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Cohabitation Agreements: A Beneficial Tool For Both Parties

July 8, 2013/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

So your relationship is going well and you’ve decided to start living together. Before couples get married, many consider creating a pre-nuptial agreement. But you’re just moving in together, just testing the waters – no harm, no foul, right? Not necessarily.

Although it may seem like no legal consequences can arise from simply living together*, California recognizes a particularly pesky action: the Marvin claim. In 1976, the California Supreme Court held that express contracts between non-marital partners are enforceable.** In Marvin, Lee and Michelle lived together as an unmarried couple for seven years and Michelle claimed Lee promised to take care of her for the rest of her life. Although Michelle was ultimately unable to provide proof of an implied contract, the Court’s holding was clear: express contracts between unmarried couples are fair game and enforceable.

As a result, with the sharp increase in the number of cohabitating couples in the past decade, a cohabitation agreement is a highly useful tool for unmarried couples to consider – much like a prenuptial agreement is for married couples. Some factors, amongst many more, to keep in mind when drafting a cohabitation agreement include:

  • Everything must be voluntary: cohabitation agreements must be entered into freely and voluntarily – just like prenuptial agreements.
  • Put everything in one document: include an integration clause that provides that the document signed by you and your partner constitutes the entire agreement – that there are no other outside agreements or oral agreements to be taken into consideration.
  • Put everything in writing: have a clause that requires all amendments to be made in writing, preventing the possibility that one party will later argue that later oral or implied changes were made to the original agreement.

A cohabitation agreement can benefit both the Lee’s of the relationship – the wealthier partner who has financially more to lose, and the Michelle’s of the relationship – the “weaker” partner who relied upon a partner’s promise to her financial detriment. If you are interested in creating a cohabitation agreement or reviewing your current cohabitation agreement, please contact our California Certified Family Law Specialists (as certified by the State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization) at Lonich Patton Erlich Policastri. Our attorneys have decades of experience handling complex Family Law matters and are more than happy to meet with you and offer you a free consultation.

Please remember that each individual situation is unique and results discussed in this post are not a guarantee of future results. While this post may include legal issues, it is not legal advice. Use of this site does not create an attorney-client relationship.

 

*1 in 4 people living together believes they have the same legal protections as married couples (http://www.guardian.co.uk/money/2013/mar/09/cohabitation-agreement-essential-non-married-couples).

**Marvin v. Marvin, 18 Cal. 3d 660 (1976)).

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Michael Lonich

Advanced Health Care Directive: Are You Prepared for the Unthinkable?

July 2, 2013/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

No one likes to be powerless, but isn’t it inevitable? Unfortunately, old age, illness, or tragedy will surely reveal itself in each of our futures in some way or another. Instead of waiting helplessly, hoping that you will never live a day in your life incapacitated, you can create a legal document that will ensure that your rights, dignity, and wishes will be protected if you ever become incapable of making or communicating decisions regarding medical care.

An advanced health care directive is a durable power of attorney and performs much like a living will. A power of attorney is a legal document used to appoint another person to make property and/or health care decisions on your behalf. It allows you (the principal) to grant authority to your appointed agent (also called your attorney in fact) to manage your financial matters or health care needs. This durable power of attorney for health care appoints an attorney-in-fact to make health care decisions based upon your specific and spelled-out wishes in the event that you become incapacitated. For example, a health care power of attorney allows you to express your wishes regarding life-sustaining treatment should the need for such treatment arise. It is important to provide detailed guidance for your health care agent in the power of attorney. Perhaps you want to donate your body to science or donate your organs to needy patients? If something like this, or any other particular request, speaks to you, it should be in writing.

So, what are you waiting for? Tragic accidents and heart attacks don’t come with warnings. In the end, having a plan in place is a compassionate step—no one should want their family to agonize over whether to let you live in a vegetative state or pull the plug. By carefully outlining your wishes, you can take some of the weight off of your loved ones’ shoulders during such a trying time.  Furthermore, you can even save your family money on hospital fees, ensuring that your spouse will not get saddled with astronomical medical bills on top of funeral expenses.

Talking about death is never easy, but if you are ready to discuss pulling together an advanced health care directive, please contact the experienced estate planning attorneys at Lonich Patton Erlich Policastri for further information. The attorneys at Lonich Patton Erlich Policastri have years of experience handling complex estate planning matters, including wills and living trusts, and we are happy to offer you a free consultation.

Please remember that each individual situation is unique and results discussed in this post are not a guarantee of future results.  While this post may detail general legal issues, it is not legal advice.  Use of this site does not create an attorney-client relationship.

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Michael Lonich

Estate and Tax Planning for Same-Sex Couples

June 27, 2013/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

Yesterday morning, the U.S. Supreme Court delivered a landmark decision: the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), a federal law that offered federal marriage benefits to only opposite-sex marriages in the United States, was struck down. With the overturning of the statute, same-sex couples challenging DOMA have achieved a clear victory: DOMA had impacted over 1,100 federal laws – from veterans’ benefits and family medical leave to Social Security and tax benefits – all of which are now available to married same-sex couples just as they are to married opposite-sex couples.

Yesterday’s ruling will have widespread estate and tax planning implications for the nearly 130,000 married same-sex couples in the United States because they will now have access to, amongst a host of other benefits, the following*:

  • Immigration rights, including eligibility for benefits;
  • Social Security retirement and disability benefits;
  • Veterans’ benefits, including pensions, nursing home care, educational assistance, and housing;
  • Equal income and estate and gift taxes as opposite-sex couples; and
  • Employment benefits, including employer-sponsored health benefits and the right to unpaid leave to care for a seriously-ill spouse.

Additionally, as a result of yesterday’s decision, California will likely become the 13th state to legalize same-sex marriage – boosting the incentive to properly create and execute an estate plan consistent with updated laws. Also, for legally married same-sex couples who have moved or now live in a state that does not yet recognize same-sex marriage, there are still obstacles towards accessing federal marital protection.

If you have any questions regarding your estate plan and the legal consequences that current changing laws have on your rights and your partner’s rights, please contact the experienced estate planning attorneys at Lonich Patton Erlich Policastri for further information. The attorneys at Lonich Patton Erlich Policastri have decades of experience handling complex estate planning matters, including  same-sex estate plans, and we are happy to offer you a free consultation.

Please remember that each individual situation is unique and results discussed in this post are not a guarantee of future results.  While this post may detail general legal issues, it is not legal advice.  Use of this site does not create an attorney-client relationship.

 

*U.S General Accounting Office, Defense of Marriage Act, GAO-04-353R (Washington, D.C.: January 23, 2004) (listing federal statutory provisions involving marital status).

 

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David Patton

Educational Debt: Be Smart at Divorce

June 24, 2013/in Family Law /by David Patton

Upon divorce, many people find that they are still saddled with substantial educational debt. So, where does that debt go? It depends. California is a community property state. When a couple divorces, each spouse receives fifty percent of all assets earned during the marriage. Similarly, a couple must split whatever debts they have acquired during the marriage. (For example, if you owe $10,000 on a particular credit card, each spouse is responsible for $5,000 of that debt or a debt of equal value.) Simple enough, right?

Not always. The allocation of educational debt at divorce can look much different. “A loan incurred during marriage for the education or training of [one spouse] shall not be included among the liabilities of the community for the purpose of division….but shall be assigned for payment by the [student spouse].”*

It is sometimes said that “the debt follows the debtor” in this situation. Usually, the student-spouse will keep the loan taken out for his or her education. Take, for example, the situation where a husband takes out a loan (in his name) to pay for his wife’s nursing credential. There, it is likely that the wife will be solely responsible for paying off that debt after dissolution, not her husband. (So, if you and your spouse have no debt except for your spouse’s student loans, you may be able to walk away from the marriage debt-free!)

On the other hand, however, the distribution could be much more complicated. Educational loans come into play in several ways upon divorce depending on when the loan was taken out and whether payments were made during marriage. Here are some scenarios you could face:

  • If your student-spouse took out an educational loan during your marriage and your combined earnings were used to repay that loan, you might be a candidate for reimbursement. In this situation, you could potentially receive half of whatever was paid for the student-spouse’s educational costs (e.g., tuition, books, transportation, supplies).
  • On the other hand, if your student-spouse took out an educational loan during your marriage and your combined earnings were used to fully repay that loan, you may not be able to recover all of those expenses. If the student-spouse can show that the community (you, your spouse, and the property acquired by you and your spouse during marriage) substantially benefitted from the educational loan, the community may not receive a reimbursement .
    • For example, if you put your husband through medical school but have been enjoying a high standard of living due to his increased earning capacity, you may be out of luck as the non-student spouse. Nevertheless, every situation is unique, and depending on the specific circumstances of your case, reimbursement could still be on the table and it is worthwhile to investigate fully.
  • If the student-spouse took out the loan before the marriage, the debt incurred is probably the student-spouse’s separate property obligation, meaning that you will not be liable for repayment of that loan.**
  • If both spouses went to school during marriage, there could be a reduced right to reimbursement or offset of the resulting debt.
  • Additionally, the likelihood of reimbursement could be reduced for a non-student spouse if the education or training funded by that spouse enables the student-spouse to engage in gainful employment that substantially reduces the student-spouses need for financial support.
    • In the long run, keeping spousal support payments in mind, eating the educational debt could be best alternative when compared with financially supporting your ex for many years to come (or indefinitely).

There are several different ways the educational-loan story can pan out. Similar to other areas of family law, the outcome really depends on the facts of that case.

Needless to say, educational debt problems can be complicated under California law, and you may need legal assistance to ensure that debt distribution is fair at divorce. Contact the certified Family Law Specialists (as certified by The State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization) at Lonich Patton Erlich Policastri to learn more about handling educational debt at divorce. Our attorneys have decades of experience handling complex family law matters.

Please remember that each individual situation is unique and results discussed in this post are not a guarantee of future results.  While this post may include legal issues, it is not legal advice.  Use of this site does not create an attorney-client relationship.

*Quoting California Family Code §2641.

**See California Family Code §2627.

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Michael Lonich

You Say Estate Planning is Terrifying: We Say, Meet the BDIT

June 18, 2013/1 Comment/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

In theory, setting up a trust and reaping its many benefits sounds great. In practice, however, giving up all control of your assets can be downright frightening. Well, now you can avoid “Estate Planning FOMO” (Fear Of Missing Out) and cozy up to the Beneficiary Defective Irrevocable Trust without fear.

When used correctly, the BDIT is as sensible as it is beneficial, offering substantial asset protection and tax planning benefits. So how does it work?

  • First, a third party such as a grandparent or parent, creates a trust and names you as beneficiary and trustee to that trust.
    •  This gives you management rights over the trust.
  •  Second, the trust should name an independent trustee to choreograph the trust and make strategic decisions regarding things like trust-owned life insurance, discretionary distributions, and tax matters.
    • Since you (the client) didn’t set up the trust on your own or initially fund the trust with your own money, you can benefit from all the wonders the trust world has to offer.
  •  Third, you can sell large appreciated assets to the trust in return for a promissory note for the purchase price, without triggering capital gains tax implications.
    • By doing this, you essentially “freeze” the value of your taxable estate.
    • For example, if you sell your family business to the BDIT, any growth of income and assets within the BDIT can benefit you and your family without being touched by estate taxes.

If it isn’t clear already, why is a BDIT a good idea? It’s not—it’s a GREAT idea. If executed properly, the BDIT can shield your assets inside the trust from claims against creditors. Also, you will receive a multitude of rights as trustee and beneficiary of the trust. For example, you’ll be able to:

  • Receive income from the trust;
  •  Make withdrawals from the trust assets (usually limited items related to health, education, or support);
  • Remove and replace the independent trustee;
  •  Use trust property rent-free;
  •  Generally manage the trust assets, and;
  •  Have the power to rewrite the trust under special circumstances.

Notably, a BDIT is “income tax defective,” which means that as the grantor and trustee, you are “granted” with withdrawal powers and other benefits, but you are required to pay the trust’s income taxes. “Hmm…well, why would I want to pay more income taxes?” With grantor trusts like the BDIT, paying the income tax is a big trade-off, allowing the trust’s income to grow outside of your estate, allowing you to use the income as you wish, let it grow inside the trust, and reducing your taxable estate by the amount of taxes you have paid. Over time, you and your descendants will be thrilled with your prudent choice to embrace the BDIT.

This is complicated, of course, but the extra effort can really pay off in the end. If you have any questions regarding your estate or are interested in creating a BDIT, please contact the experienced estate planning attorneys at Lonich Patton Erlich Policastri for further information. The attorneys at Lonich Patton Erlich Policastri have decades of experience handling complex estate planning matters, including wills and living trusts, and we are happy to offer you a free consultation.

Please remember that each individual situation is unique and results discussed in this post are not a guarantee of future results.  While this post may detail general legal issues, it is not legal advice.  Use of this site does not create an attorney-client relationship.

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