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Planning for the Future: How to Create a Comprehensive Will and Testament

July 9, 2025/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

Although it’s not the most comfortable topic, it’s important to plan for the future even if you are young and in great health. Many people put off writing a will, but drafting a comprehensive will and testament is an important step in making sure your wishes are carried out if you die or become incapacitated. Without a will, important decisions such as who will care for your minor children or who receives your assets might be left in the hands of the court. So how do you create a comprehensive will and testament? Consider the following tips:

Choose an Executor

An executor will be responsible for making sure the terms set out in your will are carried out appropriately. Since they will be managing your financial affairs, choose someone trustworthy who is capable of handling your estate and is willing to accept this role. It’s probably a good idea to name an alternate executor as well in case your first choice falls through.

Make a Detailed List of Assets

Assets are things that you own that have value such as real estate, financial accounts (e.g., bank accounts, stocks and bonds, retirement funds), personal property (e.g., car, boat, jewelry, heirlooms, art), cash, and business assets. Don’t forget to account for your virtual and digital assets as well. 

Designate Beneficiaries

How do you want your assets to be distributed? Be specific about the amount (or items) you want each individual, organization, or charity to receive. The more detail you can provide, the less chance for confusion and conflict.

Appoint a Guardian for Minor Children

For parents with minor children, one of the most important things to include is your choice of a guardian who will take care of them in your stead. Of course, you will choose someone you trust, but, if possible, try to find someone who has an existing (and good) relationship with your children. Make sure the person is willing and able to perform these duties in the long term.

Address Debts and Expenses

Your executor will use the assets in your estate to pay off any outstanding debts like mortgages, loans, credit card bills, medical bills, etc. However, it can be helpful to list your debts and expenses in the same way that you listed your assets to ensure that everything is covered and your beneficiaries will not be subject to creditors or legal action. 

Senior woman filling out a will and testament at home with the help of a female friend.

Sign Your Will Properly

Make sure you understand your state’s laws regarding wills. To be legally binding, your will needs to be signed by you and at least two disinterested adult witnesses (i.e., not beneficiaries). In some states, the witnesses must sign in your presence while other states accept a signed affidavit.

Consult with an Estate Planning Attorney

Although there is software available to help you write a will, it’s always a good idea to talk to a legal professional. They can help you consider tax implications as well as estate planning tools that might be best for your situation such as a special needs trust, a living will, healthcare directives, power of attorney, and more. Your estate planning attorney can also safely store your will for you and set up regular reviews and updates to account for major life changes like getting married or having a child.

Schedule a free consultation with the estate planning group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri to get started on planning your future today!

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges: A Guide for Divorced Parents

July 3, 2025/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

Divorce is often tough, but raising children together after divorce adds a whole new layer of complexity. Co-parenting isn’t always easy, but with the right mindset and a few practical tools, it can be successful. Whether you’re newly divorced or have been navigating this journey for a while, this guide is here to help you manage co-parenting challenges and focus on what matters most: your kids.

What Is Co-Parenting?

Co-parenting is when both parents remain actively involved in their child’s life after a separation or divorce. It means making joint decisions, attending school events, coordinating schedules, and staying in communication, preferably in a way that supports the child’s emotional well-being.

In California, family courts often encourage shared custody arrangements because studies show that children tend to do better when both parents are involved. That said, co-parenting successfully takes work.

Common Co-Parenting Challenges (And How to Handle Them)

Co-parenting comes with challenges, there’s no doubt about it. Here are some of the issues that many parents face when navigating this difficult situation. 

1. Communication Breakdowns

This is probably the most common challenge divorced parents face. Misunderstandings and emotional tension can make it hard to have clear conversations.

Tip: Use neutral, respectful language. Stick to the topic at hand and avoid bringing up past relationship issues. If face-to-face conversations are difficult, consider using parenting apps to keep everything documented and civil.

2. Different Parenting Styles

One parent might be more strict, while the other is more laid-back. This can confuse kids and lead to tension between parents.

Tip: You don’t have to agree on everything, but aim for consistency on the important issues like bedtimes, homework rules, and screen time. Focus on your shared goals: raising happy, healthy, respectful kids.

3. Scheduling Conflicts

Between school, sports, family holidays, and custody agreements, scheduling can quickly get messy.

Tip: Keep a shared calendar and plan ahead, especially for holidays and vacations. Be flexible when you can – life happens, and showing grace can go a long way.

4. Emotional Stress

Even if you’re on good terms with your co-parent, emotions like guilt, anger, or sadness can creep in.

Tip: Take care of yourself, too. Therapy, support groups, or just talking with a friend can help you process your feelings. The more balanced you are emotionally, the better parent you can be.

Sad African American child holding hands with divorced foster parents, symbolizing the emotional challenges of co-parenting.

When to Seek Legal Help for Co-Parenting Challenges

If you’re facing ongoing issues (like a parent not following the custody order, or constant conflict that affects your child), it may be time to revisit your parenting plan. In California, family law courts allow parents to request modifications when circumstances change.

At Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri, our experienced family law attorneys can help you understand your rights and options, and guide you through the legal process if needed.

Contact us today to schedule your free consultation.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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July 2025 LPEP Spotlight: Steven Xiao

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