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The Role of a Guardian ad Litem in Family Law Cases

January 24, 2025/in Family Law /by Gretchen Boger

Family law cases can be emotionally charged and complex, particularly when they involve children. In some situations, the court appoints a Guardian ad Litem (GAL) to ensure that the child’s best interests are represented. But what exactly does this role entail? Let’s explore.

What Is a Guardian ad Litem in Family Law?

A Guardian ad Litem (GAL) is a court-appointed advocate dedicated to representing a child’s best interests during legal proceedings. Unlike a traditional guardian, a GAL does not assume custody of the child but instead serves as an independent voice in court, focusing on what outcomes will most benefit the child.

When is a Guardian ad Litem assigned to family law cases?

 A Guardian ad Litem is usually appointed in family law cases involving specific concerns or disputes:

  • Child custody disputes: When parents disagree on living arrangements or visitation schedules.
  • Allegations of abuse or neglect: To assess the child’s safety and well-being.
  • Adoption cases: To ensure the adoption serves the child’s interests.

The court may also appoint a GAL in other cases where the child’s welfare is a significant concern.

Responsibilities of a Guardian ad Litem in Family Law

  1. Investigating the Child’s Situation

A GAL conducts a thorough investigation by:

  • Interviewing the child, parents, and other family members.
  • Speaking with teachers, doctors, and therapists.
  • Reviewing relevant documents, such as school records and medical reports.
  1. Reporting Findings to the Court

After gathering information, the GAL prepares a detailed report outlining their recommendations. This report can influence the court’s decisions on custody, visitation, or other arrangements affecting the child.

  1. Advocating for the Child’s Best Interests

During hearings or mediation, the GAL speaks on behalf of the child, ensuring their needs and well-being remain the priority.

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How Does a Guardian ad Litem Help?

A GAL provides an unbiased perspective in family law cases. They help the court navigate the emotional and legal complexities of disputes by focusing on facts and evidence. Their involvement can:

  • Reduce conflict: Their recommendations may help parents reach an agreement.
  • Protect the child: In cases of abuse or neglect, the GAL ensures the child’s safety is addressed.
  • Streamline the process: By providing clear insights, the GAL aids the court in making informed decisions efficiently.

What to Expect as a Parent

If a GAL is appointed in your case, it’s important to:

  • Be honest and cooperative during interviews.
  • Provide access to relevant documents or professionals.
  • Understand that the GAL is not taking sides but is focused on the child’s needs.

Call LPEP to Discuss Your Family Law Case

The role of a Guardian ad Litem is critical in family law cases involving children. They provide an independent voice to ensure decisions are made in the child’s best interests. While their presence may feel intimidating, understanding their purpose can help parents navigate the process more confidently.

We know that child custody and other family law cases can be difficult to navigate, which is why the team at LPEP is always here for you. Our experienced family law attorneys will guide you through the process, providing all the support you need and doing whatever we can to ensure the best outcome for your family. 

Schedule a free consultation today to discover how LPEP can support you. 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter. 

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Considering Adoption? Key Legal Insights for Your Family

January 9, 2025/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

Adopting a child comes with many emotions. The adoptive parents feel the excitement and joy that accompanies the arrival of a new family member. With those feelings of happiness, adoptive parents may also experience anxiety and uncertainty. In addition to the emotional components that are a part of the adoption process, there are multiple laws and regulations that contribute to the anxiety. 

However, knowledge is the best defense against uncertainty. Having a basic understanding of some key legalities can help you prepare you for your adoption journey.

Age Requirements

California doesn’t have a specific age requirement for adoptive parents. It only requires that they are legal adults, and there is at least a ten-year age gap between the parents and child. The exceptions to this law are adoptions by siblings, stepparents, or another close relative.

If the child is twelve or older, they must give their consent to being adopted.

A Secure and Stable Home

California doesn’t have strict requirements regarding marital status, income, or home ownership. Single individuals and same-sex couples are eligible to adopt. Judges care about what is in the child’s best interest. Therefore, they will look to place a child in a home that can provide them with a safe, supportive, and loving environment.

A thorough criminal background check will be conducted. The judge won’t place a child in a home where one of the occupants has been convicted of the abuse of a spouse or child, neglect, child pornography, rape, sexual assault, or homicide. In addition, there are other felonies that would prohibit the adoption of a child.

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The Home Study Process

The home study is essential in assessing your home environment and ensuring the child is adopted by a loving, nurturing family. There are multiple components involved with the study:

  1. An interview with the social worker to discuss your reasons for adopting, your background, family dynamics, and parenting style
  2. A home visit to ensure your home is safe and suitable for a child.
  3. Documentation regarding your physical and mental health, proof of income, health insurance
  4. References from family and friends

In addition, you will need to attend an adoption training program to prepare you with the skills and knowledge you will need to raise your child, especially if the child has special needs or has experienced trauma.

Do Birth Parents Have Any Legal Rights

Some prospective adoptive parents worry the birth parents will change their minds and take their child back. However, California outlines the legal rights of birth parents in the adoption process. They must voluntarily consent to the adoption. If there is no father listed on the birth certificate, every attempt must be made to locate them.

In an independent adoption, the birth parent has 30 days to revoke their consent.

Many families choose open adoptions. The birth and adoptive families have some level of communication after the adoption. They may share pictures, have video chats, or in-person visits.

Navigating the Adoption Process with LPEP Law

If you are considering adoption, your first step should be contacting one of our lawyers at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri. We will work with you throughout the adoption process to ensure that the paperwork is complete and that legal requirements are met.

We understand that adoption can be an emotional process that involves multiple moving parts. Your attorney will be with you every step of the way, from the initial consultation to finalizing the adoption and beyond.

Contact us for a free consultation by calling (408) 553-0801. Your adoption story can begin today.

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter. 

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Military Family Matters: What Legal Considerations Are Important?

December 26, 2024/in Family Law /by Virginia Lively

Military families face unique challenges that require thoughtful legal planning. From deployment to relocation and the complexities of military benefits, it’s essential to understand the legal considerations that can protect and support service members and their loved ones.

Understanding Military-Specific Legal Protections

Service member’s families benefit from several legal protections designed to safeguard their rights during service. Two critical areas to consider are employment and housing.

The Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) for Military Families

The SCRA provides active-duty military members with protections against financial and legal burdens, such as:

  • Postponing civil court proceedings
  • Capping interest rates on loans and credit cards
  • Protecting against eviction during service

Understanding these rights is crucial for preventing undue financial or legal stress during deployments or other service commitments.

Uniformed Services Employment and Reemployment Rights Act (USERRA)

USERRA ensures job protection for service members when they return from active duty. Employers are legally required to reinstate returning service members to their jobs and provide reasonable accommodations.

Addressing Family Law Issues in Military Life

Family law issues can become complicated for service member families due to frequent relocations, deployments, and state law variations.

Custody and Parenting Plans for Military Families 

Deployments and relocations often impact child custody arrangements. Military families should draft custody agreements that account for:

  • Deployment schedules
  • Relocation possibilities
  • Virtual visitation during periods of separation

Working with an attorney experienced in service member family law can help create a plan that prioritizes the child’s best interests.

Divorce and Spousal Support for Military Families

Divorce in a service member’s family involves unique considerations, such as the division of military pensions and determining eligibility for continued healthcare benefits. Understanding these nuances ensures fair outcomes for both parties.

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Estate Planning for Military Families

Estate planning is essential for service member families to secure their financial future and provide peace of mind.

Powers of Attorney and Wills for Military Families 

Service member members should designate a trusted individual to make legal and financial decisions through a power of attorney. Additionally, drafting a will ensures assets are distributed according to their wishes.

Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP)

The SBP provides financial security for surviving family members. Service members should review and update their SBP elections regularly, especially after major life changes like marriage, divorce, or the birth of a child.

Navigating Military Benefits

Understanding and maximizing military benefits can significantly impact a family’s financial stability.

TRICARE and Healthcare Benefits

TRICARE provides healthcare coverage to service member families. Familiarizing yourself with coverage options, eligibility, and enrollment periods is crucial to maintaining uninterrupted healthcare access.

GI Bill and Education Benefits

The Post-9/11 GI Bill allows service members to transfer unused education benefits to spouses or children. Planning how to utilize these benefits can support the family’s educational goals.

Proactive Legal Planning Is Key: Contact LPEP to Discuss Military Family Matters

Military life is demanding, but proactive legal planning can alleviate stress and protect the well-being of service members and their families. By understanding their rights and benefits, addressing family law issues, and investing in estate planning, service member families can navigate their unique challenges with confidence. 

Consulting with a legal professional familiar with service member issues can provide tailored guidance to meet your family’s needs. At LPEP, our expert attorneys specialize in family law and estate planning. With vast experience in military legal matters, we’ll ensure you and your family are protected and supported in every way possible. 

Contact us today to schedule your free consultation.

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter. 

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How to Navigate International Adoption Legalities

December 12, 2024/in Family Law /by Mitchell Ehrlich

Very few things match the joy of welcoming a new child to your family. Raising children allows us to rediscover the world through their eyes, share our values, and provide them with a home and loving, supportive parents. Some families choose to adopt through an international agency. They may have several reasons for their decision, such as a close connection with the adoptee’s country, a desire to raise a child from a different culture, or a desire to give a child from a disadvantaged area a chance for a better life.

However, international adoptions involve significant paperwork and legal requirements in both the United States and the foreign country. Understanding and preparing for the legalities of an international adoption can help ensure a smoother process.

The Hague Adoption Convention

Established in 1993, the Hague Adoption Convention is an international treaty among 104 countries, including the United States. Its goal is to ensure that intercountry adoptions prioritize the best interests of the child and prevent the abduction and trafficking of children.

The convention emphasizes the child’s best interests and states that foreign adoption should only be considered if there are no suitable families in the child’s home country. It also requires adoption agencies to be accredited and follow rigorous requirements to prevent unethical practices.

Who Oversees the International Adoption Process in the United States?

The Department of State is the central authority for international adoptions. Any adoption service provider needs to be approved by a Department-accredited entity (AE). There are only two AEs: the Intercountry Adoption Accreditation and Maintenance Entity (IAAME) and the Center for Excellence in Adoption Services (CEAS).

The U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) is responsible for determining whether potential adoptive parents are suitable and eligible to adopt a child and whether the child is eligible to travel to the United States.

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Every Country Has Its Own Laws 

The first step in the international adoption process is selecting the country you want to adopt from. Since each country has different eligibility criteria and adoption laws, you will want to thoroughly research everything involved in the adoption process.

In addition to the U.S. legal requirements for bringing a child into the States, the country of origin has its own regulations and procedures, such as age, income, marital status, and the parents’ health. For example, some countries won’t allow same-sex couples to adopt. 

It’s also imperative to keep abreast of changing laws regarding international adoptions. As of August 28, 2024, China has halted all foreign adoptions.

Documentation

The Department of State and USCIS require several legal forms. Prospective parents also need to have an approved home study, proof of U.S. citizenship, proof of marital status, medical records, birth certificates, and financial statements. 

The adoption process will be prolonged and more costly without the necessary legal documents.

LPEP Law Can Help

If you are considering adopting a child from a foreign country, you should work with an attorney who can ensure your documentation is complete. Our attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri can assist you in navigating the legalities and bureaucratic obstacles. 

We will ensure you clearly understand each step in the international adoption process. Once you are back home with your child, our attorneys will help you complete the necessary steps to legalize the adoption in the United States.

Contact us for a free consultation on the international adoption process by calling (408) 553-0801.

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter. 

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The Legal Implications of Moving Out of State with Children

November 27, 2024/in Family Law /by Gretchen Boger

Child custody situations are rarely easy or cut-and-dried. One issue that might come up is when the custodial parent wants or needs to move out of state. What if you need to move out of the country? Can you take your children with you? How does the court decide?

While each case is unique, there are legal implications to consider when deciding whether to move out of state with your children, especially if you have a custody agreement in place with your former spouse or other court orders regarding custody and visitation. 

Best Interests of the Children

When a custodial parent requests to relocate with their children, the family court’s primary focus is always the best interests of the children. For older children, the court may consider their preferences and also look closely at their relationship with the non-custodial parent. The court will also assess whether the move would positively impact the children’s quality of life, such as through proximity to extended family, better educational opportunities, or improved access to healthcare.

If the court concludes that the relocation would not benefit the child, the request can be denied. In such cases, the custodial parent may be required to remain in the state, or custody could be transferred to the non-custodial parent.

Custody Agreements

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Visitation Rights

If you decide to move out of state with your children, you will need to address the non-custodial parent’s visitation rights. More than likely, you will need to revise any existing visitation schedules and may need to consider ensuring the non-custodial parent has extended visits such as the children spending the entire summer and school vacations with them. Visitation schedules will vary depending on the age of your children, but it’s important for them to maintain regular contact with the non-custodial parent to ensure the stability of their relationship. You may need to consider how you will make travel arrangements for your children to go back and forth on a regular basis.

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Notice Requirements

Most states require that you notify the non-custodial parent before you move. The amount of time you have for this notification varies by state, though, so you should do some research or check with local family law attorneys for specific requirements.

Consult with Family Law Experts 

It’s always a good idea to consult with experts, especially with something as important and emotionally charged as child custody issues. The family law group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri (LPEP Law) has years of experience addressing the legal implications of parental relocations, including how best to prove what is in the best interest of the child. Our attorneys also have substantial experience in international child relocations, involving foreign nationals and their spouses. LPEP works with families to make sure they understand their legal rights and obligations, and we are committed to protecting our client’s parental rights. Call us today at 408-553-0801 to schedule a free consultation to discuss your case.

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter. 

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Demystifying Child Custody Laws: What Every Parent Should Know

November 14, 2024/in Family Law /by Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri

For parents going through a divorce, child custody and visitation issues are often some of the most difficult decisions they face. Emotions tend to run high, and all parties involved must work hard to sort through questions and conflicts to make sure the best interests of the child are considered.

During this stressful time, it can be helpful to understand the most common issues you will face, so that you can be better prepared to work with your co-parent in developing the best plan for your child. The following guide goes over several terms you need to familiarize yourself with to help demystify child custody laws.

Types of Custody

There are two types of custody in the eyes of the law. Legal custody refers to who has the right to make major decisions on behalf of the child regarding education, health care, and religion, etc. Physical custody refers to who the child lives with and who takes care of them on a daily basis. Legal and physical custody may be shared by both parents (joint custody) or granted mainly to one parent (sole custody).

Sole physical custody is often easier logistically for both parents and children, especially during the school year so they don’t have to move belongings between two homes. However, many families prefer joint custody to avoid the emotional distress of being separated for significant amounts of time.

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Visitation Rights and Schedules

To ensure the child maintains a meaningful relationship with both parents, most custody arrangements include visitation schedules. The most common schedules are either fixed (i.e., occurring on specific days and times) or flexible (i.e., dependent on the needs and schedules of both parents and the child). In cases where there are any questions or concerns about the safety or welfare of the child with a parent, the court may also require visits to be supervised.

Factors That Influence Custody Decisions

When the family court is considering the best interests of the child, several factors come into play. Above all else, the court wants to ensure a healthy, stable, and safe living environment for the child. Each parent should: 

  • Have a safe, clean, comfortable home for the child
  • Be able to provide for the child’s basic needs, including food, shelter, clothing, transportation, medical care, and school supplies
  • Maintain physical and mental health
  • Be involved in the child’s activities and education
  • Cooperate and communicate well with the co-parent when it comes to the child’s needs

In some cases, when the children are older, the court might also take their preferences into account when making custody decisions.

Get Help With Your Child Custody Case

With something as important as the care of your child, it’s important to have support from experts. For instance, sometimes custody agreements need to be modified, or you might need to go to court to enforce the terms of the custody agreement. If you need help with your custody case, schedule a free, no-obligation consultation with the family law group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri. Let our team help protect your rights and protect your child’s best interests.

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter. 

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Guide to Choosing a Legal Guardian for Your Minor Children

October 10, 2024/in Family Law /by Virginia Lively

One of the most important decisions you can make when thinking about your family’s future, is choosing a legal guardian for your minor children. A legal guardian will be responsible for raising, caring for, and protecting your children, including making vital decisions about their education and healthcare, if you are unable to care for them yourself.

Given the importance of this role, you should have a clear plan in place rather than leave it to the courts to decide. The following guide outlines important considerations to help you choose the best legal guardian for your minor children and what to do once you’ve picked one. 

What To Look for in a Potential Guardian

Of course, you need your children’s guardian to be someone you trust to make decisions in their best interests. Although many people immediately look to family members, close family friends can often be an excellent choice as well, especially if your family dynamics are complicated.

Besides trustworthiness, though, you want to evaluate a potential guardian’s:

  • Values – Does the potential guardian share similar values and beliefs about issues like education, discipline, and religion?
  • Existing relationship with your family – Do your children know the potential guardian and genuinely like them and feel comfortable with them?
  • Health – If your children are younger, it’s especially important to consider the health of the potential guardian. Are they physically able to meet the physical and emotional demands that come with raising children long term? 
  • Location – Where does the potential guardian live? Will your children be able to stay in the same schools and maintain stability in their lifestyle?
  • Finances – Does the potential guardian have a steady income? Will they be able to provide financially for your children’s needs?

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What to Do Once You Have Chosen a Potential Guardian

Once you have some candidates in mind, you should have an honest discussion with them before actually naming them as the guardian. It’s also a good idea to have alternates as well, in case your first choice becomes unavailable. Make sure all candidates are willing and able to take on this role and the responsibilities that come along with it. You might also want to discuss your choice with family members to avoid later conflicts and negative repercussions.

Talk to Your Children

Depending on your children’s ages, explain the situation in a way that is age appropriate and helps them feel secure.

Make Financial Arrangements

Consider establishing a trust to help provide appropriate financial resources to ensure the guardian can take care of your children the way you want. If your child has special needs, a special needs trust might be the best option. 

Talk to an Estate Planning Professional

Once you’ve chosen a guardian and they have agreed, you should consult with an estate planning attorney like the ones at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri (LPEP). Schedule a free, no-obligation consultation with LPEP’s Estate Planning Group to discuss your options and needs. They can help you draft the appropriate documents to put your choice in writing and include specific instructions about your wishes related to your children’s upbringing and future to help the guardian make good decisions. Don’t leave it to chance. Having a plan in place is an important part of protecting your family’s future.

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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How To Get Full Custody of a Child Without Going to Court in California

September 26, 2024/in Family Law /by Mitchell Ehrlich

Tabloids and television shows would have us believing that all child custody matters are contentious court battles in which ex-spouses yell at each other and try to prove the other is an unfit parent. And while that may not always be the case, navigating the process of gaining full custody of your child can indeed be emotionally taxing and complex.

It doesn’t need to be that way. There are options for gaining full custody without the stress and expense of going to court.

California’s Child Custody Laws

Serving the child’s best interests is the court’s primary goal when determining custody. Therefore, the judge will consider the following:

  • The child’s age, health, and emotional ties to each parent
  • Parents’ ability to care for the child
  • If there is a history of abuse, neglect, or domestic violence
  • Preserving continuity in the child’s schooling, community, and family connections
  • The child’s preferences, depending on their age

Why Would One Parent Give Full Custody to the Other Parent?

It may seem surprising that a parent would willingly give up custody of their child, but there are actually several reasons why this may occur:

  1. The parent may believe that the other parent can provide a more stable environment for the child.
  2. Joint custody may be too challenging for one parent due to work, health issues, or other commitments.
  3. The parents have a cooperative relationship and agree that one parent having full custody is in the child’s best interest.

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Determining Child Custody Through Mediation

One of the most effective ways to avoid court is through mediation. A neutral third party works with you and the other parent to facilitate communication and negotiate an agreement that works for everyone.

Mediators are skilled in conflict resolution and can provide a structured environment to discuss sensitive issues. Mediation is generally less adversarial and stressful than court proceedings. It can also save time and money. The couple meets according to their schedule instead of waiting for a court date, and they don’t have the expense of hiring attorneys or court fees. Mediation also allows both parents to have a say in the final agreement rather than having a judge decide.

Child Custody Negotiation Tips

Even with good intentions, child custody discussions can become heated. Therefore, you may want to keep the following ABCs in mind:

Always prioritize the child’s needs and well-being

Be open to compromise in order to reach a mutually acceptable agreement

Communicate honestly and clearly to prevent misunderstandings

LPEP Law Offers Mediation Services

Gaining full custody of a child without going to court may be difficult, but it’s not impossible. It can also be more beneficial for everyone involved. At Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri, we understand that child custody is a deeply personal matter. We offer mediation services and have helped San Jose and the greater Bay Area families resolve custody issues without court interference. 

There are several options for gaining full custody of your child without going to court. Contact us for a free consultation by calling (408) 553-0801 to discuss what option is best for you.

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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How Enforceable is a Court Order that Pertains to Family Law?

September 12, 2024/in Family Law /by Gretchen Boger

Family law cases can be emotionally charged and complex, often involving sensitive issues like child custody, support, and property division. When a court issues an order in a family law case, it’s crucial to understand its enforceability. In this article, we’ll explain how enforceable these court orders are and what can be done if someone fails to comply.

What is a Family Law Court Order?

A family law court order is a legal document issued by a judge that dictates the obligations and rights of the parties involved in a family law case. These orders can cover a wide range of issues, including:

  • Child custody and visitation: Decisions about where a child will live and how much time they will spend with each parent.
  • Child and spousal support: Financial obligations that one party must provide to the other, often to support the well-being of a child or spouse.
  • Property division: Instructions on how marital property should be divided between the parties.
  • Restraining orders: Orders to protect one party from harassment or harm by the other.

Once a judge signs a court order, it is legally binding, meaning both parties must follow it.

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How Enforceable are Family Law Court Orders?

Once a family law court order is issued, it is immediately enforceable. This means that all parties must comply with the terms outlined in the order. Failing to do so can result in legal consequences. For example, if one parent does not follow a child custody arrangement, they can be held in contempt of court.

Consequences of Non-Compliance with Family Court Law Orders

When someone fails to comply with a family law court order, the affected party can request the court’s assistance in enforcing the order. Here are some common steps that can be taken:

  • Filing a contempt motion: If one party is not following the court order, the other party can file a contempt motion, which requests the court to enforce the order and penalize the non-compliant party. Penalties can include fines, jail time, or modifications to the order.
  • Income withholding: For unpaid child or spousal support, the court can issue an income withholding order, requiring the employer of the non-compliant party to deduct the support amount directly from their paycheck.
  • Wage garnishment and liens: In some cases, the court can garnish wages or place a lien on the non-compliant party’s property to satisfy unpaid obligations.
  • Civil arrest warrants: If a person willfully disobeys a court order, the court may issue a civil arrest warrant, leading to their detention until they agree to comply.

As you can see, there are often serious consequences for non-compliance with family law court orders. 

Need Family Law Support? Contact LPEP Today

Family law is complex, and it’s essential to have experts on your side when it comes to understanding the intricacies of each unique case. If you need family legal advice or support, reach out to our experienced team at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri. Our family law attorneys have decades of experience and a proven track record. 

Contact us today to set up your free consultation. 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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What is a Material Change in Circumstance for Custody?

August 29, 2024/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

If you are divorced or separated and have children, you likely worked with your former spouse or a mediator to develop an agreement to provide guidelines for physical custody (i.e., who the child lives with) and legal custody (i.e., who makes decisions on behalf of the child). These agreements are designed to be long-term arrangements to ensure stability for the child involved. However, under certain circumstances, a family court might consider changes to a custody agreement to protect the best interests of the child. 

Legally, a “material change in circumstance” refers to a change in a situation significant enough to affect the outcome of a previous legal decision or agreement. When it comes to material change in circumstances for custody, the following are some of the most common situations that might necessitate a modification of your current agreement.

Change in Parental Circumstances

Several different factors can create changes in circumstances for one or both parents that might result in the need for a new custody agreement, including: 

Relocation – If one parent relocates (for work, due to a new relationship, etc.), the current physical custody arrangement or visitation schedule might become difficult or impossible to maintain. 

Altered financial status – Changes in financial status, for instance getting a higher-paying job, might mean that a non-custodial parent might now be in a better position to be granted joint physical custody. On the flip side, losing a job might impair a custodial parent’s ability to properly care for a child. 

Improvement or deterioration of living situation – Declining health, substance abuse, home foreclosure, etc., might result in a deterioration of a child’s living situation. Conversely, a non-custodial parent might significantly improve their living situation by completing a rehabilitation program, for example, that would allow them to provide a healthy environment for the child.

Behavioral changes – Of course, if either parent begins to exhibit behavior that might negatively impact the child, such as abuse, neglect, or parental alienation, the other parent should file an emergency petition to modify the custody agreement immediately.

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Change in Child’s Preferences or Needs

For older children, especially teenagers, a court might consider a change to a custody agreement based on the child’s preferred living arrangement, as long as the child can present valid reasons for why the change would be a better situation for them.

In some cases, changes in a child’s needs might trigger parents to seek a new custody arrangement. For example, a child who requires special education services might be better served living with a parent who lives in a school district with better resources. 

Joint Request for Change

Parents can file a joint request for a judge to change the terms of their custody agreement if they both agree that modifications are desired, for any reason.

Failure to Uphold Custody Agreement

If either parent refuses to uphold their end of a custody agreement, a family court might step in to order compliance or to change the original agreement as necessary.

Get Help from Family Law Experts

When it comes to your children, you always want what’s best for them. If you are facing custody issues with a former spouse and think you might have grounds to revisit your custody agreement, schedule a free consultation with the Family Law Group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri. Our family law experts have over 100 years of combined litigation experience and are well-versed in helping our clients navigate the complicated landscape of divorce and custody matters.

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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