Cheating On Me?

February 2, 2023/in Family Law /by Gretchen Boger

Infidelity can be extremely emotionally draining and stressful. If your spouse cheated on you, you may be wondering if, as the injured party, you have any legal recourse to receive compensation for your pain. Although somewhat complicated, there are a few circumstances in which you might be able to bring a civil case against a cheating spouse.

Alienation of Affection

When a third party interferes in a loving relationship between a husband and wife, some states allow what is known as an alienation of affection lawsuit. Usually, this type of claim is filed against the third party, rather than against the spouse, however. Filing an alienation of affection lawsuit requires proof that your marriage was a happy and loving one and that the third party intentionally destroyed your marriage. Unfortunately, only a handful of states still recognize this type of lawsuit, and California is not one of them. 

Infliction of Emotional Distress

In California, victims who have suffered emotional anguish as the result of someone else’s actions can sometimes sue for either Negligent or Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress (NIED or IIED lawsuits). Although adultery can certainly cause significant emotional distress, you should carefully consider what this type of lawsuit entails, including:

  • Proving the existence of your emotional pain (e.g., through expert testimony of a counselor, etc.)
  • Establishing how your pain is the direct result of others’ actions
  • Documenting the severity of your distress and how the trauma has diminished your quality of life
  • Demonstrating that your spouse’s behavior was outrageous or reckless and intended to cause you emotional distress (i.e., for IIED lawsuits only)

Unless you think you have a very strong case or stand to recoup a large amount of financial compensation from your spouse, filing an NIED or IIED lawsuit may cost more time and money than its worth.

How Infidelity Affects Divorce in California

Whether or not you choose to pursue a civil claim against your spouse for an extramarital affair, you might also be considering divorce. Since California is a no-fault divorce state, you would most likely cite irreconcilable differences, rather than adultery, as the reason for your divorce. 

Although the California family court system does not usually take infidelity into account in divorce proceedings, there are certain cases where it can affect custody agreements or spousal support. Also, if your spouse spent marital assets on their affair (e.g., expensive gifts, luxury vacations, or hotel stays), the judge will likely require them to reimburse you for those assets during the division of your marital estate.

Facing Infidelity? We Will Fight For You

Our team at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri has decades of experience dealing with complicated divorce cases in California. We understand the toll that extramarital affairs take, and we work hard to protect your rights and make sure you understand all your options. Call us today at (408) 553-0801 to set up a 30-minute free consultation with our family law experts. 

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Michael Lonich

Estate Planning: The Difference Between Revocable vs Irrevocable Living Trusts

January 26, 2023/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

You have worked hard to get where you are in life. Maybe you started a business, own a home and property, or have made wise investments. As you think about the future, it’s important to decide how you want those assets distributed and to make a plan to ensure those decisions are implemented. Sometimes people choose to establish a living trust, which is a written, legal document that helps protect your assets while you are still alive and provide for your family after your death. Essentially, you put your assets into a trust and assign a trustee (which can be yourself) to manage the trust property and administer your estate for your benefit during your lifetime and to manage the distribution of those assets after your death. 

Although there are several benefits to having a living trust, arguably the most important is that you will protect your estate from the probate process, which can take over a year and incur significant legal fees. A living trust, on the other hand, can usually be settled within weeks. Other advantages include avoiding the probate process in other states if you own out of state property and providing the opportunity for a trusted family member or friend to manage the trust if you become incapacitated. In addition, some individuals choose living trusts because they are more difficult to contest than a standard will.  

What assets should be in a living trust?

Generally speaking, you will want to include several different types of assets in your living trust, including: 

  • Bank accounts – checking, saving, and money market
  • Real estate – homes and property
  • Investments – stocks, bonds, and mutual funds
  • Personal property – family heirlooms, jewelry, furniture, etc.
  • Life insurance policy

Revocable vs. Irrevocable Living Trust

There are two types of living trusts – revocable and irrevocable. Each has its own advantages and drawbacks. The main differences between revocable and irrevocable living trust are: 

  1. Flexibility: Revocable living trusts are most commonly used in estate planning since they allow you to amend, add to, or even completely revoke your living trust as the need arises, if your circumstances or finances change. As the name suggests, an irrevocable living trust is less flexible than a revocable living trust, requiring court or beneficiary approval for any changes once it has been notarized and executed.
  2. Ownership: In a revocable living trust, the person who created the trust continues to have ownership or control over the assets in the eyes of the law. Trust property in an irrevocable trust, on the other hand, belongs to the trust itself, rather than the individual.
  3. Asset Protection: Because assets in an irrevocable trust are controlled by the trust rather than the individual who set up the trust, they are better protected against creditor claims than assets in a revocable trust, which are still owned by the individual. If you don’t need to worry about creditors, however, revocable trusts are usually a better choice since you maintain control and can make changes easily.
  4. Tax Savings: Once assets are transferred into an irrevocable living trust, they are no longer considered a part of an individual’s taxable estate. Therefore, your beneficiaries may pay less estate tax after your death. This benefit is especially important for people with more extensive estates or assets. 

We Can Help You Protect Your Family’s Future

Estate planning is one of the most important things you can do to protect your loved ones and ensure your long term wishes are carried out. If you’re wondering whether a revocable or irrevocable living trust is right for you, or have other questions about estate planning, our attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri can help. Please call us today at (408) 553-0801 to set up a free, no-obligation consultation and discuss how our estate planning attorneys can customize our services to your unique situation and needs.

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David Patton

How To Contest Paternity In California

January 19, 2023/in Family Law /by David Patton

When a man is listed on a child’s birth certificate as the father but later learns that he is not the biological father, he may want to contest paternity. In California, specific steps must be taken to do this. If you are considering contesting paternity, it is essential to understand the process and what will be required of you.

In this blog post, we will discuss the process for contesting paternity in California and provide tips on ensuring your case has the best chance of success.

Why Someone May Want to Contest Paternity

Paternity is a legal term used to refer to the state of being a father for a particular child. In California, it can be established through various means. First and foremost, if the mother of the child is married at the time she gave birth, then her husband is presumed to be the father. 

If the mother is unmarried, then legal paternity can be established by signing a voluntary declaration of paternity.

Paternity may be contested in California for several reasons, such as when a man is surprised to learn that he is legally the father of a child or if there are questions about the validity of a previous paternity test. In addition, if either party is not satisfied with the results of a DNA test performed during a paternity suit and believes it was done incorrectly or was tampered with, they may file an objection and contest paternity. 

Another ground on which a man can contest his paternity is if he is married to the mother and can prove he is sterile or impotent.

Additionally, suppose a man has signed an affidavit acknowledging paternity or a voluntary declaration of paternity and filed it with the Department of Child Support Services or a court. In that case, he may contest this declaration within 60 days of signing it. Alternatively, he may challenge it at any time if there was fraud, duress, or mistakes related to his execution of the acknowledgment or declaration. 

How Long Do You Have to Contest Paternity?

If a man has been served with a Summons and Complaint Regarding Parental Obligation from the local child support agency, he has 30 days to respond. 

The first step is to fill out the Answer to Complaint or Supplemental Complaint Regarding Parental Obligations form. The man can ask for genetic testing to determine paternity on the form.

In other cases, one parent may file a Petition to Establish Parental Relationship Services, and the other person has 30 days to respond to the petition. If the man is disputing his paternity, then it becomes a contested case.

Contesting Paternity Is a Complicated Process

If you have reason to believe you are not a child’s father, it is vital to take action and contest paternity. The first step is to contact us for a free consultation by calling 408-553-0801. Our experienced family law attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri can help guide you through the process and work with you to build a case.

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Virginia Lively

What to Know Before Signing a Postnuptial Agreement

January 12, 2023/in Family Law /by Virginia Lively

Most people have heard of a prenuptial agreement, which is a legal agreement signed by a couple before marriage that establishes rules for the division of the couple’s assets and debts in cases of divorce. Postnuptial agreements provide the same financial protection but are negotiated and signed after a couple is already married. Although it can be uncomfortable to talk about money or to consider the potential dissolution of your marriage, if you think about marriage as a long-term partnership, it makes sense to discuss appropriate and fair protection of each party’s assets for the future in the same way that you would for other relationships such as business partnerships.

When to Initiate a Postnuptial Agreement

Certain life changes or situations might come up where it’s in your best interest to think about a postnuptial agreement to alleviate uncertainty about your financial future. In fact, if you have a prenuptial agreement in place but some circumstances have changed, you might use a postnuptial agreement to modify your prenuptial agreement.

  • Significant Changes in Financial Circumstances
    If either spouse’s finances significantly increase or decrease, it’s a good time to initiate a postnuptial agreement. For instance, one spouse might inherit family money or property and want to make sure his children from a previous relationship receive those assets. Or a spouse who decides to start a business might want a postnuptial agreement in place to protect the rights and interests of business partners or profit sharers. Postnuptial agreements can also shield you from being held responsible if your spouse begins to accrue appreciable amounts of debt through unwise investments or lavish spending.
  • Marital Issues
    Combining finances can be one of the most difficult parts of any marriage. Some couples enter marriage without being aware of the debts or financial difficulties of their spouse. Infidelity or other marital issues can also cause stress in a marriage. A postnuptial agreement can provide some security to both parties, allowing them time to work on their marital issues without the added worry about finances. If divorce becomes inevitable, having a postnuptial agreement already in place ensures both parties’ assets are protected and can make the divorce process smoother.

What to Include

When preparing to enter into a postnuptial agreement, both parties must disclose all current assets and debts. Although postnuptial agreements are as individual and unique as each couple, they most often include instructions for how to distribute:

  • Debts, including mortgages, insurance, educational loans, and credit cards
  • Shared property such as cars, homes, or even family pets
  • Other assets such as retirement accounts, investments, or inheritance
  • Spousal support 

Get Help Drafting an Effective Postnuptial Agreement

In California, postnuptial agreements have to meet several requirements to be considered legally enforceable, including that they must be: 

  • Written, not oral
  • Fair to both parties
  • Signed by both parties willingly, not under duress
  • Notarized
  • Clear and transparent

Unfortunately, a California court might declare a poorly written agreement with vague or ambiguous language invalid, thus putting both spouses’ desires in jeopardy. To ensure that your postnuptial agreement is legally binding and will withstand a family court judge’s review, you should work with an experienced attorney. 

At Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri, our attorneys specialize in drafting effective postnuptial agreements that help protect your interests, using direct and detailed language. If you have questions about postnuptial agreements or want to discuss your specific situation, give us a call today at (408) 553-0801 to set up a free consultation. We have decades of experience navigating the complex landscape of family law and welcome the opportunity to discuss your options to successfully protect your financial future.

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Mitchell Ehrlich

Do I Need an Attorney for a Postnuptial Agreement?

December 14, 2022/in Family Law /by Mitchell Ehrlich

Marriage is a beautiful partnership between two people. While the majority of people are familiar with prenuptial agreements, also known as “prenups”, less people are aware of postnuptial agreements. If you entered into your marriage without a prenup, take heart – it is not too late to make a legal move to protect the financial future of yourself and your loved ones. Postnups are not as common as prenups, but are still a powerful tool that can be used to protect yourself from a complicated divorce. No one plans to get divorced, but it is a reality for many marriages. 

What Does a Postnuptial Agreement Do?

Postnuptial agreements are laid out to protect both parties, and can significantly reduce stress in the event of a divorce. When a couple decides to get divorced in the state of California, their assets and debts that they acquired while married are split between the two in what is deemed the most equitable way. But what happens if a major financial event happens to one member of the couple after they say their vows? This is where the opportunity for a postnuptial agreement becomes significant. Whether one spouse receives an inheritance, starts a new successful business, or even acquires a large debt, a postnup is a way to clearly dictate who receives that financial asset or burden if a divorce occurs. While the benefits of a postnup are similar to those of a prenup, postnuptial agreements can be more difficult to enforce. This is because there is a higher risk of one spouse being forced to sign the agreement against their wishes. In order to make sure you have a valid and enforceable postnuptial agreement, you need to hire an experienced and meticulous attorney.

What Are the Benefits of Hiring an Attorney to Draft the Postnup?

Since the intended goal of a postnuptial agreement is to protect and benefit both parties, not just one, having each party have an attorney to serve their interests in drafting the agreement is vital. Not only will the attorney provide wise counsel and valid insight, but the attorney will also be able to create an agreement that will be enforceable in court. Having an attorney present during all steps of drafting the agreement will also lessen the chances of one spouse being able to claim they were coerced into signing the document. Experienced attorneys understand the complexity of dividing assets and debts during a divorce, and know the necessary details to pay attention to in order to create a legally-binding document that is both fair as well as transparent.

Contact Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri Today For a Free Consultation.

If you believe that a postnuptial agreement is the right choice for you and your spouse, give us a call today at 408-553-0801 for a free, no-obligation 30-minute consultation. Our board-certified attorneys have decades of experience and a passion for helping our clients. Family law can be complex, so place your trust in the experts here at LPEP Law. We are happy to answer any of your questions and help walk you through the next steps. 

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