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A couple fights over legal separation and divorce
Virginia Lively

The Difference Between Legal Separation And Divorce

April 10, 2020/in Family Law /by Virginia Lively

The idea that you and your spouse may no longer share your lives together can be devastating and it is common for people to get lost in the emotional toll and legal confusion. When the time is right, however, it is wise to educate yourself on your available options for your next steps with your spouse.

Though the terms legal separation and divorce are often used interchangeably in California, they have distinguishing features. Before pursuing one option, it may be beneficial to understand the difference between legal separation and divorce.

Legal Separation vs. Divorce

Both legal separation and divorce refer to a legal process that arranges the division of property, child custody, visitation rights, and a schedule of alimony payments (when applicable).

A divorce is a firm legal division that legally ends the marriage. People who choose divorce over legal separation are often either hoping to become remarried in the future, hoping to dissolve nearly all financial and legal obligations between the spouses, or see no legal benefit of maintaining their marriage

A wedding band sits on fabric after a couple fought over legal separation and divorce.

Though divorce is more common, there are benefits of maintaining a legal separation.  With a separation, the spouses’ property and financial assets are still divided, however, the spouses often live separately. The key difference is that spouses who legally separate are still considered legally married and can benefit financially if they so desire. 

People who seek legal separation often do so because:

  • The spouses are having significant difficulties but want the option to work on their marriage in the future
  • The spouses have not fulfilled the six-month time period that spouses must meet in the state of California before filing for divorce
  • The spouses do not believe in divorce due to religious or spiritual reasons
  • One spouse receives health or social security benefits that they wish to continue to share with the other
  • The spouses want to maintain the tax savings of a married couple
  • The spouses feel that a separation is less devastating and easier to handle than a divorce

Please keep in mind that certain benefits are not valid after legal separation and it often requires the scrutiny of an experienced lawyer to assess whether the benefits may be shared in a separation.

Often people who undergo a legal separation falsely believe that it is unnecessary to invest in an experienced family law attorney. This mistake can have a devastating financial effect on one spouse if the other spouse hires an aggressive and experienced family law attorney.

The Bottom Line

Though legal separation may appear to be a less complicated process than a divorce, the three most contested issues in a divorce — the separation of assets, child custody and visitation rights, and the schedule of alimony payments — are still all present with legal separation.

Before pursuing a divorce or legal separation, it is advised to speak with an experienced separation and divorce attorney in your area. Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri offers free 30-minute consultations for people wishing to educate themselves in family law practice or who have questions regarding their unique situation.

No matter which option you choose, it is important for you to invest in a qualified and reputable family law attorney in San Jose County. LPEP is one of the largest family law firms in the Bay Area, with more than 100 years of combined experience. Set up a free virtual consultation here.

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A woman is distressed and seeks help from harassment lawyers in San Jose
David Patton

Consulting Harassment Lawyers – How to Seek Out Help

March 25, 2020/in Family Law /by David Patton

Harassment is a form of abuse that no person should have to endure. It can affect your mood, work performance, sleep schedule and overall well-being which may lead to more issues down the road. This is why it’s best to take the steps of dealing with harassment seriously by hiring a harassment lawyer.  Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri can better inform you of what harassment is, how their harassment lawyers can help, and what you can do to protect yourself from harassment and domestic violence in the Bay Area. 

What Qualifies as Harassment? 

Unfortunately, harassment in cases of domestic violence comes in many different forms and is not uncommon. Overall, this type of harassment includes verbal (in person or multimedia communication) or physical actions that create an offensive, hostile, and/or uncomfortable environment for the victim. Sexual harassment includes unwelcome verbal comments or physical actions that are of a sexual nature. 

Typically, to be treated as harassment, the action(s) must happen more than once. There are exceptions to this in cases of extreme acts of harassment, aggression, abuse, etc.

A woman seeks help from harassment lawyers after a man disrespects her boundaries.

Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri deals specifically with harassment in regards to domestic violence cases. If you are being harassed and abused by someone close to you, help is available. 

35.6% of women and 28.5% of men in the United States have experienced abuse or harassment in some form by an intimate partner in their lifetime. That’s over 1 in 3 women and more than 1 in 4 men (National Domestic Violence Hotline).




If you’re suffering from domestic abuse and harassment, or if you feel unsafe, there are steps you can take. 

Safety Precautions 

Meeting with a harassment lawyer is a good idea if you are unsure of what actions to take. Until then, be sure to keep documentation of any occurrences related to the harassment and any information that could be of use later on. 

If possible, reach out to someone you can trust. Attempt to find witnesses who will support you and back you up. 

Keep records of every important detail regarding your situation in case you need it later. Reach out for assistance if at all necessary, to ensure you are doing the best for yourself.

You may want to consider getting a restraining order for your personal safety and the safety of your children if you have them.

What Harassment Lawyers Can Do for You 

Seeking out a lawyer before reporting your harassment may be best for you if there are chances of retaliation from your harasser, or if you are unsure of how to properly report the harassment or domestic violence. There is nothing wrong with contacting a harassment lawyer just to be safe. Domestic violence is a delicate matter that requires knowledgeable and responsible guidance. 

A woman consults a team of harassment lawyers about her DVRO case.

Harassment lawyers can help you decide and go through the necessary steps of reporting harassment or abuse following your area’s laws. Helping with descriptive statements and documentation can come as a great help in case nerves or fear set in while attempting to recall events later on. 

A lawyer can also help you set up a restraining order with the local authorities. They can work with you to gather evidence proving your claims, and can help develop the stipulations under which you want the restraining order to function and protect you. 

In addition to this, harassment lawyers will monitor the behavior regarding your harasser and their responses to the report. A lawyer can aid in ensuring your safety, as well as the accuracy of all legal statements along the way to bring you the best outcome possible. 

Luckily, harassment and domestic violence is taken seriously in the Bay Area and surrounding cities, and LPEP is well equipped to dealing with these situations.

The lawyers at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri are here to help those in the Bay Area get the assistance and safety they deserve. Reach out today if you need direction or legal assistance in regards to workplace harassment. We are discreet. 

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Two rings sit on a table after a couple went through rigorous divorce planning
Gina Policastri

Divorce Planning – What You Need To Know

March 13, 2020/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

Are you and your spouse considering divorce? It’s a tricky subject and often, a point of contention. Taking the necessary steps to ensure you’re prepared can make all the difference. Hiring a divorce lawyer to help you with divorce planning is recommended for a myriad of reasons; one being that it can prevent a nasty trial in some cases.

Our San Jose divorce lawyers explain what you need to know to prepare for your divorce. 

What Is Divorce Planning?

Divorce planning is done by a spouse with the help of a divorce lawyer. In the time leading up to actually requesting a divorce from your spouse, you will work with an attorney to plan out where you are currently and where you want to be after your divorce. 

Divorce planning covers all areas of your life from your living situation to child custody. The end goal is to make your divorce as smooth as possible and to result in a favorable outcome for you. 

A spouse hands their ring to another after finding out they've been doing divorce planning.

What Areas Should You And Your Divorce Attorney Consider?

  • How to tell your spouse – One of the most rattling parts of divorce is deciding how to broach the subject with your spouse. It can be intimidating and often very emotional. An experienced divorce lawyer can work with you to anticipate how your spouse is likely to react to the news, and how best to approach the subject with them for an efficient, logical conversation.

    You may also need to plan how to tell your children about the divorce. This is something you can plan ahead of time and then collaborate on with your spouse after you’ve informed them of your decision.
  • Where you will live – As a couple, you most likely have acquired property together. At the very least, you are on a lease together. You will need to create a plan with your attorney for where you will live. You can do this by planning out a budget to ensure you can afford new living situations. You will also have to consider where your children will live during the divorce if you have children with your spouse.

  • Spousal Support – If you are the breadwinner or the sole earner of your household, be prepared for the financial responsibility you have towards your spouse. You may be required by court to pay spousal support during the divorce proceedings. If you are the non-earning spouse, don’t expect spousal support. It is not guaranteed. It is best to consider getting a job. A divorce lawyer can help inform you of your options, whether you’re the primary earner or the non-earner in your relationship. 

  • What about the children? – If you have children, there is a lot of planning to be done in this area. For instance, where will they live? Will you and your spouse share custody or do you plan to fight for sole custody? If you’re the primary earner, you will probably have to pay child support. You will need to work with a divorce lawyer to plan for the specifics of this future expense. If you are the non-earner, will you be requesting child support? If you and your spouse live in different districts, where will the children attend school, and how will the custody schedule work around that schedule?

  • Paperwork – An experienced attorney can inform you of all the paperwork and documents you will need to file for divorce. They can also guide you through the filing process such as where to file and what the laws are regarding divorce. 
A person meets with a divorce planning lawyer

Having an experienced divorce lawyer to help you with divorce planning is crucial. They can keep you informed and position you for the best possible outcome for your divorce. Whatever your position in the marriage, Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri is prepared to help you. Get strong representation to help you with your plan. Set up a free planning consultation today.

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A person signs a last will with the help of a San Jose attorney
Michael Lonich

What Goes Into Setting Up A Last Will?

February 20, 2020/1 Comment/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

The idea that you will not be around forever is never an easy truth to face, and knowing that you will leave behind loved ones makes it even more challenging. 

In order to make the situation easier for your loved ones, it is essential that you take the appropriate actions to guarantee that you will leave them with their intended assets.

The most important thing that you can do to ensure that your property is handled appropriately is to create a last will. A will is a legal document that dictates who will receive your property, names guardians for your children, and even allows you to specify funeral arrangements.

Steps to Creating a Last Will

1. Do Your Research

The most important step in setting up your last will is to conduct research and do your due diligence to ensure that the appropriate legal measures are taken. These specific processes vary by state, thus it is highly recommended to conduct this process with the assistance of a qualified and reputable lawyer.

2. Aggregate Your Assets

When setting up your last will, it is imperative that you create an organized list that includes all your real estate, bank accounts, insurance policies, and retirement accounts. Make sure that all of the account numbers, answers to security questions, and any other necessary information is included.

3. Choose Your Executor

An executor of the will is the person legally responsible for ensuring that all specifications of your will are carried out, your assets are appropriately distributed, and that your financial assets are resolved.

It is highly recommended that this person receives part of your assets since they bear the responsibility of executing your will.

4. Choose Your Beneficiaries

Your beneficiaries are the people who will receive your assets upon your passing. It is important that you are specific with naming the people and stating the amounts that they will receive. 

A person names their beneficiaries in their last will with the help of an attorney.

5. Name Guardians for Your Children

If you have children under the age of 18, it is recommended to make a list of at least three guardians (in order of preference) for your children if you pass away. This ensures that there are people of your choosing who will take care of your children if the first choice is unable to do so. If you have the means, it is wise to leave the guardians with financial assistance by naming them as beneficiaries as well.

6. Select a Witness to Sign Your Last Will

You must have a witness sign your will who is not a beneficiary. The number of witnesses involved and the formalities of signing vary by state. It is important that the specifications are carried through exactly as mandated or else your will may not hold up during probate 

7. Keep Your Will In a Safe Location

Once your last will has been lawfully created, it is important to keep it in a safe, secure, and accessible location. It is also wise to inform a trusted person, perhaps your executor, of its locations.

Updating Your Last Will

You should always update your will after the event of a significant life event regarding:

  • A marriage or divorce
  • An acquisition of new property
  • The birth of a child
  • The death of a spouse
  • The sale or purchase of a business

The Bottom Line

If your estate is particularly large, you have joint custody of a property, you own a business, you own property abroad, or if you think someone may question the validity of your will then it is especially important to hire a lawyer for your last will.

Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri in San Jose is a reputable law firm whose lawyers make it their priority to protect your assets from an extensive probate process. 

If you are living in San Jose and want to leave a legacy for your loved ones, our attorneys will help make your intentions a reality. Set up a free consultation with us. 

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A person signs a buy-sell agreement
Michael Lonich

Buy-Sell Agreement In Family Business

January 29, 2020/in Business Law, Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

You may have heard of shareholder agreements but have you heard of the more specific Buy-Sell Agreement? This is a fundamental succession planning tool when it comes to owning and operating a business. It is especially helpful in the case of family businesses. 

What Is A Buy-Sell Agreement?

Similar to how a will dictates how assets will be transferred in death, a buy-sell agreement is a legal document that dictates where an owner or partner’s share of a business will go in the case of certain life events (i.e. death, retirement, etc.)

Having an agreement like this in place protects the family business. It protects family assets so that everything stays in the family’s control and so that nothing can be transferred outside the family. These agreements can dictate the succession of ownership.

How It Protects Your Family Business


Often, for a myriad of reasons, one family member or partner will try to sell their share of the business. This can cause issues if they’re trying to sell their share outside of the family.Without an agreement in place, they can sell their share off legally despite their intentions. Setting up a buy-sell agreement means you can dictate how shares and assets are transferred or sold. You can create certain stipulations that prevent a family member from selling outside the family. 

A married couple sets up precautions of a divorce in their buy-sell agreement

It can also help to have an agreement in place in case of a divorce. In California, any assets acquired during a marriage qualify as community property. This means that a spouse of the family owner can lay claim to their share of the family business. If you create a strict buy-sell document that requires the spouse to sell their share back to the company in the case of a divorce, you can prevent the share from transferring outside of the family. 

The agreements are meant to be put in place in preparation of certain life events. If there is a divorce, or a retirement or a death, a plan is in place to prevent chaos.  It is also great to have in place in the case of incapacitation which can include dementia or other things that prevent a person from acting in a mentally sound way or making informed choices. 

Having a buy-sell agreement can assure the long term survival of a family business. Why would you not want to have that added layer of protection? 

A Buy-Sell Agreement…

  • Ensures shares stay in the family
  • Creates a special space where shares can be bought and sold under dictated parameters 
  • Identifies potential future events and conditions that trigger the agreement. These will determine what happens to that share
  • Determines the valuation of business shares
  • Specifies the source of funding for the purchase. Where does the money that will be paid in the transfer come from? 

If you own a family business or a partner in one, you should consider the benefits of having a buy-sell agreement. That extra protection can ensure the longevity of your company. Live in the greater San Jose and Bay area? Set up your free consultation with Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri today.

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