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A same sex couple with spousal benefits holds hands in a field
Riley Pennington

Spousal Benefits for Same-Sex Marriages

June 23, 2021/in Family Law /by Riley Pennington

In recognition of Pride month, it is important to highlight the spousal benefits that were awarded to same-sex couples when same-sex marriage became legal. Although same-sex marriage was legalized in California in 2013, the United States Supreme Court held in Obergefell v. Hodges, that same-sex marriage was legal federally. This decision awarded many couples spousal benefits they were denied for so long. 

What are Spousal Benefits?

In some situations, couples can receive advantageous benefits simply because they are married that non-married couples do not have access to. Some spousal benefits include social security benefits, health insurance, tax benefits, retirement, among others. In California, same-sex couples initially had to register as domestic partners to gain access to some of these benefits or they were outright denied altogether. However, since the landmark case Obergefell, same-sex couples are now eligible for spousal benefits that have historically been exclusive to heterosexual couples. This highlights a large step forward for equal same-sex couple rights to many Californians.

Social Security Spousal Benefits for Married Same-Sex Couples

If you are not eligible for social security because you have never worked or paid an insufficient amount into social security, you could potentially claim spousal benefits and receive some of your spouse’s social security. This allows you to receive up to 50% of your spouse’s social security payments and it does not impact the amount they receive. In order to claim these benefits, you must be 62 or older, your spouse must already be receiving social security and you must be married for at least a year. Some exceptions may apply to some cases.

Employer-Provided Health Insurance Coverage for Married Same-Sex Couples

When an employer offers their employees health insurance, generally that employee can extend their health insurance coverage to their immediate family which includes their spouse and their children. Historically, same-sex couples were not able to maintain health insurance for their partners because the state did not recognize their union. This often would put a burden on the non-employee partner to secure their own health insurance which could be costly. However, now that same-sex marriage is recognized as a legal marriage in the state of California, a same-sex spouse can be insured on their spouse’s employment provided health insurance absent any restrictions or barriers. 

Tax Benefits for Married Couples

Married couples are potentially eligible for a multitude of tax benefits simply because they married that non-married couples are ineligible for. This includes filing a joint tax return which could lead to a lower amount of income taxed for both individuals. As mentioned above, a spouse can receive tax free health care coverage from their spouse’s employer. Additionally, same-sex married couples are also eligible for many tax benefits involving executing an estate. This is merely a small snapshot of the various tax benefits that married couples enjoy.

How Do I Learn More About What Spousal Benefits I Qualify for?

If you or a loved one would like to learn more about spousal benefits, please contact one of our experience attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri for additional information here.

Please remember that each individual situation is unique, and results discussed in this post are not a guarantee of future results. While this post may include legal issues, it is not legal advice. Use of this site does not create an attorney-client relationship. 

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A parent smiles down at their new child after a successful same sex couple adoption
Gretchen Boger

What To Expect When You’re Expecting: Navigating The California Adoption Process For Same-Sex Couples

June 18, 2021/in Family Law /by Gretchen Boger

During Pride Month we commemorate and pay tribute to those who bravely protested during the 1969 Stonewall Riots and paved the way for the LGBT activists of today. We celebrate those who continue to fight for equality and recognize the ongoing struggle to solidify basic human rights for all. One right that cannot be overstated is the ability to create and maintain families with dignity. Many LGBT couples define this right as the ability to adopt a child in same-sex couple adoption. 

Adoption in California

Each state has its own laws, procedures, and regulations regarding same-sex adoption, but in California, the law treats same-sex couples the same as any other prospective parent or couple. The state permits same-sex couples, as well as LGBT individuals, to pursue several adoption methods, all of which are the processes used by opposite-sex couples. The different types of adoption include: 

  • Independent Adoption: a couple seeks out a pregnant mother who wants to give up the child for adoption. 
  • Assisted Reproductive Technology: this may include the use of a surrogate or in vitro fertilization (IVF). This usually means that one of the parents is a biological parent to the child. 
  • Agency Adoption: an agency assists in connecting the parents with their future child. 
  • Stepparent or domestic partner adoption: an individual in a same-sex relationship may adopt the child of their spouse or partner. 
  • Adoption of a Family Member: a couple may adopt a family member, such as a niece or nephew.
  • International Adoption: a couple seeks to adopt a child from another country. 

Each option presents its own set of risks, some involving potential legal struggles with the biological parents, others possibly subjecting parents to extensive nuanced legal procedures and requirements. As such, seeking the advice of an attorney is helpful in determining what adoption plan is right for you. 

Same-Sex Couple Adoption

Of course, in a perfect world, prospective parents in a same-sex relationship would not be subjected to evaluative procedures that differ from those of parents in an opposite-sex relationship. However, it is no secret that both express and implicit biases exist in our society and unfortunately, these predispositions can cause people to lose sight of the most important factor in adoption: the best interest of the child. As such, it is possible that an agency may conduct a more intrusive investigation for a same-sex couple. Such treatment may cause the process to be lengthier, and consequently more costly. In California, agencies are prohibited from discriminating based on sexual orientation and gender identity. However, if you believe you are facing any sort of discrimination, it is important to speak to an attorney about your options. 

What Are the Next Steps?

Adoption is an inherently personal matter and can often be a very complicated and emotional process. As such, seeking legal assistance will help lessen the pressures that already come with starting a family. Our experienced same-sex adoption attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri are able to lessen the burdens of the legal process and give you the time to fully enjoy the excitement of welcoming a new member into your family. 

If you or a loved one are looking to adopt or have any questions about how to adopt as a same-sex couple, please set up a free virtual consultation with one of our experienced attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri. You can set up your free virtual consultation here.  

Please remember that each individual situation is unique, and results discussed in this post are not a guarantee of future results. While this post may detail general legal issues, it is not legal advice. Use of this site does not create an attorney-client relationship.

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A couple sits at a table with a divorce mediation lawyer looking over paperwork
Gina Policastri

What Is Divorce Mediation And Is It Right For You?

June 2, 2021/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

What if it was possible to get a divorce without going to court? If you could end your marriage without all the hurt feelings and animosity, would you? Divorce mediation provides the opportunity to dissolve a marriage without putting children in the middle of a conflict, and without terminating a good relationship between both parties. It provides the means to co-parent successfully with your ex while both of your personal interests are looked after. What is divorce mediation though, and is it right for you?

What Is Divorce Mediation?

When people think of divorce, they imagine hostile court hearings and expensive legal fees. Divorce mediation is an option two parties can choose that is cost-efficient and less conflict-oriented. In this method, two parties hire an impartial third party to negotiate an agreement between them. In this mediation, the mediator will walk you through a series of complex issues, taking both of your interests into account, and will help you agree on a settlement. Mediation aims to reach an agreement that satisfies both parties’ needs and wants, maintains an amicable or neutral relationship between the exes, and avoids the expensive legal fees from divorce litigation. Mediation is also popular because of the privacy it provides. There are no public records of what goes on in mediation sessions.

People tend to favor mediation because it gives them more control over their divorce and how different matters are handled. Some of the matters a mediator will help you with include:

  • Child custody and child support
  • Spousal support
  • Property division

Divorce mediation also helps with overall communication between a couple. If a couple is getting a divorce, it’s common that their communication methods are strained and ineffective. Having a divorce mediation lawyer trained in mediation and communication can vastly improve communication between two parties. Sometimes you just need a neutral third party to see things fairly. 

When Mediation Isn’t Right For You

There are many instances in which mediation is a great decision. However, there are also plenty of circumstances in which mediation is not an option. One of the most common instances where mediation is not recommended is in the case of domestic violence. Because of the nature of the relationship between a domestic violence victim and an abuser, there is a heightened risk of tension turning violent. There’s also an increased risk that the abuser will intimidate the victim or threaten them, and they will agree to terms that aren’t actually equatable. 

If one party does not want to get divorced, mediation may not be an option. Mediation relies on both parties being open and willing to communicate and separate. If one party is resistant or unwilling to do this, mediation isn’t an option. 

If you have questions on whether divorce mediation is right for you, you can contact an experienced attorney at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri. We’re located in San Jose, CA, and serve surrounding areas. Our lawyers are trained in mediation and collaborative divorce and can help you through this difficult time as easily as possible. We offer free 30 minute consultations, in person and virtually. Set yours up here.

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A scared person protectively holds their hand out in front of them. They're in need of a permanent restraining order.
David Patton

How To Make A Temporary Restraining Order Permanent

May 19, 2021/in Family Law /by David Patton

Domestic violence restraining orders are incredibly helpful when you find yourself in a dangerous and abusive situation with some close to you. The court will grant these orders to you after an evaluation of the events leading up to you asking for a DVRO. There are various kinds of restraining orders – Emergency protective orders(EPO), temporary restraining orders(TRO), permanent restraining orders(PRO), and stay away orders. If you’ve already been granted a temporary restraining order, and are afraid for when it ends, how can you make it a permanent restraining order?

What is a Permanent Restraining Order?

A permanent restraining order is the strictest order in the state of California. Judges hand these out cautiously, and at their discretion. The circumstances which warrant a permanent order are usually severe, making acquiring one more challenging for victims. Don’t let this discourage you from seeking help. An experienced DVRO attorney can help you get the protection you need. 

While a permanent restraining order isn’t actually permanent, it does last significantly longer than a temporary restraining order which spans 20-25 days on average. The span of a TRO depends on when your court date is scheduled. In California, a permanent RO can last up to 5 years. At that point, you can file for a new PRO with the courts to maintain protection. 

Not only do PROs last longer, but they also have more severe consequences if the order is breached. A person who violates a PRO can be charged for each individual instance that they violated the order. So, if they violated the order 3 times, they can be charged with 3 separate counts. Violations can warrant penalties and fines, probation, and jail time. 

During a permanent restraining order, both parties are prohibited from contacting one another for the duration of the order, even if the victim no longer wants the order. This means that the abuser can still be penalized if they communicate with the victim, even if they were not the one who initiated contact. 

How To Make A TRO Permanent

After a judge has issued a temporary restraining order, a court date will be set by a judge. The victim will be protected until their court hearing (approximately 25 days). At this hearing, the victim and the accused abuser will both have a chance to present their case for why a PRO should or should not be granted. This is why having legal representation is so important. The victim will need to make a strong case for why a permanent restraining order should be put in place, as judges are very particular about granting these long term orders. If the victim does not show up to court, the temporary restraining order and its protection will end. If the accused does not show up, they will not be allowed to make a case against a PRO. The judge will make their decision without the input of the accused party. If the judge decides to put a PRO in place, they will determine the length of the order, having it last as long as 5 years.

If children are involved, you may file a restraining order on behalf of the child, or, if they are 12 years or older, they can file a RO themselves. Because of the nature of domestic violence in the case of children, PRO cases can often involve rulings on child custody and support. 

If you need help in presenting your case for a permanent restraining order to the courts, or need help acquiring additional child custody orders in regards to PROs, get in touch with our San Jose restraining order attorneys. We have over 100 years of collective experience handling family law cases like TROs and PROs. Set up a free 30 minute consultation here. We also offer virtual consultations in light of COVID-19. 

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A couple sits opposite each other over paperwork discussing collaborative divorce vs mediation
Riley Pennington

What’s the Difference In Collaborative Divorce vs Mediation?

May 6, 2021/in Family Law /by Riley Pennington

Despite the dramatization of divorce, it doesn’t always have to be a messy, contentious process. Often, couples who are in agreement that a divorce is in the best interests of both parties can finalize the divorce agreement without a long trial. If you and your spouse both agree to negotiate a fair and equitable settlement, then learn about collaborative divorce vs mediation. One may be the best path for you. It will cost significantly less — as divorce litigation can result in a much more expensive divorce. It will also help you and your spouse avoid a long and stressful litigation process.

Who Collaborative Divorce vs Mediation Will Benefit

For some couples, the formal court litigation process is necessary. Collaborative divorce and mediation work best for the following types of spousal situations:

  • Both spouses should agree that a divorce is in their best interests.
  • Both spouses should agree to negotiate a fair and equitable decision that is a compromise of both spouse’s needs.
  • If the spouses share children, both spouses should have a relatively similar idea of a custodial arrangement that is in the best interests of the children.
  • Both spouses should agree to be transparent about financial information and property assets.

Before deciding between collaborative divorce vs mediation, it is important to understand what both options can mean for your divorce settlement.

What is Collaborative Divorce?

Collaborative divorce is the process of negotiating a divorce settlement in a four-way conversation with both spouses and their collaborative mediation attorney. 

Many people chose collaborative divorce because it may save them from going to court, but still requires qualified collaborative divorce lawyers to represent their interests. Oftentimes, collaborative divorce requires a third-party accountant and a child custody specialist so that they may determine an equitable division of property and a child custody arrangement that is in the children’s best interest.

Once the spouses and their attorneys reach an agreement, the details are presented to a judge in a trial setting, in which the judge quickly reviews and typically approves the divorce settlement. Since the spouses reached an agreement before the court hearing, the process is usually shorter and less stressful than typical divorce litigation.

What is Divorce Mediation?

Divorce mediation is the division of property that is facilitated by a divorce mediation specialist. 

The divorce mediation specialist does not need to be a qualified divorce attorney, however, couples with high-asset-net-worth are advised to hire a divorce mediation lawyer.

In this scenario, the mediator speaks to both spouses to obtain background information. Next, the mediator meets with both spouses and goes through the formal mediation process in which both couples share their perspectives and interests. The mediator’s goal is to allow both parties to express their interests and create an equitable compromise. The mediator also ensures that one spouse does not overpower the other spouse during the mediation process.

Although an independent divorce attorney is unnecessary in mediation, some spouses wish to have an attorney who they can speak to after the mediation meetings. Additionally, some spouses feel that they are unable to promote their interests on their own and bring their personal attorney to the mediation meetings. If your spouse brings their attorney, it is highly recommended that you do so as well.

How to Determine If Collaborative Divorce vs Mediation Is Right for You

If you are still uncertain if you and your spouse should choose the collaborative divorce or mediation process, then it is recommended to speak with a qualified divorce attorney. 

LPEP is a reputable law firm in San Jose specializing in high-net-worth divorce proceedings. Contact our office today for a 30-minute free consultation so that we can advise you on how to protect your interests without a stressful trial.

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