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Gina Policastri

The Impact of ‘Melanie’s Law’ on Protective Orders in Domestic Violence Cases

April 22, 2026/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

Domestic violence cases are some of the most difficult for family courts to preside over. However, being able to provide protective orders for victims is an important and meaningful step in keeping families safe.

In 2022, 29-year old Melanie Chianese was killed by her mother’s abusive ex-boyfriend. Although Melanie’s mother had a protective order, and Melanie’s own young son was protected, she could not get a protective order for herself because she was an adult. 

To help close this legal loophole, New York passed a domestic violence reform law known as Melanie’s Law in 2024. Melanie’s Law expanded who can receive legal protection from an abuser. 

What Are the Impacts of Melanie’s Law?

Melanie’s Law expands important protections for domestic violence victims in several ways. 

Closes a Major Legal Gap

Courts can now issue protective orders to all family and household members of a domestic violence victim. Before Melanie’s Law was passed, courts could issue protective orders mainly for direct victims of domestic violence or minor children in their care. 

Adult family members, including adult children, siblings, or other relatives, often could not get protective orders, even if they were at risk. 

Expands Individual Legal Rights

Adult family members at risk can file their own petitions in family court, not just be added to someone else’s case. Judges now treat them as independent protected parties.

Recognizes the “Ripple Effect” of Domestic Violence

Domestic violence affects entire families, even extended family members, not just one person. Abusers may target relatives when they cannot act against the primary victim. Every family member should have access to legal protection.

Improves Prevention and Safety Outcomes

Melanie’s Law gives courts more flexibility to tailor protective orders to reflect real-world scenarios and danger. By expanding who can receive protection, the law encourages earlier intervention before violence escalates, and reduces the chance for abusers to exploit legal technicalities. 

Symbolic Impact

While tragedies are unfortunate, they can sometimes also expose gaps in the legal system the way Melanie’s case did. Fixing those problems is one way to bring good from a terrible situation. Melanie’s Law signals a shift toward a more victim-centered and family-aware domestic violence policy that reflects real-world situations. 

Protective Orders in Other States 

Every state has its own laws regarding protective orders in domestic violence cases. Although Melanie’s Law is specific to New York, its passage could inspire similar legislation in other states. In addition, family lawyers and advocates can now cite Melanie’s Law as a model. 

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Schedule a Free Domestic Violence Consultation

If you or someone you love is experiencing domestic violence, seek help. The family law attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri (LPEP Law) have extensive experience in fighting for families’ safety. We can help you navigate complicated divorce and custody issues in light of domestic violence as well. Talking to an experienced domestic violence attorney is an important first step. You can schedule a free, no-obligation consultation with LPEP Law to discuss your situation today. Don’t wait to get help. 

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

 

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Michael Lonich

How to Choose the Right Executor for Your Estate

April 15, 2026/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

Selecting the right executor is one of the most important decisions you’ll make when creating your estate plan. Your executor is responsible for carrying out your wishes, managing your assets, and ensuring your estate is administered smoothly. Choosing wisely can help minimize stress for your loved ones and avoid unnecessary legal complications.

What Does an Executor Do?

Before choosing an executor, it’s important to understand the role. An executor is responsible for:

  • Filing your will with the probate court
  • Identifying and managing estate assets
  • Paying debts, taxes, and expenses
  • Distributing assets to beneficiaries according to your will
  • Handling any disputes or legal challenges

This role can take months or even years, depending on the complexity of your estate.

Key Qualities to Look For in an Executor

Not everyone is suited to serve as an executor. Here are some essential traits to consider:

Trustworthiness and Integrity

Your executor will have access to your financial accounts and personal information. Choose someone who is honest, responsible, and capable of acting in the best interests of your beneficiaries.

Organizational Skills

Estate administration involves paperwork, deadlines, and coordination with attorneys, accountants, and courts. An organized individual will be better equipped to manage these responsibilities efficiently.

Financial and Legal Awareness

While your executor doesn’t need to be a legal expert, basic financial literacy and the ability to understand legal documents are important. They should also be comfortable seeking professional guidance when needed.

Availability and Willingness

Serving as an executor can be time-consuming. Make sure the person you choose is willing to take on the role and has the availability to see it through.

Should You Choose a Family Member or a Professional?

Many people choose a close family member, such as a spouse, adult child, or sibling. This can be a good option if the individual is capable and impartial. However, family dynamics can sometimes complicate matters, especially if there are conflicts among beneficiaries.

In more complex situations, you may want to consider appointing a professional executor, such as an attorney or corporate fiduciary. This can provide neutrality and expertise, particularly for larger or more complicated estates.

Consider Potential Conflicts

It’s important to think ahead about how your choice might impact family relationships. For example, naming one child as executor over others could lead to tension. In some cases, co-executors may be appropriate, but this can also slow down decision-making if disagreements arise.

A thoughtful, proactive approach can help reduce the likelihood of disputes during the probate process.

Don’t Forget to Name a Backup Executor

Life circumstances change, and your chosen executor may be unable or unwilling to serve when the time comes. Always name at least one alternate executor in your will to ensure continuity.

Review Your Choice Regularly

Your estate plan should evolve with your life. Revisit your executor designation after major life events such as marriage, divorce, relocation, or the birth of a child to ensure it still aligns with your wishes.

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Work with Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri, Trusted in the Bay Area

Choosing the right executor is just one part of a comprehensive estate plan. An experienced estate planning attorney can help you evaluate your options, avoid common pitfalls, and ensure your wishes are clearly documented.

Contact Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri today to schedule your free consultation and create a plan that protects your legacy and provides peace of mind for your loved ones.

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Mitchell Ehrlich

Implications of New Cohabitation Rights: What Unmarried Couples Need to Know

April 8, 2026/in Family Law /by Mitchell Ehrlich

Romantic partnerships come in various forms. For many couples, choosing to live together without marrying shows commitment without the legal constraints of marriage. For others, it may be due to financial reasons, or they may simply be exploring their compatibility.

Many California laws reflect the realities of modern relationships. However, while options like expanded domestic partnerships offer some legal protections, unmarried couples still face important differences compared to their married counterparts. Understanding these distinctions is essential to protecting your finances, property, and long-term interests.

Cohabitation Does Not Equal Marital Rights

A common misconception is that living together for a certain number of years creates legal rights similar to those of marriage. But that is not the case in California. The state doesn’t recognize common law marriages within its borders, regardless of how long the couple has lived together.

Therefore, unmarried couples do not automatically share property, have rights to spousal support, or inherit from each other. Unless there are formal legal arrangements, each partner is treated as an individual according to the state’s laws.

Domestic Partnerships

California does allow adult couples, regardless of gender, to register as domestic partners. A registered domestic partnership can provide many of the same rights and responsibilities as marriage under state law, including community property, spousal support, and child custody.

However, domestic partners are not eligible for the same federal rights as married couples. They can’t file income taxes jointly. Additionally, they aren’t entitled to Social Security benefits and can’t sponsor their partner for immigration.

Documentation Determines Property Ownership

For unmarried couples, property rights aren’t governed by the state’s community property laws. Instead, ownership is typically determined by whose name is listed on the title, deed, or account. This can create significant problems if one partner contributes financially to an asset that is legally owned by the other.

Since there is no presumption of shared ownership, conflicts often arise when a relationship ends. Courts will often look to written agreements or other evidence of intent when determining how property should be divided.

Cohabitation Agreements Are Essential

Since there are no automatic legal protections for cohabiting partners, couples are increasingly looking to cohabitation agreements. These legal contracts allow couples to define how they will handle finances and other assets during their relationship and in the event of a breakup.

Courts will typically enforce cohabitation agreements, provided they meet the requirements of a standard contract and are not based solely on intimate relationships.

Marvin Claims

California does allow palimony agreements. One partner can pursue financial claims after a breakup under a “Marvin claim.” These cases are based on the idea that one partner made promises or that there was an implied agreement regarding financial support or sharing assets.

Still, without documentation, these claims can be difficult to prove. A partner can be at a disadvantage if they rely solely on an informal understanding or verbal agreement. 

Estate Planning is Essential for Unmarried Couples

Unlike married couples, unmarried partners do not automatically inherit from one another. If one partner dies without a will, the surviving partner may have no legal right to any portion of the estate.

Cohabitating couples should take proactive steps, such as creating a will and naming a power of attorney and a health care agent. These ensure that each partner’s wishes are honored and that the other can step in to help if needed.

Considerations for Unmarried Couples with Children

When a married couple has a child, the husband is automatically listed as the father on the birth certificate. Unmarried couples don’t have that same advantage. Legal paternity must first be established, either by a voluntary acknowledgement of paternity or DNA testing. 

With legal parentage, both parents can have custody rights and financial responsibilities similar to those of married parents.

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Protect Your Rights

Cohabitation offers flexibility, but doesn’t come with the same automatic protections as marriage. Unmarried couples need to put in place those protections through deliberate legal planning.

Our attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri can help you formalize your arrangement. It’s the best way to avoid uncertainty and protect your future.

Schedule your free consultation by calling 408-553-0801.

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Michael Lonich

The Importance of Updating Your Will: Life Events That Trigger Estate Plan Revisions

March 25, 2026/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

Creating a will is a critical step in protecting your loved ones and ensuring your wishes are honored. But an estate plan isn’t a “set it and forget it” document. As life changes, so should your will. Failing to update your estate plan after major life events can lead to unintended consequences, family disputes, or assets being distributed in ways you never intended.

Below are some of the most common life events that should prompt a review, and likely a revision, of your will.

Marriage or Divorce

Getting Married

Marriage can significantly change how your estate should be distributed. In many states, spouses have legal rights to inherit, even if they are not named in a will. Updating your estate plan after marriage ensures your spouse is properly provided for and allows you to revise beneficiary designations, guardianship preferences, and powers of attorney.

Divorce or Legal Separation

Divorce is one of the most critical times to update your will. While some states automatically revoke provisions for an ex-spouse, others do not. Without an update, your former spouse could still inherit assets or remain named as an executor, trustee, or beneficiary; outcomes most people want to avoid.

Birth or Adoption of a Child

Adding New Family Members

Welcoming a child or adopting one is a major life milestone that should trigger an estate plan review. Your will should name a guardian for minor children and ensure assets are distributed in a way that supports their long-term care and education.

Updating Guardianship and Trust Provisions

As children grow, your preferences for guardians or trustees may change. Updating your will allows you to reflect evolving family dynamics and financial circumstances.

Significant Changes in Assets or Finances

Buying or Selling Property

Purchasing a home, inheriting property, or selling a major asset can alter the structure of your estate. Updating your will ensures newly acquired assets are properly titled and distributed according to your wishes.

Starting or Selling a Business

Business ownership adds complexity to estate planning. Changes in ownership, valuation, or succession plans should be reflected in your will to prevent disputes and ensure a smooth transition.

Death or Incapacity of a Loved One

If someone named in your will passes away or becomes incapacitated, your estate plan should be updated promptly. Naming alternate beneficiaries and fiduciaries helps avoid delays and confusion during probate.

Changes in Laws or Personal Priorities

Legal and Tax Updates

Estate and tax laws evolve over time. An outdated will may miss opportunities to reduce taxes or comply with current legal requirements.

Shifting Personal Goals

Your values and priorities may change as you age. Charitable giving, long-term care planning, or providing for grandchildren may become more important over time.

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Keep Your Estate Plan Current

A good rule of thumb is to review your will every three to five years, or anytime a major life event occurs. Regular updates help ensure your estate plan continues to reflect your wishes and protects the people who matter most.

At LPEP, our experienced estate planning attorneys can help you identify necessary updates and guide you through the process, giving you peace of mind that your plan remains current and effective.

Contact us today to schedule your free consultation.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Gina Policastri

The Evolution of Surrogacy Laws: Implications for Modern Families

March 18, 2026/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

In recent decades, surrogacy has emerged from the fringes of reproductive medicine into the mainstream, offering hope to individuals and couples who otherwise could not build a family. However, as its popularity has grown, so too have the legal and ethical complexities surrounding it. 

For families in the Bay Area (and across the country) understanding the evolution of surrogacy laws is essential to navigating the path to parenthood with confidence and clarity.

A Brief History of Surrogacy Law

Surrogacy arrangements were once informal and largely unregulated. In the early days, agreements were based on personal trust, with little legal protection for either party. It wasn’t until the latter part of the 20th century, with advances in reproductive technologies such as in vitro fertilization (IVF), that surrogacy became a more common and viable option. As the practice expanded, so did the need for legal frameworks.

The 1980s and 1990s saw the first wave of legislative responses, largely focused on determining the rights of the birth mother and intended parents. Some states embraced surrogacy contracts, while others, citing concerns about exploitation and commodification of childbirth, enacted bans or restrictions. This patchwork of laws created significant uncertainty, and often unequal access, for families based on where they lived.

Key Legal Milestones

Several significant legal developments have shaped the current landscape:

Contract Enforcement

Courts have increasingly upheld surrogacy agreements, particularly for gestational surrogacy (where the surrogate has no genetic link to the child). This has provided much-needed predictability for intended parents and surrogates alike.

Parentage Orders

Many states now allow intended parents to obtain pre-birth or post-birth parentage orders that establish legal parentage without requiring lengthy adoption proceedings. This is crucial for same-sex couples and single parents by choice.

Non-Discrimination

Laws have evolved to prohibit discrimination in surrogacy based on sexual orientation or marital status, expanding access for LGBTQ+ families.

Despite these advances, significant legal variation remains. Some states have comprehensive statutes; others rely on case law or provide no guidance at all. For intended parents in the Bay Area, where state law is surrogacy-friendly, this means more legal certainty, but for those considering out-of-state arrangements, the landscape can be unpredictable.

Implications for Modern Families

The evolution of surrogacy laws has profound implications for modern families:

Access and Equity

Legal recognition of diverse family structures has broadened access to surrogacy. Same-sex couples and single individuals now have clearer pathways to parentage rights, though disparities persist in states with restrictive laws.

Risk Management

Well-drafted surrogacy agreements and clear parentage statutes reduce legal risk. Intended parents and surrogates can better understand their rights and obligations, minimizing potential disputes.

Cross-Border Challenges

Families who pursue surrogacy across state or international borders must navigate conflicting laws. This can affect everything from custody to citizenship for the child.

Ethical Considerations

As laws evolve, ethical debates continue, particularly around compensation, surrogate protections, and the commercialization of reproduction. Lawmakers and courts are increasingly tasked with balancing individual autonomy with protections against exploitation.

Protecting Your Path to Parenthood

Surrogacy laws have come a long way, offering greater clarity and protection for modern families, especially here in California. Still, every surrogacy journey requires careful legal planning to safeguard the rights of all parties involved.

If you’re considering surrogacy in the Bay Area, our experienced family law team can guide you through each step with confidence and care. 

Contact us today to schedule a free consultation and ensure your path to parenthood is legally secure.

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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