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Gina Policastri

How to Handle Child Custody When One Parent Wants To Move

November 22, 2022/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

When one parent wants to move with the children, custody arrangements can become very complicated. If you are in this situation, it is essential to know your legal rights and options. This blog post will help you understand what to do if your ex-spouse wants to move with the children and how you can protect your rights as a parent.

How is Child Custody Determined in California?

In California, child custody is the legal right of a parent to have a child live with them. Custody can be either physical or legal. Physical custody means that the child lives with the parent, while legal custody refers to the parent’s ability to make decisions about the child’s education, health, and welfare. 

Child custody can be joint, meaning that both parents have equal rights and responsibilities, or sole, meaning that only one parent has custody. Visitation, or time-sharing, refers to the amount of time that the child spends with each parent.

Custody is typically determined by a judge based on what is in the best interests of the child. 

How “Move-Away” Situations are Handled

Sometimes situations arise where one parent may need to relocate to a different area for work or to be closer to family. If the moving parent has sole physical custody, then it is the other parent’s responsibility to show that the move would be harmful to the family.

However, if parents share joint physical custody and one parent wants to relocate, they must notify the other parent of their intent to move. The parents can discuss changes to the visitation schedule and ensure the non-moving parent can maintain a relationship with their child. If the parents can reach an agreement, they need to file a child custody modification with the court.

But, if the non-moving parent doesn’t want the child to move, the relocating parent must show how the move would be in the child’s best interest.

Courts generally consider the following factors when making a decision about relocation: 

  • The reasons for the move
  • The impact of the move on the children’s schooling, extracurricular activities, and relationships with friends and extended family
  • The ability of the non-custodial parent to maintain a relationship with the children after the move
  • The wishes of the children, depending on their age.

In some cases, other factors may also be considered, such as the move’s financial impact on both parents or the effect on special needs children. Ultimately, however, the court will always prioritize what is in the child’s best interests in making a relocation decision.

Understand Your Options for Custody Arrangements

If you are a parent facing the possibility of your child’s other parent moving away, it is crucial to understand your legal options. Our attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri have extensive experience helping parents in all types of custody cases, including those involving relocation. If you live in San Jose or the greater Bay Area, contact us for a free consultation. We want to learn about your unique situation and help you determine how best to proceed. Fill out our contact form by clicking here or call us at 408-553-0801.

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Michael Lonich

Why Estate Planning is Essential for Parents of Children with Special Needs

November 15, 2022/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

As the parent of a child with special needs, it can be difficult to think about the future when you will no longer be able to personally provide the loving care your child needs and deserves. One important way that you can continue to provide for your child, however, is to have an estate plan in place to ensure they have the legal, financial, and other support they need both now and in the future when you are no longer able to advocate on their behalf. 

What An Estate Plan Includes

Estate planning is not contingent on having a substantial amount of wealth and is not limited to distribution of your assets alone. Rather, estate planning is the process of organizing both your financial and personal affairs to ensure that your final wishes are honored and your loved ones are taken care of after you are gone. For families, estate plans can allow you to assign insurance beneficiaries, plan for funeral expenses, and establish guardianship for living dependents, which is vital if you have young children or children with special needs who might never be in a position to effectively manage an inheritance on their own.

Special Needs Trust

If you are the parent of a special needs child, you must balance giving your child a portion of your estate with ensuring that those finances do not negatively impact your child’s eligibility to receive needs-based public benefits like Medicaid, Social Security Income, or the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program. Many of these benefits are only available to low-income individuals with limited assets, so leaving a lump sum of money as an inheritance to your special needs child might not be in their best interest. Instead, you should consider setting up a special needs trust (SNT), which allows you to leave the property and other assets to your child without disqualifying them from government-funded benefits. Setting up an SNT has the added benefit of allowing your loved one to receive assets from other people, including family members, as well.

If you choose to set up an SNT, you must also appoint a trustee to manage the funds on your child’s behalf. Your trustee will use the funds to support your special needs child’s quality of life, paying for anything he or she might require in the future, which could include, among other things:

  • Food 
  • Transportation
  • Rehabilitation 
  • Clothing 
  • Medical care
  • Entertainment
  • Vacations 
  • Hobbies 

It is important to include specific instructions in your SNT documents about how you want your appointed trustee to distribute the funds to properly care for and support your child. 

Are You the Parent of a Child with Special Needs? We Can Help Protect Their Future.

The best time to begin estate planning, especially if you have a special needs child you want to provide for, is now. Although it can be uncomfortable to consider the inevitable, developing an estate plan can help ease your mind that your wishes will be carried out, and that your family will be protected in the future. Navigating all the different components of a comprehensive estate plan can be daunting, but the estate planning attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri Law can help guide you every step of the way. In fact, our attorneys have particular expertise and experience in developing special needs trusts. Call us today at 408-553-0801 to schedule your free consultation. 

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Gina Policastri

What Rights Does a Biological Father Have in California?

November 8, 2022/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

In California, the legal rights of a biological father depend on his relationship to the child’s mother. When a child is born to a couple who are married or in a domestic partnership, the father is automatically considered the child’s legal father. 

However, the situation becomes more complicated if the couple is unwed. While the biological mother is automatically listed on the birth certificate, the father’s legal rights depend on establishing legal paternity. 

How to Establish Paternity if You Are the Biological Father 

There are a few ways to establish paternity in California if you are the biological father.

The first way is to voluntarily establish paternity with the child’s mother. You can do this by signing a declaration of paternity or by filing a Notice of Acknowledgment of Paternity with the California Department of Child Support Services. 

The second way to establish paternity is through the courts. This can be done by filing a Petition to Establish Parental Relationship or requesting an Order for Genetic Testing. 

Finally, paternity may also be established through the California Department of Social Services if the child is receiving public assistance. 

In California, the biological father of a child has certain legal responsibilities. First and foremost, he is responsible for providing financial support for his child. This support can take the form of regular payments, which the court typically sets based on the father’s income and the needs of the child. The father may also be required to provide health insurance for the child and cover other expenses such as childcare or extracurricular activities.  

He is also obligated to provide a safe and stable home environment, to ensure that the child has access to adequate medical care, and to provide for the child’s education. Furthermore, the father is expected to take an active role in parenting his child, including spending time with the child on a regular basis and being involved in decision-making. 

A father can also petition the court for custody and visitation rights. The father has the right to request joint or sole custody of his child. The court will consider a number of factors in making its decision, including the child’s relationship with the father, the child’s wishes, and the impact of visitation on the child’s safety and well-being. The court will decide based on what is in the child’s best interests. In some cases, this may mean that the father is granted visitation rights rather than full custody.

Know Your Rights 

As a biological father in California, you have several legal rights that are important to understand. But, the legal system may be difficult to navigate on your own. If you need help establishing paternity or understanding your responsibilities and obligations, Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri can help. Contact us for a free consultation. Our team of experienced family law attorneys can review your case and answer any questions you may have. If you live in San Jose or the greater Bay Area, fill out our contact form or call us at 408-553-0801.

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David Patton

What to Know Before Signing a Prenup

October 26, 2022/in Family Law /by David Patton

When two people fall in love and decide to get married, everyone tends to focus only on the exciting events to follow. While marriage is definitely something to celebrate, it is nothing to be taken lightly. It is a lifelong commitment that unfortunately is becoming increasingly likely to end in divorce. A prenuptial agreement can go a long way in ensuring the safety of both partners’ assets, business interests, and family trusts.

What is a prenuptial agreement?

Prenuptial agreements, also known as a “prenup”, is a private agreement between the two spouses-to-be. It sets out the stipulations of your marriage and outlines the provisions for what will happen in the event of a divorce or the untimely death of either spouse. Prenups most commonly outline who will receive property and other assets, including property owned by each spouse prior to getting married and whatever they might acquire together after getting married. In the state of California, this legal document declares the assets and debts of each individual before marriage and how those will be separated after a divorce. A prenup can also dictate how much alimony a spouse is entitled to. It is also becoming more common for pets to be included in prenuptial agreements.

Why get a prenup?

There are many, many reasons to have a prenuptial agreement in place prior to getting married. A few of these are:

  • To protect assets and property owned before getting married.
  • To establish a plan for paying expenses during the marriage.
  • To protect children, parents, or other family members from the fear of a new spouse taking advantage of assets or property.
  • To designate ownership and distribution of benefits from a life insurance policy.
  • To protect a business or estate.

Prenuptial agreements can’t include anything that goes against public policy or that is downright illegal. For example, a prenup that contains anything that will adversely affect the rights of a child will be deemed unenforceable. The courts will always act in the best interest of a child. However, prenups can go above and beyond in making provisions for children. They can dictate the responsibility of each parent for future college expenses and other financial needs of the child. California Family Code Section 1612 specifically states what is legally able to be included and enforced in a prenuptial agreement.

Consult with an expert on whether a prenuptial agreement is right for you.

Having a prenup in place before getting married can give both you and your partner peace of mind. Hopefully it is something you don’t ever need, but in the unfortunate event that a divorce does happen, it is better to know that your assets are protected. Here at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri, we specialize in Family Law and Estate Planning. We have significant experience in drafting prenuptial agreements that can withstand a court challenge. We have combined litigation experience of over 100 years and we know just how messy and complex a divorce can be. Call us today at 408-553-0801 or click here to schedule a free 30-minute consultation.

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Virginia Lively

How Does An Affair Impact Custody Agreements?

October 18, 2022/in Family Law /by Virginia Lively

An affair is a life-altering event. The repercussions of infidelity affect far more people than just the spouse who was cheated on. Often, the party who suffers the most is the most innocent – the children. In addition to their family structure being shaken up, they will now have to split time between both parents. Before this happens, a custody agreement must be arranged in court. So, how does an affair affect custody agreements?

California is a no-fault divorce state.

Here in California, the court system does not need to know the specific reasons why a marriage is being dissolved. Even though an affair might be the reason why a couple is seeking a divorce, the court will rule it as “irreconcilable differences” without determining which party is at fault.

With that being said, infidelity typically has little to no impact on determining child custody. The spouse who was spurned by the affair cannot use being cheated on as a reason to deprive the other parent of custody. The best interest of the child is what the court bases custody rights off of, and a parent’s romantic interests usually don’t have much effect on that.

There are exceptions to every rule.

Although infidelity alone will not have an impact on the custody agreement, other factors which stem from an affair might. For example, if there was domestic violence or substance abuse in the home, that would certainly impact child custody. If the spouse having the affair was neglectful to the children and left them unattended and unsupervised to meet up with their romantic interest, that would also impact custody.

Likewise, if the parent who was cheated on proves to be vindictive and is going to create a negative environment for the children, the court would take that into consideration. The safety and well-being of the children should be the forefront concern for both parents. If either parent is not capable of providing a safe and nurturing environment for their children, that will become a factor in the custody proceedings.

How do I know if an affair will affect my custody agreement?

Every case is different, and there is no “one size fits all” advice when it comes to topics as complex as child custody. Here at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri, we specialize in family law and estate planning. We are located in San Jose, CA, and serve the greater Bay Area. We are one of the largest practices in the Bay Area and we are Board Certified Family Law Specialists. We have been serving the community since 1994. Our attorneys genuinely care about each individual client and we want to take the time necessary to understand your objectives and meet your needs. We have the proper resources, training, and experience to serve your family with the best expertise in the area.

Please give us a call at 408-553-0801 or fill out our contact form for a free consultation. You deserve to know your rights and the best way to proceed with a divorce and custody agreement.

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