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The Legal Complexities of IVF and Embryo Disputes in Divorce

February 11, 2026/in Family Law /by Virginia Lively

Assisted reproductive technology, such as in vitro fertilization (IVF), has become increasingly accessible and common over the last two decades, helping millions of people worldwide build their families. While these scientific advances have been largely beneficial for couples struggling with infertility, IVF and the resulting frozen embryos present some challenging legal issues when it comes to divorce, straddling the intersection of contract law, family law, and reproductive rights.

Most divorce cases center around the distribution of shared assets (e.g., real estate or investments, etc.) and custody issues, when children are involved. Embryos do not legally fit comfortably into either category, which leaves family courts to make difficult and emotionally-charged decisions. There is no standardized answer and no federal law regarding the disposition of embryos, so states differ in their approaches, but the following are the most common legal approaches and considerations:  

Contractual Approach

Before a couple begins the IVF process, most fertility clinics require a signed contract or Disposition of Embryos Agreement that outlines the couple’s wishes regarding what happens to any frozen embryos that they cannot use as originally intended (e.g., if one or both parents die or their relationship is dissolved, etc.). Possible choices include that the embryos be:

  • Given to one partner alone to be used for procreation
  • Donated for medical research
  • Transferred to another couple
  • Discarded or destroyed

Where a signed contract or agreement exists, and clearly states the intent of both partners, family courts will often rely heavily on these contracts and uphold them, even if one partner has changed their mind. However, the approach varies by state as well, with some states more strictly adhering to a contractual approach than others. 

Balancing of Interests

In cases where there is no signed agreement, the agreement was vague or outdated, or the state focuses more on reproductive and/or constitutional rights, the family court will most likely weigh each party’s competing interests. 

Disputes about frozen embryos often come down to competing, deeply personal, constitutionally protected interests: the right to procreate and have a biological child and the right to avoid becoming a genetic parent. Depending on the public policy of the state of residence, family courts often prioritize the latter since forcing parenthood on a person results in lifelong consequences.

However, if the partner who wants to have a biological child does not have other avenues open to them to have children, the court must also consider their interests fairly.

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The Importance of Legal Guidance

Although working with experienced family law attorneys can always be helpful in divorce, when cases are complicated by emotional issues that are not clear-cut, such as IVF and embryo disputes, it can be even more important to consult with legal experts. The Family Law Group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri (LPEP Law) has years of experience helping clients navigate through complex divorce and family law matters.

If you are considering divorce but are worried about the disposition of frozen embryos or other issues related to distribution of assets or custody, please schedule a free consultation to discuss your case with LPEP Law today.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter. 

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Does a Will Cover Child Custody?

January 14, 2026/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

The addition of a child to the family is cause for celebration. As a parent, every part of your life changes – your world grows bigger, and your priorities shift. But along with the joy comes a profound sense of responsibility. You are committed to protecting this tiny, vulnerable person and their future, including making sure they would be cared for by the right people if something unexpected happened.

One question many parents have is whether their will can dictate who will take custody of their children. A will plays an essential role in expressing your wishes; however, it doesn’t control every aspect of child custody under California law. Understanding what a will can and cannot do can help you make more informed decisions for protecting your children’s future.

What a Will Can Do

A will allows you to name a guardian to take care of your minor children in the event of your death. For new parents, this is one of the most critical aspects of creating a will. There are two capacities in which a guardian may serve:

  1. Guardian of the person: The responsibility for the child’s daily care, well-being, and upbringing
  2. Guardian of the estate: Managing any inheritance left for the child.

You can name the same person for both roles or appoint different individuals for each one based on their strengths.

What a Will Cannot Do

Many parents are surprised to learn that naming a guardian in their will doesn’t automatically guarantee custody. The judge will give substantial weight to the parents’ wishes, but they must also evaluate what is in the child’s best interests. Therefore, they may reject the parents’ nomination if:

  • The nominee has a criminal history or substance abuse problems
  • There are credible allegations of past abuse or neglect
  • The nominee is unable or unwilling to take on the responsibility of guardianship
  • Another close relative petitions the court for guardianship, and they appear better suited for the role.

What if Only One Parent Dies?

If one parent dies, the child will stay with the surviving parent unless the judge finds them unfit. Even if you nominate someone else as guardian, the courts will not allow a will to override the surviving parent’s rights.

If both parents die, or the surviving parent can’t care for the child, the court will look to the will for guidance.

What if there is no Will?

About two-thirds of American adults don’t have a will. For parents with minor children, this creates a dilemma for California courts as they must determine guardianship with no guidance. This can result in family disputes as multiple relatives petition for custody. The worst part is the uncertainty it creates for the child who has lost their parents and is trying to process their emotions.

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Beyond the Will

You want your wishes to carry as much weight as possible with the courts. In addition to naming a guardian in your will, consider writing a letter of explanation describing why you chose a particular guardian. You should also name a backup guardian in the event your first choice can’t fulfill the role. Creating a trust to manage your children’s inheritance helps ensure their financial security.

Our attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri can help you draft a will, create a guardian plan, and set up a trust. We understand the importance of protecting your children’s future if something were to happen to you. 

Contact us for a free consultation by calling 408-553-0801. By working with us, you will have peace of mind and the assurance that your wishes are legally sound.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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How Long Does the Annulment Process Take?

December 25, 2025/in Family Law /by Mitchell Ehrlich

Usually, when people think about dissolving a marriage, divorce is the first thing that comes to mind. In some cases, though, an annulment might be more appropriate. Unlike divorce, which legally ends a marriage, an annulment means the marriage was never valid in the first place. How long the annulment process takes will vary widely depending on whether your spouse agrees or objects as well as how complicated the case is, however, the following outline provides some general guidance.

Types of Annulment

When it comes to civil annulments (as opposed to religious annulments, which are handled through the Catholic church), you will have either an uncontested annulment or a contested annulment.

Uncontested Annulments

In an uncontested annulment, both parties agree to the annulment, and there are no disputed issues related to grounds for filing, assets, or child custody. Usually, a judge will simply review the request, and you might also be required to attend a hearing. An uncontested civil annulment can take anywhere from a few weeks to several months, depending on the case workload of the family court involved.

Contested Annulments

Contested annulments, on the other hand, generally take longer (i.e., 6 months to over a year), depending on the reason your spouse contests the annulment. For instance, if you allege fraud or coercion as the grounds for the annulment, you will need to provide evidence to the court. 

The Annulment Process

First, you need to make sure that your marriage qualifies for an annulment. Although each state has specific legal grounds for annulments, common grounds include:

  • Fraud or misrepresentation
  • Coercion or force
  • Underage spouse
  • Incest
  • Bigamy
  • Mental incapacity
  • Spouse concealed information such as impotence, criminal history, or addiction

File a Petition and Notify Your Spouse

If you qualify for an annulment in your state, your next step would be to file a petition for annulment in the family court in your jurisdiction. Most states require you to notify your spouse that you have begun the annulment process. They generally have 30 days to respond by either agreeing or contesting.

Gather Documents and Evidence

Before you attend a hearing with a judge, you will need to gather relevant documents like your marriage certificate and identification. You will also likely need to provide evidence to support your reason for requesting the annulment such as texts, photographs, emails, expert witness statements, medical documentation, etc.

Attend Court Hearings

For uncontested annulments, there will likely only be one, short hearing, or the judge may sign the petition without a hearing. For contested annulments, you might be required to attend several hearings. Both sides will present evidence, and the judge will review the case and decide whether the grounds have been proven or not. 

If the judge approves, you will receive a Decree of Annulment, which legally voids your marriage as if it never existed.

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Get Help With the Annulment Process

Even for uncontested annulments, it’s a good idea to work with a family law attorney who is familiar with annulments in your state to make sure the process goes smoothly. The family law group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri has decades of experience helping couples through the annulment process. Schedule a free consultation today to discuss your case with us to find out how we can best represent you and your interests.

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Addressing Elder Abuse Through Legal Measures: Protecting Vulnerable Family Members

December 3, 2025/in Family Law /by Virginia Lively

It’s a sad fact of life that the very people who loved and protected you when you were most vulnerable eventually become vulnerable themselves. Protecting them from elder abuse becomes your responsibility.

Unscrupulous people look to take advantage of older adults. Scammers, caregivers, and even family members use deception, undue influence, and theft to deprive senior citizens of their hard-earned assets, leaving them afraid, alone, and destitute.

The good news is that there are several strong legal tools that you can use to help protect your loved ones and ensure their financial security during their golden years.

Create a Durable Power of Attorney

Appoint someone trustworthy as a Durable Power of Attorney (POA). A POA gives them the legal authority to manage your loved one’s financial matters if they become incapacitated.

To ensure transparency and prevent misuse, consider requiring regular financial reports or appointing co-agents.

Use Direct Deposit and Automatic Payments

Consider setting up direct deposit for Social Security or other checks and automatic bill pay. These actions can protect a senior citizen from theft, lost mail, or some other interference. 

Even small steps can reduce others’ opportunities to tamper with your loved one’s financial affairs.

Set Up a Revocable Living Trust

A revocable living trust is another tool to protect vulnerable family members from abuse. Your loved one will still have control over their assets with a safety net in place if they can no longer manage their finances. A successor trustee or co-trustees can step in if needed.

A trust serves a dual purpose. Not only does it add oversight, but it also helps the family avoid probate, a public legal process that can provide an opportunity for exploitation.

Be Cautious with Joint Bank Accounts

Joint bank accounts can be convenient, but they also expose an older adult’s assets to abuse. Funds in a joint account legally belong to both parties so that either owner can withdraw them without the other’s permission. 

A better option is convenience accounts, where a helper can write checks and assist with transactions, but does not own the funds.

A Conservatorship May Be Necessary

If your elderly loved one is being financially exploited or can no longer make sound decisions, you may need to petition the court for a conservatorship. A court-appointed conservator is given legal control over the older adult’s finances. The court will supervise the conservator, which adds an additional layer of protection.

It’s important to note that petitioning for a conservatorship is a serious step and should only be used when other options are insufficient.

Ensure Estate Planning Documents are Current

An up-to-date estate plan should include a will, trust, and powers of attorney. These legal documents clearly identify who is authorized to manage your older loved one’s financial and health decisions. 

Review these documents regularly and keep them in a safe place. Remove anyone who does not serve your loved one’s best interest to reduce the risk of exploitation.

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Work with LPEP Law to Keep Your Loved One Safe

Our knowledgeable attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri can help you create the legal documents you need to protect your vulnerable family members from abuse. We can also assist you with petitioning for conservatorship if necessary.

Contact us at (408) 553-0801 to schedule your free consultation. With our help, you can rest assured that your elderly family member’s assets and dignity will be protected.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Climate Change and Family Law: Relocation Disputes Due to Environmental Factors

November 19, 2025/in Family Law /by Gretchen Boger

Relocation and custody disputes are nothing new. Family courts have been adjudicating these types of cases for years. Parents need (or want) to move for a variety of reasons such as pursuing new job opportunities or wanting to be closer to their family. But what happens if the relocation request is due to environmental factors stemming from climate change?

Climate change is no longer relegated to melting ice caps far away and air pollution in big cities. Extreme weather events, flooding, wildfires, and heat waves, among other things, are affecting more and more families, forcing parents to make life-altering decisions about how to deal with evacuations, where to live, and how to keep their children healthy and safe. 

If one parent wants to move to another city or even another country to escape the effects of climate change but the other wants to stay, they should first try to reach a mutual agreement to revise their child custody agreement. However, if they cannot agree, the parent who wants to move will likely need to file a relocation or move-away case in family court.

Factors the Court Considers

In most relocation disputes, a judge will consider several factors, including: 

  • The reason for the requested move
  • The child’s relationship with both parents
  • The impact on the child’s wellbeing (i.e., what’s in the child’s best interests?)
  • Practical implications on the custody arrangement (i.e., will the child be able to maintain a relationship with both parents?)

How Climate Change Affects Relocation Disputes

Relocation due to environmental factors is not a preference but a matter of survival for some parents. For instance, California residents struggling in the wake of wildfires or families living in coastal areas that are being threatened by sea-level rise might feel like environmental risks outweigh the benefits of their current living situation. Safety and stability for their family, rather than a lifestyle choice or convenience, is at the root of these types of climate-driven relocation decisions.

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Legal Questions to Be Answered

If the relocation and custody dispute ends up in family court, judges will likely need to answer some difficult legal questions. How real is the risk? When does a move actually become necessary as opposed to preferred? What if one parent can’t move away from the area of concern? Does that mean the child will not maintain contact with that parent? As with other relocation disputes, the court will always prioritize the best interests of the child; however, in cases where climate change is the driving factor, lawmakers will likely need to present scientific evidence such as climate risk assessments.

Get Help With Your Relocation and Custody Dispute

Are you considering a relocation due to environmental factors such as the threat of natural disasters, storms, pollution, or flooding and having trouble agreeing on changes to your custody agreement? Don’t hesitate to put your family’s health, safety, and security first. Schedule a free consultation with the family law experts at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri (LPEP Law). We have years of experience in helping parents navigate difficult child custody issues. Get the help you need with your relocation and custody dispute today.

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Can Child Custody Be in a Prenuptial Agreement?

November 5, 2025/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

Child custody and prenuptial agreements are becoming increasingly popular these days. More people are realizing that a prenup isn’t just for rich people to safeguard their wealth during a divorce. Instead, they can be valuable tools for setting expectations about assets, businesses, and debts. 

However, one question is often asked: can you use a prenup to decide child custody arrangements if the marriage ends?

The short answer is no. While prenups are excellent tools for financial planning, custody decisions are based on the child’s best interests. Understanding the limits of a prenuptial agreement is essential to protecting your rights and your family’s future.

What Prenuptial Agreements Can Cover

Prenuptial agreements are legal contracts that enable couples to establish rules regarding financial matters before they get married. When you consider that money arguments are a leading cause of divorce, a prenup can encourage open and honest conversations.

If one spouse enters the marriage already owning a significant amount of assets, a prenuptial agreement ensures that these assets won’t be lost if the couple divorces. Conversely, if the spouse has a considerable amount of debt, the other partner won’t be responsible for paying it. A prenuptial agreement can also protect a family business from being divided or gifts intended for children from prior relationships.

A prenup can also dictate whether either spouse will receive support and in what amount. These agreements provide financial clarity and peace of mind.

Why Child Custody is Different

The courts base their custody decision on the best interests of the child, not a prenuptial agreement between parents. When making their determination, they look at factors such as:

  • The child’s age and health
  • The child’s relationship with each parent
  • Each parent’s ability to provide a stable and loving environment
  • The educational needs of the child
  • The child’s preference, depending on their age

Circumstances change over time; therefore, custody can’t be predetermined years in advance with a prenuptial agreement. 

If you attempt to include custody terms in a prenuptial agreement, the court will likely disregard them and other unenforceable clauses, while upholding the remainder of the contract. However, if the judge believes the agreement is extremely one-sided or overly restrictive, it could raise questions about its fairness, thereby putting the entire prenup’s validity at risk.

While you can’t address custody arrangements in a prenup, couples can include other provisions related to children, such as:

  • Setting up college funds or trusts
  • Nonbinding statements regarding education and religion
  • Agreements on funding major expenses like extracurricular activities

Alternatives for Addressing Child Custody Concerns

Rather than relying on a prenup, parents separating or divorcing typically determine custody through parenting plans, which are detailed agreements about co-parenting responsibilities, decision-making, and schedules.

Courts prefer that parents draft their own parenting plans or work with a mediator (a neutral third party) to create a plan that works for the entire family. In situations where mediation is unsuccessful or the parents can’t agree, the court will intervene to determine custody. As the children grow and circumstances change, arrangements can be adjusted to meet the family’s evolving needs.

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How LPEP Law Can Help

Prenuptial agreements are powerful tools for financial planning, but they can’t be used to dictate child custody. If you’re considering a prenuptial agreement, our attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri can help. We will draft a prenuptial agreement tailored to your specific financial circumstances, ensuring it’s fair and in the best interest of you and your children.

Contact us at 408-553-0801 or visit our website to schedule your free consultation. You will have peace of mind knowing that your financial future is protected.

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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What Would an End of No-Fault Divorce Look Like?

October 22, 2025/in Family Law /by Mitchell Ehrlich

Currently, all 50 states recognize no-fault divorce as a viable option for couples to dissolve their marriages. However, several states and legislators have proposed changes that would limit or prohibit no-fault divorces, moving toward a system that would require a spouse to prove fault or wrongdoing as a basis for divorce. What would an end of no-fault divorce look like?

What is No-Fault Divorce?

First, it’s important to understand what we mean when we talk about “no-fault” divorce. As the name suggests, no-fault divorce means that neither spouse needs to prove any sort of fault or misconduct, such as adultery, cruelty, abandonment, abuse, etc., as a basis for seeking divorce and can instead cite “irreconcilable differences.” The advantages of no-fault divorce usually include reduced conflict and strain between former spouses, which leads to quicker resolution and greater opportunities for cooperative co-parenting. In addition, both parties are better able to maintain their privacy and dignity throughout a stressful and emotional legal process.

Legal Implications of Ending No-Fault Divorce

To understand the legal implications of ending no-fault divorce, we can look at the legal landscape prior to the establishment of no-fault divorce laws. Generally speaking, obtaining a divorce was significantly more challenging, especially for women. 

As in the past, courts would likely require one spouse to prove fault, such as:

  • Infidelity
  • Physical or emotional abuse or neglect
  • Abandonment
  • Criminal conviction
  • Substance abuse

The requirement to prove fault often led to contentious, drawn-out legal battles that were time-consuming, costly, and potentially embarrassing for both sides. Some couples even resorted to making up evidence in order to meet the legal requirements of proof.

Failure to establish fault could lead to the denial of the divorce.

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Social Implications of Ending No-Fault Divorce

Given the stricter legal requirements noted above, the end of no-fault divorce would also likely have a significant social impact. Women’s groups in particular worry that returning to a fault-based divorce system will force many people to stay in abusive marriages because they will be unable, or reluctant, to produce evidence of abuse.

Other people might choose to stay in unhappy marriages rather than publicly air their private issues. In these cases, the mental and emotional wellbeing of both parties, as well as any children involved, would be negatively affected.

Even successful divorces would probably carry an increased social stigma, since the “fault” established would be equated with moral wrongdoing.

Practical Implications 

The requirement to establish fault would necessarily have practical implications, including more expensive divorces and a slower, more congested legal system. Spouses would need to gather evidence that could be presented in court, which could be costly as well as emotionally draining. An increased financial burden of hiring lawyers would make divorce difficult for lower-income families. “Fault” could unduly influence child custody or visitation rights as well as division of assets since the “at-fault” spouse might be denied custody or visitation or receive reduced spousal support or marital assets.

Need Help With Your Divorce?

If you are considering divorce for any reason, it helps to have experienced legal professionals on your side. The family law firm group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri (LPEP Law)  has over 100 years of combined litigation experience to walk you through the process and seek out the best possible outcome. Call us today to schedule a free, no-obligation consultation to discuss your case and go over all your options.

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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The Importance of Prenuptial Agreements in Second Marriages: Safeguarding Personal Assets

October 8, 2025/in Family Law /by Michael Lonich

Prenuptial agreements often receive a bad rap, mainly due to misconceptions about them. They’re frequently portrayed in movies and television shows as a safeguard, protecting an older, wealthy person from a gold digger’s devious plans.

In reality, prenuptial agreements are an effective legal tool. In marriages where one or both spouses have been previously married, unique financial dynamics are at play. There may be significant personal assets that need protecting, especially if either spouse has children from their previous relationship.

Understanding Prenuptial Agreements

A prenuptial agreement is a legally binding contract that both parties sign before marriage. It outlines how assets, debts, and other financial responsibilities will be handled during the marriage and upon its termination, whether by death or divorce.

While the details will vary, a solid prenuptial plan will include:

  • An inventory of what each spouse owns coming into the marriage
  • How assets will be classified and divided if the marriage ends
  • Who is liable for what premarital debts
  • The terms for spousal support
  • The protection of assets for children from a previous relationship, if any, or other beneficiaries
  • Safeguards for business ownership or a professional practice

Why Second Marriages Need Extra Financial Protection

While many second marriages can last a lifetime, the statistics show a sobering reality. 50% of first marriages end in divorce, compared to a 60-70% divorce rate for second marriages.

When you remarry, it’s usually not just two people joining lives. Almost 40% of American families are blended, meaning there is at least one step-parent relationship. It’s essential to ensure that each spouse’s biological children inherit certain family assets. A prenuptial agreement protects the children’s inheritance while the couple builds their life together. 

People getting married for the second time have typically established some wealth, such as:

  • A home with equity
  • Retirement accounts built over decades
  • Valuable collections or family heirlooms
  • Business interests
  • Investment portfolios

These assets represent years of hard work. A prenuptial agreement ensures that they remain separate and don’t become subject to California’s community property laws.

Second marriages also involve ongoing commitments from previous relationships, including:

  • Spousal support
  • Child support
  • Shared custody expenses
  • College funding plans

A prenuptial agreement provides clarification regarding these responsibilities so they don’t become a source of conflict during the marriage.

California’s Community Property Laws

California is a community property state, which means most assets acquired during the marriage are owned equally by both spouses. This includes:

  • Income earned by either spouse
  • Property purchased with marital income
  • Contributions made to a retirement plan during the marriage
  • Any business growth that occurred after the wedding

Without a prenuptial agreement, your spouse could claim rights to half of everything you received during your marriage. This could be problematic if:

  • You own a business that experiences growth during the marriage
  • You receive an inheritance that you intend to pass to your children
  • You contribute to your retirement using separate property funds
  • You make improvements to a separate property using community funds

A valid prenuptial agreement can override California’s community property laws. You and your spouse can agree to keep certain assets separate during the marriage, establish your own property division rules if you divorce, and protect business interests from community property claims.

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Taking Action to Protect Your Finances and Your Family’s Future

Prenuptial agreements are particularly crucial for second marriages, given California’s community property laws. A well-crafted agreement can provide peace of mind for you, your spouse, and your families. Our attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri have the experience you need to ensure your prenuptial agreement meets your needs and complies with California’s Uniform Premarital Agreement Act.

Contact us at 408-553-0801 to schedule your free consultation.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Can I Have an Annulment if my Spouse is Deceased?

September 18, 2025/in Family Law /by Gretchen Boger

Most people think about divorce as the ending of a marriage, but under certain circumstances, an annulment is more appropriate. Legally, an annulment nullifies a marriage so that it’s as if it never occurred.

If your spouse has died, and you are dealing with inheritance issues, spousal debts, or other issues related to you or your spouse’s estate you might be wondering if an annulment, rather than a divorce, could be an option.

The short answer is that when your spouse dies, the marriage is legally ended by their death, so an annulment is not usually an option since that process applies while both parties are alive. However, if an annulment is necessary to protect the rights and the best interests of heirs, family members can sometimes pursue an annulment if certain conditions are true and provable. 

What circumstances precipitate an annulment?

Legal Reasons for Annulments

There are several legal reasons for which a judge would grant an annulment of a marriage. In California, for example, a family court judge would grant an annulment in cases of:

  • Bigamy – one of the spouses is married to someone else
  • Incest – you are close relatives
  • Underage marriage – one spouse was under 18 at the time of marriage and did not obtain parental permission
  • Fraud – one spouse was tricked into the marriage
  • Unsound mind – a spouse lacked the mental capacity to agree to the marriage (including due to inebriation)
  • Forced marriage – one spouse was forced into the marriage
  • Lack of consummation – one spouse is physically unable to consummate the marriage

Declaration of Invalidity

In lieu of an annulment, you might be able to seek a declaration of invalidity through the family court system, which is similar to an annulment, to try to challenge or clarify the legal status of the marriage. You would need to present significant evidence that the marriage was void from the beginning and therefore never valid legally. Void marriages involve issues similar to those required for annulment, including bigamy, fraud, lack of consent, mental incapacity, incest, and fraud. Similar to an annulment, the process to declare a marriage invalid usually occurs while both spouses are alive, but some jurisdictions might consider it after the death of a spouse.

Key Things to Consider

Embarking on a legal challenge after the death of a spouse can take a huge personal toll on you mentally, emotionally, and financially. You should weigh these costs and recognize all the potential outcomes and their impacts on your family, especially if you have children.  

Since family laws related to annulments, declarations of invalidity, inheritance, spousal support, and more vary widely by jurisdiction, it’s important to consult with a family law attorney who specializes in this specific area of a law in your state of residence. 

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Get Help from Family Law Attorneys

The family law attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri (LPEP Law) have years of experience helping families work through complex issues related to annulments, pre-nuptial agreements, property division, and inheritance. Schedule a free, no-obligation consultation to speak with our team about your case. Let LPEP help you protect your rights and your family. 

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Can a Child Custody Agreement Be Changed?

September 3, 2025/in Family Law /by Virginia Lively

Child custody agreements aren’t set in stone, especially as life changes. What worked well when your child was three may no longer be ideal when they’re ten. 

If you’re wondering whether a custody order can be modified, the answer is yes, but there are rules and procedures to follow, especially in California. Here’s what you need to know if you’re considering a change in your custody arrangement.

When Can a Custody Agreement Be Changed?

In California, a child custody agreement can be modified if it’s in the best interest of the child and if there’s been a significant change in circumstances since the original order was made. The courts generally want to maintain stability in a child’s life, so they don’t make changes lightly. Some common reasons that justify a change include:

  • One parent is relocating
  • A change in the child’s needs (such as school, medical issues, or age)
  • One parent’s ability to care for the child has changed (due to illness, job changes, substance abuse, etc.)
  • The current arrangement is no longer working or safe

How to Modify a Custody Agreement in California

Here’s how you can make modifications to a child custody agreement in California. 

Work It Out Together (If Possible)

If both parents agree to the change, the process is usually smoother. You can draft a new parenting plan and submit it to the court for approval. The court will generally approve it as long as it serves the child’s best interests.

File a Request for Order (If You Don’t Agree)

If one parent wants to change the agreement and the other does not, the requesting parent must file a Request for Order (RFO) with the family court. This formally asks the judge to review and change the custody arrangement.

Attend Mediation

In California, you’ll likely be required to attend mediation with Family Court Services before the hearing. This gives both parents a chance to work out their differences with the help of a neutral third party.

Go to Court

If you still can’t agree in mediation, you’ll go to a court hearing where the judge will decide whether a change is warranted based on the evidence and arguments presented.

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What Does the Judge Consider when Changing a Child Custody Agreement?

The California court always puts the child’s best interest first. Judges will consider:

  • The child’s age and needs
  • Each parent’s ability to provide a stable, loving environment
  • The existing relationship between the child and each parent
  • Any history of abuse, neglect, or substance use
  • The child’s preference (if the child is mature enough)

Need Help Changing a Custody Agreement?

Yes, child custody agreements can be changed in California, but only when there’s a valid reason and the modification supports your child’s wellbeing. Whether you and your co-parent agree on the changes or need help from the court, it’s important to navigate the process carefully.

Our experienced family law attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri are here to guide you through the process. Whether you’re pursuing an agreed change or facing a contested modification, we’ll advocate for your rights and your child’s best interests. Contact us today for a free consultation.

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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