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Are You Divorcing? Here is What Not to Do Online

November 23, 2010/in Family Law /by Mitchell Ehrlich

Divorces are difficult and trying events.  Don’t add to the stress of the experience by making some common mistakes with your social networking.  Recently, a Time magazine article discussed the implications that social networking can have on a person’s divorce case.  The article noted that it is now commonplace for divorce attorneys to use information gathered on social networking websites to bolster their case against their client’s ex-spouse.  Information gleaned from social networking sites can be used to catch spouses in lies and improper behavior.  This information can affect the outcome of asset distribution, child custody, child support, spousal support, and other important divorce issues.  For the full Time article, please click here.

If you are a member of Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, or other social networking websites, you should be very careful about what you post online.  Do not post information relating to marital property, spousal support, child custody/care, or other personal information that may be relevant to your divorce case.

For more information about California divorces, please contact the divorce attorneys at Lonich Patton Erlich Policastri.  Please remember that each individual situation is unique and results discussed in this post are not a guarantee of future results.  While this post may include legal issues, it is not legal advice.  Use of this site does not create an attorney-client relationship.

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There are Several Different Avenues for Pursuing a Child Support Order in California

November 23, 2010/in Family Law /by Mitchell Ehrlich

Child support is a certain amount of money that a court instructs one parent of a child to pay the other parent.  The court’s instruction is detailed in a document called a child support “order.”  The child support money is used to financially support the child.  If you are having difficulties supporting your child after a divorce, or if the other parent is not pulling his/her weight, you may want to contact a family law attorney for advice.

First of all, if you have been the victim of domestic violence by the other parent you may ask for child support when you are seeking a domestic violence restraining order.  If you are married or in a registered domestic partnership and have a child from that union, you can also seek child support as part of a dissolution of that marriage or domestic partnership.  The legal procedures differ slightly depending on whether or not you are married or in a domestic partnership with the other parent of the child.  Regardless, the procedures all lead to the same result, a child support order.  In order to begin this process, you must file a court case.  After you file the case, the court may then decide to grant you the order for child support.  In addition, if you do not want to file for divorce or legal separation, you can file a Petition for Custody and Support of Minor Children and Summons.  This also allows you to seek child support from your spouse.

If you are not married to, or a domestic partner of, the other parent, you may ask for child support in different instances.  First, you may ask for child support if you file a parentage case to determine who the legal parents of the child are.  Second, if you have signed a voluntary Declaration of Paternity, you may choose to file a petition for Custody and Support of Minor Children as well.

If you are confused about what is your best option for successfully obtaining child support from your ex-spouse, you may need professional guidance.  Please contact us for more information.  Please remember that each individual situation is unique and results discussed in this post are not a guarantee of future results.  While this post may include legal issues, it is not legal advice.  Use of this site does not create an attorney-client relationship.

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Different Types of California Child Custody Arrangements Explained

November 22, 2010/in Family Law /by David Patton

There are two types of custody:  legal and physical.  Legal custody is the right and responsibility to make the decisions about your child’s welfare, health, and education.  If one parent has sole legal custody of his or her child, he has the exclusive right to make decisions relating to the child’s health, and education and welfare.  If the parents share joint legal custody, both parents share the right and responsibility to make these decisions.

Physical custody refers to who the child resides with and is supervised by.  If one parent has sole physical custody, the child exclusively resides with and is supervised by that parent, subject to the other parent’s visitation rights.  If the parents share joint physical custody, each has significant periods of physical custody, and custody is shared in such a way as to ensure that the child has frequent and continuing contact with both parents.  However, the timeshare is not necessarily equal.

For more information about California’s child custody laws, please contact us.  Please remember that each individual situation is unique and results discussed in this post are not a guarantee of future results.  While this post may include legal issues, it is not legal advice.  Use of this site does not create an attorney-client relationship.


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Legal Separation vs. Annulment vs. Dissolution

June 15, 2010/in Family Law /by Julia Lemon

When spouses wish to terminate or alter their marital status, they have three options for doing so- legal separation, annulment or dissolution. If spouses choose annulment or dissolution, the marriage is terminated and the spouses become single persons. If they opt to obtain a legal separation, the marital status is not terminated and they are unable to remarry unless or until the marriage is terminated by a later judgment of dissolution; however, legal separation does deal with property rights, child/spousal support, and custody and visitation issues.

Dissolutions terminate existing marriages on grounds arising after the marriage (such as irreconcilable differences). In contrast, annulments are based on the theory that no valid marriage ever occurred (i.e., the marriage was void or voidable (incestuous, bigamous, induced by fraud, one party was under the age of consent, etc.). It can be difficult and/or costly to prove these grounds.

Generally speaking, people who choose legal separation rather than dissolution do so for religious or other personal reasons, such as retaining eligibility for medical insurance that would otherwise be lost by a termination of the marriage.

If you are considering terminating your marriage, please contact Lonich & Patton to set up a free 30 minute consultation with an attorney to discuss which option may be right for you.

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Do’s & Don’ts of Status Only Dissolution

May 26, 2010/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

Under California Family Code Section 2337, a party may obtain what is called a “Status Only Judgment,” which is a judgment that terminates the marriage only, leaving all other issues (division of property, support, custody) to be decided at a later time. The most common reason that a party seeks a status only judgment is because that party wants to remarry. In other cases, the reason is psychological: a party feels that obtaining the divorce will help them move on from the relationship. Whatever the reason may be, it is important to understand the serious consequences that stem from a status only judgment.

1.Loss of Health Care Coverage: Once you are divorced, you are no longer eligible for health care benefits as a “spouse” under your spouse’s employer-sponsored health care plan. The cost of COBRA or an individual heath care plan can be astronomical. If you have any pre-existing conditions or current illness, it may be wise to wait for all issues in the case to be resolved to lengthen the time for which you are eligible under your spouse’s plan. If your spouse demands the status only, he or she will have to agree to continue coverage at his or her own cost until the divorce is final.
2.Loss of Surviving Spouse Retirement Benefits: Similarly, once you are divorced, you are no longer considered a “surviving spouse” for purposes of surviving spouse retirement plan benefits. Accordingly, it is critical that you obtain a Qualified Domestic Relations Order preserving your rights in the retirement plan before agreeing to the status only.
3.Application of Probate Rules: Should your spouse die at any point after the status only but before the final judgment that divides the community estate, the probate code, not the family code, will apply. This could mean the loss of your rights in property that is held in the deceased party’s name alone even if it would otherwise be a community property asset by virtue of the date of purchase or other agreement between the spouses.

These are just a few of the possible consequences of a status only judgment. In recognizing these and other significant consequences, the legislature recently modified the statute governing status only judgments to provide more protection for the spouse whose rights are adversely affected. Typically, the party seeking the status only will be required to “indemnify and hold harmless” the other party; this means that should there be any adverse consequences as a result of the status only, the requesting party will be required to pay for any such losses incurred by the other party.

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Proactive Steps to Take if You Are Contemplating Divorce

May 24, 2010/1 Comment/in Family Law /by Julia Lemon

In California, both spouses have fiduciary duties towards one another that require them to act in good faith in their dealings with each other and to disclose all material facts and information regarding community assets and debts. While there are several formal and informal methods of obtaining necessary information from the other party during a divorce, being proactive can cut down on the amount of time and expense needed to evaluate and prepare your case. The Minnesota Divorce and Family Law Blog has a helpful list of documents to gather upon deciding to file for divorce. Specifically, it suggests gathering:
1.Copies of financial statements;
2.Copies of tax returns;
3.Copies of computer hard drives;
4.Copies of insurance policies;
5.Copies of wills and/or trusts;
6.Inventory of safety deposit boxes, with a witness;
7.Copies of deeds and/or titles to real property;
8.Copies of small business ledgers, financial journals, payroll, sales tax returns and expense account records;
9.Copies of appraisals for art, antiques, jewelry and collectibles;
10.Record the contents of each room in your home through video;
11.Copies of retirement account statements; and
12.Copies of your spouse’s pay stubs for the last few months.

http://www.mnfamilylawblog.com/2009/12/articles/contested-divorce/staying-ahead-of-the-curve-12-proactive-steps-to-take-if-you-are-contemplating-divorce/

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North Carolina Woman Awarded $9 Million from Husband’s Mistress

May 7, 2010/in Family Law /by Mitchell Ehrlich

Suspecting her husband of 32 years was having an affair, Cynthia Shackelford of North Carolina hired a private investigator who confirmed her fear: her husband was involved in a longstanding liaison with a woman whom he’d met at a local college. Shackelford took legal action, suing her husband’s mistress for “alienation of affection.” She won, and was awarded $ 9 million in damages. Shackelford says the lawsuit wasn’t about the money; it was about sending a message.

The little-known law, which doesn’t exist in California or 42 other states, allows for aggrieved spouses to bring a claim in civil court – separate from family law proceedings – against third parties who knowingly have an affair with a married person. Generally, the plaintiff in such actions must show: 1) the marriage entailed love between the spouses in some degree; 2) the spousal love was alienated and destroyed; and 3) the defendant’s malicious conduct contributed to or caused the loss of affection.

Critics of “alienation of affection” and similar laws consider them to be archaic relics of a bygone era. Jacob Appel of Huffington Post describes them as “vestiges of legal codes that also prohibited divorce and criminalized premarital sex, … a consummate example of the sort of private controversies in which the government has no business meddling.” Likewise, some attorneys feel that such laws unnecessarily escalate family law proceedings and are inconsistent with the policies behind “no fault” divorce, which seek to minimize inquiry into the he-said-she-said interpersonal drama that is often behind the breakdown of marriage. Nevertheless, a handful of states still have “alienation of affection” laws on the books, something to make would-be-marriage-meddlers think twice.

Sources: People Magazine, Huffington Post

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David Patton Secures Primary Custody & Move Away Order in Hotly Contested Child Custody Case

May 5, 2010/in Family Law, Firm News /by Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri

Following a lengthy trial, the Santa Clara County Family Court ruled in favor of Mr. Patton’s client, awarding full custody of the children to the mother and giving her the right to move to another state with the children.

Father in this case sought 100% custody of the children and wanted to prevent Mother from taking the children to another state.

The court found that using the “best interests” standard followed in California for initial custody determinations, Mother should be awarded full custody and be permitted to move out of state with the children. The custody battle included allegations of domestic violence and inappropriate physical punishment of one of the children. The court took testimony from a court appointed expert, who had completed a custody evaluation involving both parents and the children, as well as testimony from experts hired by Father.

Upon considering all the evidence presented, the court found Mr. Patton’s evidence and arguments to be persuasive and granted Mother the right to move away with the children to another state.

Mr. Patton is a Certified Family Law Specialist as certified by The State Bar of California Board of  Legal Specialization and limits his practice exclusively to family law (divorce, child custody, domestic violence, restraining orders, spousal support, etc.). His certification is provided by the State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization.

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Dodger Divorce

March 31, 2010/1 Comment/in Family Law /by Julia Lemon

As Opening Day approaches, much of the buzz about the LA Dodgers focuses on the owners’ high profile divorce case. There are numerous legal issues in the case, as well as millions of dollars at stake.

While Frank and Jamie McCourt are currently litigating the issue of temporary spousal support (with Jamie requesting nearly $1,000,000 per month), the bigger issue in the case is whether the Dodgers are community property. The team was purchased during marriage, raising the presumption that it is a community property asset. However, Frank McCourt asserts that a post-marital agreement signed in 2004 transferred title of the parties’ residential properties to Jamie and made him the sole owner of the team. Jamie is seeking to invalidate the post-marital agreement. It will be interesting to see how it unfolds.

http://sports.espn.go.com/los-angeles/mlb/news/story?id=5037133&campaign=rss&source=MLBHeadlines

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The Dangers of a Power of Attorney Following Separation

March 29, 2010/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

Many people give their spouse a Durable Power of Attorney to handle their financial affairs. In the divorce context, Durable Powers of Attorney are loaded guns. An estranged spouse can use a Durable Power of Attorney to transfer their spouse’s assets to them, take out loans in the name of their spouse, and engage in other financial transactions without that spouse’s knowledge. If you have given your spouse a Durable Power of Attorney, you should consider revoking it immediately so that it cannot be used in an unintended fashion. Check with a qualified estate planning attorney to make sure you know the rules for revoking a power of attorney. Generally, banks and other third parties can rely upon a power of attorney unless they have notice that it has been revoked. If you are concerned that your spouse may attempt to use the power of attorney without your permission, you should consider notifying all your financial institutions that the power of attorney has been revoked.

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