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Estate Planning for LGBTQ+ Couples: Navigating Legal Considerations and Challenges

June 11, 2025/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

Anyone who has assets should have an estate plan. In some cases, estate planning for LGBTQ+ couples can be even more important to make sure that your wishes with regard to distribution of assets, guardianship of children, and healthcare and medical decisions are honored. Below, we’ll go over some specific legal considerations that LGBTQ+ couples should consider and unique challenges that you might face when it comes to estate planning. 

Marital Status and Legal Rights

Although same-sex marriage is recognized legally at the national level, some states might not automatically recognize the rights of same-sex partners, especially when it comes to healthcare decisionmaking, inheritance rights, joint ownership of property, and tax benefits for spouses. In some places, LGBTQ+ couples are limited to civil unions or domestic partnerships. Although these statuses offer some protection and benefits, they might not be as robust as couples would like, so it’s vital to clearly document what you want using the legal documents discussed below.

Wills and Trusts

One of the first things to think about in estate planning is creating a will. List all of your assets and debts and how you would like everything to be distributed. For LGBTQ+ couples, a detailed will is especially important if you have children from a prior relationship, if you are unmarried, or if your family members do not accept your relationship. Clearly state who the beneficiaries are and what they should receive. Note that you should also designate your partner as your primary beneficiary on life insurance policies, retirement accounts, and other financial assets to ensure these benefits do not default to a biological family member.

You might also consider establishing a trust to help protect your assets and ensure that your partner is able to inherit directly without any legal issues or familial conflict. Trusts can also sometimes provide tax benefits and protect assets from creditors and the probate process.

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Guardianship Provisions

For LGBTQ+ couples with children, it is important to establish legal parental rights, especially for the non-biological parent of stepchildren or for both parents if the children are adopted. This legal recognition means that both partners have custody and guardianship rights, which can protect against potential challenges from biological family members after the death of one of the partners. In addition, you can appoint a guardian for your minor children (including biological, adopted, and stepchildren) in your estate plan to clearly set out your wishes.

Healthcare Directives

Consider establishing a healthcare proxy or power of attorney for your partner. In some cases, without this provision, your partner might not be legally able to make necessary medical decisions for you if you become incapacitated. If you prefer, a living will can also specify your preferences for medical treatment if you become unable to communicate, which could become important if you are concerned that your family members might not recognize your partner’s role in your life.

Work with LGBTQ+ Estate Planning Experts

Clear, detailed, legally enforceable estate planning documents can help protect your partner and your family and minimize the risk of legal challenges from unsupportive family members. Given the unique challenges that LGBTQ+ couples might face, it’s a good idea to work with estate planning attorneys who are well-versed in these issues. The estate planning group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri can guide you through the estate planning process and help you navigate difficult and emotional decisions. Call us to schedule a free consultation today. 

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter. 

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Specializing in Divorce and Estate Planning, I am San Jose Attorney, Michael E. Lonich; and I have been battling for client’s rights for nearly 40 years. When focusing on divorce, child custody, and related matters, I know all too well the emotional and financial toll divorce has on clients. Integrity, common sense, and a passion for what I do which guarantee the best possible results for my clients. Resolution of family law issues requires an attorney able to navigate the myriad legal and emotional issues presented in cases. Financial issues, child custody, domestic violence, valuation of property, analysis of RSUs, hidden assets, spousal and child support, all may require trial, mediation, or a collaborative effort with the parties. Regardless, each client gets the individualized attention they require. Every family law case is unique, we partner with you to develop a comprehensive approach to get the best results.

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