Infidelity can be extremely emotionally draining and stressful. If your spouse cheated on you, you may be wondering if, as the injured party, you have any legal recourse to receive compensation for your pain. Although somewhat complicated, there are a few circumstances in which you might be able to bring a civil case against a cheating spouse.

Alienation of Affection

When a third party interferes in a loving relationship between a husband and wife, some states allow what is known as an alienation of affection lawsuit. Usually, this type of claim is filed against the third party, rather than against the spouse, however. Filing an alienation of affection lawsuit requires proof that your marriage was a happy and loving one and that the third party intentionally destroyed your marriage. Unfortunately, only a handful of states still recognize this type of lawsuit, and California is not one of them. 

Infliction of Emotional Distress

In California, victims who have suffered emotional anguish as the result of someone else’s actions can sometimes sue for either Negligent or Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress (NIED or IIED lawsuits). Although adultery can certainly cause significant emotional distress, you should carefully consider what this type of lawsuit entails, including:

• Proving the existence of your emotional pain (e.g., through expert testimony of a counselor, etc.)
• Establishing how your pain is the direct result of others’ actions
• Documenting the severity of your distress and how the trauma has diminished your quality of life
• Demonstrating that your spouse’s behavior was outrageous or reckless and intended to cause you emotional distress (i.e., for IIED lawsuits only)

Unless you think you have a very strong case or stand to recoup a large amount of financial compensation from your spouse, filing an NIED or IIED lawsuit may cost more time and money than its worth.

How Infidelity Affects Divorce in California

Whether or not you choose to pursue a civil claim against your spouse for an extramarital affair, you might also be considering divorce. Since California is a no-fault divorce state, you would most likely cite irreconcilable differences, rather than adultery, as the reason for your divorce. 

Although the California family court system does not usually take infidelity into account in divorce proceedings, there are certain cases where it can affect custody agreements or spousal support. Also, if your spouse spent marital assets on their affair (e.g., expensive gifts, luxury vacations, or hotel stays), the judge will likely require them to reimburse you for those assets during the division of your marital estate.

Facing Infidelity? We Will Fight For You

Our team at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri has decades of experience dealing with complicated divorce cases in California. We understand the toll that extramarital affairs take, and we work hard to protect your rights and make sure you understand all your options. Call us today at (408) 553-0801 to set up a 30-minute free consultation with our family law experts. 

Most people have heard of a prenuptial agreement, which is a legal agreement signed by a couple before marriage that establishes rules for the division of the couple’s assets and debts in cases of divorce. Postnuptial agreements provide the same financial protection but are negotiated and signed after a couple is already married. Although it can be uncomfortable to talk about money or to consider the potential dissolution of your marriage, if you think about marriage as a long-term partnership, it makes sense to discuss appropriate and fair protection of each party’s assets for the future in the same way that you would for other relationships such as business partnerships.

When to Initiate a Postnuptial Agreement

Certain life changes or situations might come up where it’s in your best interest to think about a postnuptial agreement to alleviate uncertainty about your financial future. In fact, if you have a prenuptial agreement in place but some circumstances have changed, you might use a postnuptial agreement to modify your prenuptial agreement.

• Significant Changes in Financial Circumstances
  If either spouse’s finances significantly increase or decrease, it’s a good time to initiate a postnuptial agreement. For instance, one spouse might inherit family money or property and want to make sure his children from a previous relationship receive those assets. Or a spouse who decides to start a business might want a postnuptial agreement in place to protect the rights and interests of business partners or profit sharers. Postnuptial agreements can also shield you from being held responsible if your spouse begins to accrue appreciable amounts of debt through unwise investments or lavish spending.
• Marital Issues
  Combining finances can be one of the most difficult parts of any marriage. Some couples enter marriage without being aware of the debts or financial difficulties of their spouse. Infidelity or other marital issues can also cause stress in a marriage. A postnuptial agreement can provide some security to both parties, allowing them time to work on their marital issues without the added worry about finances. If divorce becomes inevitable, having a postnuptial agreement already in place ensures both parties’ assets are protected and can make the divorce process smoother.

What to Include

When preparing to enter into a postnuptial agreement, both parties must disclose all current assets and debts. Although postnuptial agreements are as individual and unique as each couple, they most often include instructions for how to distribute:

• Debts, including mortgages, insurance, educational loans, and credit cards
• Shared property such as cars, homes, or even family pets
• Other assets such as retirement accounts, investments, or inheritance
• Spousal support 

Get Help Drafting an Effective Postnuptial Agreement

In California, postnuptial agreements have to meet several requirements to be considered legally enforceable, including that they must be: 

• Written, not oral
• Fair to both parties
• Signed by both parties willingly, not under duress
• Notarized
• Clear and transparent

Unfortunately, a California court might declare a poorly written agreement with vague or ambiguous language invalid, thus putting both spouses’ desires in jeopardy. To ensure that your postnuptial agreement is legally binding and will withstand a family court judge’s review, you should work with an experienced attorney. 

At Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri, our attorneys specialize in drafting effective postnuptial agreements that help protect your interests, using direct and detailed language. If you have questions about postnuptial agreements or want to discuss your specific situation, give us a call today at (408) 553-0801 to set up a free consultation. We have decades of experience navigating the complex landscape of family law and welcome the opportunity to discuss your options to successfully protect your financial future.

Divorce is a difficult process under the best of circumstances. The process can become even more complicated and contentious when spouses can’t agree on anything. The term “bifurcate” means to split something into two separate pieces. Therefore, in a bifurcated divorce, the court grants the divorce itself before resolving other issues in the case.

What is the Purpose of a Bifurcated Divorce?

Deciding to end a marriage is always a complicated choice, and the process can be even more complex if significant assets or children are involved. A bifurcated divorce can be helpful when the parties want to move on with their lives but cannot agree on other matters, such as property division or spousal support. 

Bifurcation may be requested at any time during the proceedings, but it is most commonly sought early on, typically soon after filing the petition or responsive pleading. 

This type of divorce is typically used when one party is seeking to remarry and needs to resolve the issue of divorce before doing so. California does require a six-month waiting period after a divorce is finalized before a spouse can remarry. However, a bifurcated divorce speeds up the process by separating the dissolution of the marriage from the other issues.

It can also benefit couples who have been married for a long time and have complex financial issues that must be resolved. After the court issues the judgment of divorce, a separate trial will be set to settle the other problems, such as:

• If a prenuptial agreement is valid
• The date of the separation and the date to use for the valuation of marital assets
• Determining which property is marital and which is separate
• The division of marital property
• The valuation of a shared business or the increase in value of a company during the marriage
• Physical and legal custody of any children
• Parenting time of both parents
• Child and spousal support
• Any other issues

The Pros and Cons of a Bifurcated Divorce

This type of divorce can help couples who want to avoid a lengthy and contentious divorce process. It can also be beneficial for couples who wish to keep their finances separate during the divorce. In addition, a bifurcated divorce can help protect assets and ensure that property is divided fairly. Finally, a bifurcated divorce can give couples more control over the divorce process. 

However, there are also a couple of potential drawbacks to consider. First, a bifurcated divorce can be more expensive than a traditional divorce, as it requires two separate court appearances. Also, it can be emotionally exhausting as you and your ex-spouse work through the contested issues.

Discuss Your Concerns With Our Experienced Lawyers

If you are considering a bifurcated divorce, it’s essential to seek legal advice from an experienced family law attorney who understands California’s laws. Our lawyers at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri know that each situation is unique, and we will work with you for the best possible outcome for your particular circumstances. Contact us for a free consultation to see how we can help you by calling (408) 553-0801.

When one parent wants to move with the children, custody arrangements can become very complicated. If you are in this situation, it is essential to know your legal rights and options. This blog post will help you understand what to do if your ex-spouse wants to move with the children and how you can protect your rights as a parent.

How is Child Custody Determined in California?

In California, child custody is the legal right of a parent to have a child live with them. Custody can be either physical or legal. Physical custody means that the child lives with the parent, while legal custody refers to the parent’s ability to make decisions about the child’s education, health, and welfare. 

Child custody can be joint, meaning that both parents have equal rights and responsibilities, or sole, meaning that only one parent has custody. Visitation, or time-sharing, refers to the amount of time that the child spends with each parent.

Custody is typically determined by a judge based on what is in the best interests of the child. 

How “Move-Away” Situations are Handled

Sometimes situations arise where one parent may need to relocate to a different area for work or to be closer to family. If the moving parent has sole physical custody, then it is the other parent’s responsibility to show that the move would be harmful to the family.

However, if parents share joint physical custody and one parent wants to relocate, they must notify the other parent of their intent to move. The parents can discuss changes to the visitation schedule and ensure the non-moving parent can maintain a relationship with their child. If the parents can reach an agreement, they need to file a child custody modification with the court.

But, if the non-moving parent doesn’t want the child to move, the relocating parent must show how the move would be in the child’s best interest.

Courts generally consider the following factors when making a decision about relocation: 

• The reasons for the move
• The impact of the move on the children’s schooling, extracurricular activities, and relationships with friends and extended family
• The ability of the non-custodial parent to maintain a relationship with the children after the move
• The wishes of the children, depending on their age.

In some cases, other factors may also be considered, such as the move’s financial impact on both parents or the effect on special needs children. Ultimately, however, the court will always prioritize what is in the child’s best interests in making a relocation decision.

Understand Your Options for Custody Arrangements

If you are a parent facing the possibility of your child’s other parent moving away, it is crucial to understand your legal options. Our attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri have extensive experience helping parents in all types of custody cases, including those involving relocation. If you live in San Jose or the greater Bay Area, contact us for a free consultation. We want to learn about your unique situation and help you determine how best to proceed. Fill out our contact form by clicking here or call us at 408-553-0801.

When two people fall in love and decide to get married, everyone tends to focus only on the exciting events to follow. While marriage is definitely something to celebrate, it is nothing to be taken lightly. It is a lifelong commitment that unfortunately is becoming increasingly likely to end in divorce. A prenuptial agreement can go a long way in ensuring the safety of both partners’ assets, business interests, and family trusts.

What is a prenuptial agreement?

Prenuptial agreements, also known as a “prenup”, is a private agreement between the two spouses-to-be. It sets out the stipulations of your marriage and outlines the provisions for what will happen in the event of a divorce or the untimely death of either spouse. Prenups most commonly outline who will receive property and other assets, including property owned by each spouse prior to getting married and whatever they might acquire together after getting married. In the state of California, this legal document declares the assets and debts of each individual before marriage and how those will be separated after a divorce. A prenup can also dictate how much alimony a spouse is entitled to. It is also becoming more common for pets to be included in prenuptial agreements.

Why get a prenup?

There are many, many reasons to have a prenuptial agreement in place prior to getting married. A few of these are:

• To protect assets and property owned before getting married.
• To establish a plan for paying expenses during the marriage.
• To protect children, parents, or other family members from the fear of a new spouse taking advantage of assets or property.
• To designate ownership and distribution of benefits from a life insurance policy.
• To protect a business or estate.

Prenuptial agreements can’t include anything that goes against public policy or that is downright illegal. For example, a prenup that contains anything that will adversely affect the rights of a child will be deemed unenforceable. The courts will always act in the best interest of a child. However, prenups can go above and beyond in making provisions for children. They can dictate the responsibility of each parent for future college expenses and other financial needs of the child. California Family Code Section 1612 specifically states what is legally able to be included and enforced in a prenuptial agreement.

Consult with an expert on whether a prenuptial agreement is right for you.

Having a prenup in place before getting married can give both you and your partner peace of mind. Hopefully it is something you don’t ever need, but in the unfortunate event that a divorce does happen, it is better to know that your assets are protected. Here at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri, we specialize in Family Law and Estate Planning. We have significant experience in drafting prenuptial agreements that can withstand a court challenge. We have combined litigation experience of over 100 years and we know just how messy and complex a divorce can be. Call us today at 408-553-0801 or click here to schedule a free 30-minute consultation.