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What’s A Domestic Partnership?

December 16, 2020/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

The law surrounding a domestic partnership varies from state to state. Understanding the terms surrounding it in your state requires some specific research on your part. Our partners at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri have put together a brief guide explaining what’s a domestic partnership, and the laws about it in California.

What’s A Domestic Partnership?

To understand a domestic partnership, you need to know about its history. The first registry was enacted in 1999 in California. While a partnership can be used by opposite-sex partners, it was originally meant as an option for same-sex couples who legally could not get married. Because of this, a partnership offers certain benefits that marriage offers and recognizes couples who share a domestic life together. What qualifies as a domestic partnership depends on the state in which you reside. California’s family code defines a domestic partnership as being between “two adults who have chosen to share one another’s lives in an intimate and committed relationship of mutual caring.” (1).

There are certain requirements that must be met in order to file for a partnership, also known as a civil union in some states. For a domestic partnership California requires:

Both parties must be legally single – neither party can be married to someone else or be in another domestic partnership. Any prior marriage or partnership must be dissolved or terminated.
The parties cannot be blood-related.
Both parties must be 18 years or older – there is an exception to this rule. If both parties are under 18, they can obtain a court order which allows them to enter into a partnership. This also requires the consent of the legal guardians of the two minors.
Unequivocal consent between both parties entering into the civil union – both parties have to be of sound mind and judgment to consent to the partnership.

At a certain period in time, a couple had to be over the age of 62, but a new law in 2019 granted the opportunity to all couples to have that opportunity now, including those under 18 if they acquire permission from guardians and the court.

How To File For A Partnership In California

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While you can file on your own, it can be very beneficial to file with the help of a domestic partnership California attorney. They can walk you through the paperwork and help you fill out any information that is needed to successfully file. In California, you and your partner must fill out Form DP-1 to be approved for a partnership. The form must be signed by you and your partner, notarized and a fee must be paid to the Secretary of State in California.

Our experienced family law attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastry can work with you to help you file for a domestic partnership. Alternatively, if you are looking to dissolve a partnership, our attorneys can make the process as painless as possible. Get the help you need. We serve San Jose and the surrounding Bay area. We offer free virtual 30 minute consultations so that you can take the next steps towards filing or dissolving a partnership. Set up your consultation here. Learn more about domestic partnerships here.

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All About Child Custody Modification

November 25, 2020/in Family Law /by Gretchen Boger

Child custody is an important part of any divorce when children are involved. Circumstances vary and depend greatly on many determining factors such as a history of abuse or addiction, means to provide, and whatever is in the best interest of the child(ren). Once a judge has made a ruling on the custody agreement between two parties, is it set in stone? Things can be changed through a child custody modification. What is it and when can it be used?

What Is A Child Custody Modification?

A modification is when, due to certain circumstances, a custody agreement is altered to accommodate the new needs and lifestyle changes of the parents and child(ren). If the two parties can agree on the changes there is a good chance of them being approved, but sometimes parents can’t come to an agreement. In this case, a modification to the custody and visitation order will have to go through the court. There are many reasons a modification may be necessary.

Reasons For Custody Modifications

Many things can constitute a change in a custody or visitation agreement. For it to be approved by the court, there has to be evidence that the current agreement is not working for both parties any longer in some way or another. What qualifies as a reason for a modification?

Addiction & Substance Abuse

If one parent is displaying evidence of addiction to alcohol or other dangerous substances, this can be grounds for modification. These problems can make a parent unfit to care for or supervise a child. While not impossible, it is unlikely that the addicted party will agree to changes in the custody agreement. In this case, any parent who recognizes this behavior in their co-parent must file with a judge for a modification in the current agreement.

Domestic Violence & Child Abuse

If there are signs that your child is in immediate danger and is not safe in their home, you can request a modification. You may want to speak with a child custody modification lawyer on how to expedite this process for the protection of your child.

Parental Relocations

If a parent is relocating due to new job opportunities or a new marriage, or some other reason, this can affect the visitation schedule. Both parents should work together to come up with a practical solution where both parties get to spend time with their child(ren). The courts will take into consideration how this will affect the child’s everyday life such as school, activities, relationships, and upbringing.

Violations Of The Current Agreement

If your ex is violating the terms of your current agreement such as not adhering to the visitation schedule or not communicating openly about the care of your child, or keeping your child from you despite the rights granted to you in the agreement, you are eligible for a child custody modification. You can contact a lawyer to learn how to modify custody if you are unsure of your next steps.

How To Change A Custody Order

Changing a custody order is a simple process as long as the courts approve. If you and the other parent are in agreement about what modifications you want to take place, you can jointly submit the proposed agreement to the court for approval. If you and the other parent are not in agreement, one parent will need to file for a proposed modification with the court. It must be approved to be legally binding, otherwise, no parent is required to follow it. It is recommended to get an experienced child custody attorney to help with this process, especially if your ex is in disagreement with your proposed change.

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Our attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri can explain how to modify custody and what your options are. At the end of the day, the courts care most about what is in the best interest of the child(ren). If you live in the Bay Area, set up a free virtual 30-minute consultation here. Learn more about child custody modifications here.

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How Far Can A Parent Move With Joint Custody

November 13, 2020/in Family Law /by Mitchell Ehrlich

When you share joint custody with your ex, the idea of a big life change such as moving can be scary. The results can be uncertain and what will happen is at the discretion of a judge. If you are the parent of a child and want to move away or if your ex wants to relocate and move the child with them, what’s next? How far you can move with your child is determined by many factors.

Joint Custody & Parental Relocation

If you are planning to relocate with your child, you should know about the process you’ll need to go through to legally relocate. There are steps that you must go through to get approved for relocating your child in the case of joint custody. The main takeaway is that the judge must find the move in the best interest of your child(ren).

When a joint custody order is already in place, parental relocation is considered a modification by the court. This means that it is a requested change to the existing order. In California, a move-away modification is necessary if a parent plans to move 50+ miles away from their local residence, although, in large, unclear areas, this can be less.

The current parental schedule will be considered when approving or disapproving the modification. The modification can be filed by the parent looking for permission to relocate, or by the remaining parent who wishes to update the custody agreement so that they don’t lose time with their child(ren). When parents share joint custody, the court has a lot more to consider in determining if the move-away can happen. The courts must decide that the move is not harmful to the child in any way in order to approve it.

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Many things matter when it comes to whether your child will be allowed to relocate with you, and how far you can relocate:

The accessibility of the move – this has to do with distance and expenses related to visitation by the other parent if the move is approved.
The current visitation schedule – This will take into account how much time the child spends living with each parent and the effect this time has on the child(ren).
The child’s relationship with each parent – The child’s feelings matter when approving a move-away order, but the judge will also determine what is in their best interest. They will also consider the age and needs of the child.
The support network – This considers the family and friends, and support system living nearby the child. Will there be a larger network for the child in the proposed residence or are they being taken away from a current community?
The reason behind the move – Was one parent offered a job? Are they remarrying? Or are they seeking to separate one parent from their child?
The relationship between the parents – The judge wants the parent who is the most reliable when it comes to maintaining and encouraging continual communication and contact between the child and their other parent.

You can work with a lawyer to file for a modification to your joint custody agreement. The distance you can move can only be determined by a judge. They can help you gather documents and evidence to support that the move is in the best interest of the child. They can also work with your ex to try and come to an agreement to the custody order that you both are satisfied with, which you can then take to court for approval.

If you live in San Jose, Santa Clara, or the surrounding communities, contact Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri for a free consultation. Our experienced attorneys offer complimentary 30-minute virtual consultations to clients. Set yours up here.

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What Is A Restraining Order & How To Get One

October 21, 2020/in Family Law, Personal /by Riley Pennington

Nobody should have to live in constant fear of another person. Yet physical or emotional abuse is not uncommon, and many people are often left unsure of how to protect themselves. Fortunately, there are legal processes that can protect you from having to deal with harassment, abuse, or being stalked. If you are fearful for your or your loved ones’ safety, then it is essential that you know how to get a restraining order, which is the first legal step in protecting your safety.

A restraining order(RO) is a legal order that a protected person can file against the restrained person in order to prevent them from taking harmful actions towards the protected person. The protected person may also name other people such as their children or relatives to be protected as well.

Before filing a restraining order, it is important to determine what you want the restrained person to be prohibited from doing. There are three types of restrictions that may be placed on a restrained person. A person may file for all three types of restrictions, depending on the severity of the abusive relationship.

Personal conduct orders are restraining orders that forbid the restrained person from committing acts against the protected person such as:
- Contacting, calling, or sending any type of digital communication
- Stalking or harassing
- Threatening
- Sexual assault
- Physical attacks
- Destroying the property of the protected person(s)
- Disturbing the peace of the person(s)
Stay-away orders are restraining orders that prevent the restrained person from entering within a specified physical distance of the protected person. The protected area can include places such as:
- The home and workplace of the protected person
- The protected person’s vehicle
- The protected person’s child’s daycare facility
- Other essential areas that the protected person frequents
Residence exclusion orders, also known as “kick-out” or “move-out” orders, order the restrained person to move away from the place of residence of the protected person. A residence exclusion order can only be ordered if the restrained person lives with the protected person(s).

How to Get a Restraining Order(RO)

Before filing a restraining order in California, you need to determine which type of RO you need. The type of restraining order depends on the nature of the relationship with the restrained person. You must select one of the four of the following types of restraining orders when filing.

A domestic abuse RO, which protects people who are living with or closely related to the abuser such as a spouse, parent, sibling, grandparent, or someone who the protected person is dating or has children with
A civil harassment RO, which protects people that the victim is not closely related to (an aunt or cousin) and other non-relatives such as friends, coworkers, or any other person.
An elder or dependent abuse RO, which protects adults who are dependent on the person committing abuse
A workplace violence RO, which is a restraining order that an employer can file in order to protect an employee from harm. It is important to note that only the employer can file this type of restraining order. The employee who is the victim may file a civil harassment RO.

In order to get a restraining order in California, you or your restraining order attorney must complete and file the legal court documents to begin the RO process. When you file the paperwork you should bring legal identification and any paperwork related to the restraining order such as past filings or paperwork associated with an emergency protective order.

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Once the documents are complete, you must file the paperwork with the courthouse. In Santa Clara County, Domestic violence restraining orders are free, as well as civil harassment restraining orders if an act of violence has occurred. However, if no acts of violence have occurred, then there will be a fee for filing the civil harassment restraining order. If your income is low, you may want to bring pay stubs so that you may qualify for a fee waiver.

Once the paperwork is filed, a temporary restraining order may be granted until the date of the court hearing. During the court hearing, the judge will review the evidence and determine if further protection is necessary. The judge may grant protection for up to five years, at which point the protected person may file for a new restraining order.

There are incidences, however, in which the protected person is in danger and needs immediate protection. If you face an immediate threat to your safety, you may call the police to help remove the restrained person from your vicinity. The police may then file an emergency protective order which lasts for five to seven days, allowing you or your lawyer the time to file a temporary restraining order at the courthouse.

If you live in San Jose or the surrounding Bay Area and need help acquiring a domestic violence restraining order, contact one of our experienced attorneys today. We offer free 30 minute consultations. Set yours up here.

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How To Help A Loved One Experiencing Domestic Violence

October 7, 2020/in Family Law, Personal /by Virginia Lively

Millions of Americans are the victims of domestic abuse yearly. It’s likely that you have either faced it yourself or have a loved one who has. But what about your loved ones who are currently experiencing violence? How do you help them? If you’re noticing signs of domestic violence, or if your loved one has confided in you, there are steps you can take to help. Learn what you can do from an experienced domestic violence lawyer.

Signs of Domestic Violence

If you suspect that your friend or family member is experiencing domestic violence, there are some signs you can look for. Some are more obvious than others. You might notice…

Their partner or family member shows signs of possessiveness or a controlling nature
Their self-esteem and self-worth has taken a nosedive since entering the relationship
Their partner is excessively jealous
Their partner yells at or humiliates them frequently
They frequently have bruises or other injuries
They no longer have time to spend with friends or family, or people other than their partner (Abusers work to isolate their victims from a support system as a way of trapping them).

This is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to warning signs of domestic abuse. If your loved one hasn’t confided in you that they are being abused, there are certain ways to handle the situation, and it must be done delicately.

Supporting Your Loved One

Your first instinct may be to get the help of the police or a domestic violence lawyer. While this is necessary in the eventual resolution of the situation, this isn’t always the right, first step. Often, many victims of domestic violence are not ready to confront the fact that they are victims. They may have a lot of shame around the situation, and abusers often make their victims feel that they are at fault for their own abuse.

Don’t begin by telling them they are being abused and how they should handle it, although this may be your first instinct. Instead, start by expressing concern in a safe, private place away from the abuser. Listen to and support your loved one, and believe what they have to say. Do not be judgemental in any way. You need to validate them and remind them that they do not deserve to be hurt and that they are not to blame. That is so important, as they may feel it is their fault. Work to build up their self-esteem by reminding them of their worth and all of their positive qualities. For them to take the first steps towards leaving the situation, they need to believe they deserve to leave. Help them rebuild a support system. Abusers work to actively isolate their victims and drive their loved ones away so as to maintain control over their victim. By encouraging and helping your loved one rebuild those connections, you are building a strong foundation to support them when they leave. Ultimately, you need to put the power in your loved one’s hands. You need to remind them that they are strong and that they call the shots. Reminding them of their power can lead to the eventual will power they need to stand up for themselves and leave an abusive situation.

Getting Help

When your friend or family member has decided that they are ready to take the next step in leaving a bad situation, you should have the resources to help them. You want to know what to do ahead of time so that you can get them out of the situation as quickly as possible and as safely as possible. You will want the number of your local domestic violence helpline. You will also need to reach out to them ahead of time to learn about resources they have to offer.

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You may also want to have the contact number of a domestic violence lawyer who can help in setting up a DVRO (domestic violence restraining order). They can also assist in pressing charges. You want an attorney who has extensive experience in the field of domestic violence, and who can handle the case delicately and discreetly. If your loved one is married to their abuser, a domestic violence lawyer can also aid in divorce litigation – especially if children are involved. In these matters, where there is a lot of hostility, you need an aggressive attorney who can work tirelessly to get justice for your loved one and their children, and to safely extricate them from a violent situation.

Courts tend to favor the interests of the abused spouse, and typically take accusations of abuse very seriously, especially if children are involved. If you have questions about what qualifies as domestic abuse in a court of law, and what your next steps should be in helping your friend, there are a couple resources you can use…

Domestic Abuse Intervention Services

Help a Loved One or Friend

National Domestic Violence Hotline

https://www.thehotline.org/help/help-for-friends-and-family/

LPEP Law – Domestic Violence Lawyer

https://www.lpeplaw.com/family-law/domestic-violence/

If you are based in or around San Jose, you can set up a free 30-minute consultation with one of our domestic violence attorneys here. We believe victims and actively work to create a safer, healthier life for victims and their children.

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