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Climate Change and Family Law: Relocation Disputes Due to Environmental Factors

November 19, 2025/in Family Law /by Gretchen Boger

Relocation and custody disputes are nothing new. Family courts have been adjudicating these types of cases for years. Parents need (or want) to move for a variety of reasons such as pursuing new job opportunities or wanting to be closer to their family. But what happens if the relocation request is due to environmental factors stemming from climate change?

Climate change is no longer relegated to melting ice caps far away and air pollution in big cities. Extreme weather events, flooding, wildfires, and heat waves, among other things, are affecting more and more families, forcing parents to make life-altering decisions about how to deal with evacuations, where to live, and how to keep their children healthy and safe. 

If one parent wants to move to another city or even another country to escape the effects of climate change but the other wants to stay, they should first try to reach a mutual agreement to revise their child custody agreement. However, if they cannot agree, the parent who wants to move will likely need to file a relocation or move-away case in family court.

Factors the Court Considers

In most relocation disputes, a judge will consider several factors, including: 

  • The reason for the requested move
  • The child’s relationship with both parents
  • The impact on the child’s wellbeing (i.e., what’s in the child’s best interests?)
  • Practical implications on the custody arrangement (i.e., will the child be able to maintain a relationship with both parents?)

How Climate Change Affects Relocation Disputes

Relocation due to environmental factors is not a preference but a matter of survival for some parents. For instance, California residents struggling in the wake of wildfires or families living in coastal areas that are being threatened by sea-level rise might feel like environmental risks outweigh the benefits of their current living situation. Safety and stability for their family, rather than a lifestyle choice or convenience, is at the root of these types of climate-driven relocation decisions.

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Legal Questions to Be Answered

If the relocation and custody dispute ends up in family court, judges will likely need to answer some difficult legal questions. How real is the risk? When does a move actually become necessary as opposed to preferred? What if one parent can’t move away from the area of concern? Does that mean the child will not maintain contact with that parent? As with other relocation disputes, the court will always prioritize the best interests of the child; however, in cases where climate change is the driving factor, lawmakers will likely need to present scientific evidence such as climate risk assessments.

Get Help With Your Relocation and Custody Dispute

Are you considering a relocation due to environmental factors such as the threat of natural disasters, storms, pollution, or flooding and having trouble agreeing on changes to your custody agreement? Don’t hesitate to put your family’s health, safety, and security first. Schedule a free consultation with the family law experts at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri (LPEP Law). We have years of experience in helping parents navigate difficult child custody issues. Get the help you need with your relocation and custody dispute today.

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Can Child Custody Be in a Prenuptial Agreement?

November 5, 2025/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

Child custody and prenuptial agreements are becoming increasingly popular these days. More people are realizing that a prenup isn’t just for rich people to safeguard their wealth during a divorce. Instead, they can be valuable tools for setting expectations about assets, businesses, and debts. 

However, one question is often asked: can you use a prenup to decide child custody arrangements if the marriage ends?

The short answer is no. While prenups are excellent tools for financial planning, custody decisions are based on the child’s best interests. Understanding the limits of a prenuptial agreement is essential to protecting your rights and your family’s future.

What Prenuptial Agreements Can Cover

Prenuptial agreements are legal contracts that enable couples to establish rules regarding financial matters before they get married. When you consider that money arguments are a leading cause of divorce, a prenup can encourage open and honest conversations.

If one spouse enters the marriage already owning a significant amount of assets, a prenuptial agreement ensures that these assets won’t be lost if the couple divorces. Conversely, if the spouse has a considerable amount of debt, the other partner won’t be responsible for paying it. A prenuptial agreement can also protect a family business from being divided or gifts intended for children from prior relationships.

A prenup can also dictate whether either spouse will receive support and in what amount. These agreements provide financial clarity and peace of mind.

Why Child Custody is Different

The courts base their custody decision on the best interests of the child, not a prenuptial agreement between parents. When making their determination, they look at factors such as:

  • The child’s age and health
  • The child’s relationship with each parent
  • Each parent’s ability to provide a stable and loving environment
  • The educational needs of the child
  • The child’s preference, depending on their age

Circumstances change over time; therefore, custody can’t be predetermined years in advance with a prenuptial agreement. 

If you attempt to include custody terms in a prenuptial agreement, the court will likely disregard them and other unenforceable clauses, while upholding the remainder of the contract. However, if the judge believes the agreement is extremely one-sided or overly restrictive, it could raise questions about its fairness, thereby putting the entire prenup’s validity at risk.

While you can’t address custody arrangements in a prenup, couples can include other provisions related to children, such as:

  • Setting up college funds or trusts
  • Nonbinding statements regarding education and religion
  • Agreements on funding major expenses like extracurricular activities

Alternatives for Addressing Child Custody Concerns

Rather than relying on a prenup, parents separating or divorcing typically determine custody through parenting plans, which are detailed agreements about co-parenting responsibilities, decision-making, and schedules.

Courts prefer that parents draft their own parenting plans or work with a mediator (a neutral third party) to create a plan that works for the entire family. In situations where mediation is unsuccessful or the parents can’t agree, the court will intervene to determine custody. As the children grow and circumstances change, arrangements can be adjusted to meet the family’s evolving needs.

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How LPEP Law Can Help

Prenuptial agreements are powerful tools for financial planning, but they can’t be used to dictate child custody. If you’re considering a prenuptial agreement, our attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri can help. We will draft a prenuptial agreement tailored to your specific financial circumstances, ensuring it’s fair and in the best interest of you and your children.

Contact us at 408-553-0801 or visit our website to schedule your free consultation. You will have peace of mind knowing that your financial future is protected.

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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What Would an End of No-Fault Divorce Look Like?

October 22, 2025/in Family Law /by Mitchell Ehrlich

Currently, all 50 states recognize no-fault divorce as a viable option for couples to dissolve their marriages. However, several states and legislators have proposed changes that would limit or prohibit no-fault divorces, moving toward a system that would require a spouse to prove fault or wrongdoing as a basis for divorce. What would an end of no-fault divorce look like?

What is No-Fault Divorce?

First, it’s important to understand what we mean when we talk about “no-fault” divorce. As the name suggests, no-fault divorce means that neither spouse needs to prove any sort of fault or misconduct, such as adultery, cruelty, abandonment, abuse, etc., as a basis for seeking divorce and can instead cite “irreconcilable differences.” The advantages of no-fault divorce usually include reduced conflict and strain between former spouses, which leads to quicker resolution and greater opportunities for cooperative co-parenting. In addition, both parties are better able to maintain their privacy and dignity throughout a stressful and emotional legal process.

Legal Implications of Ending No-Fault Divorce

To understand the legal implications of ending no-fault divorce, we can look at the legal landscape prior to the establishment of no-fault divorce laws. Generally speaking, obtaining a divorce was significantly more challenging, especially for women. 

As in the past, courts would likely require one spouse to prove fault, such as:

  • Infidelity
  • Physical or emotional abuse or neglect
  • Abandonment
  • Criminal conviction
  • Substance abuse

The requirement to prove fault often led to contentious, drawn-out legal battles that were time-consuming, costly, and potentially embarrassing for both sides. Some couples even resorted to making up evidence in order to meet the legal requirements of proof.

Failure to establish fault could lead to the denial of the divorce.

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Social Implications of Ending No-Fault Divorce

Given the stricter legal requirements noted above, the end of no-fault divorce would also likely have a significant social impact. Women’s groups in particular worry that returning to a fault-based divorce system will force many people to stay in abusive marriages because they will be unable, or reluctant, to produce evidence of abuse.

Other people might choose to stay in unhappy marriages rather than publicly air their private issues. In these cases, the mental and emotional wellbeing of both parties, as well as any children involved, would be negatively affected.

Even successful divorces would probably carry an increased social stigma, since the “fault” established would be equated with moral wrongdoing.

Practical Implications 

The requirement to establish fault would necessarily have practical implications, including more expensive divorces and a slower, more congested legal system. Spouses would need to gather evidence that could be presented in court, which could be costly as well as emotionally draining. An increased financial burden of hiring lawyers would make divorce difficult for lower-income families. “Fault” could unduly influence child custody or visitation rights as well as division of assets since the “at-fault” spouse might be denied custody or visitation or receive reduced spousal support or marital assets.

Need Help With Your Divorce?

If you are considering divorce for any reason, it helps to have experienced legal professionals on your side. The family law firm group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri (LPEP Law)  has over 100 years of combined litigation experience to walk you through the process and seek out the best possible outcome. Call us today to schedule a free, no-obligation consultation to discuss your case and go over all your options.

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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The Importance of Prenuptial Agreements in Second Marriages: Safeguarding Personal Assets

October 8, 2025/in Family Law /by Michael Lonich

Prenuptial agreements often receive a bad rap, mainly due to misconceptions about them. They’re frequently portrayed in movies and television shows as a safeguard, protecting an older, wealthy person from a gold digger’s devious plans.

In reality, prenuptial agreements are an effective legal tool. In marriages where one or both spouses have been previously married, unique financial dynamics are at play. There may be significant personal assets that need protecting, especially if either spouse has children from their previous relationship.

Understanding Prenuptial Agreements

A prenuptial agreement is a legally binding contract that both parties sign before marriage. It outlines how assets, debts, and other financial responsibilities will be handled during the marriage and upon its termination, whether by death or divorce.

While the details will vary, a solid prenuptial plan will include:

  • An inventory of what each spouse owns coming into the marriage
  • How assets will be classified and divided if the marriage ends
  • Who is liable for what premarital debts
  • The terms for spousal support
  • The protection of assets for children from a previous relationship, if any, or other beneficiaries
  • Safeguards for business ownership or a professional practice

Why Second Marriages Need Extra Financial Protection

While many second marriages can last a lifetime, the statistics show a sobering reality. 50% of first marriages end in divorce, compared to a 60-70% divorce rate for second marriages.

When you remarry, it’s usually not just two people joining lives. Almost 40% of American families are blended, meaning there is at least one step-parent relationship. It’s essential to ensure that each spouse’s biological children inherit certain family assets. A prenuptial agreement protects the children’s inheritance while the couple builds their life together. 

People getting married for the second time have typically established some wealth, such as:

  • A home with equity
  • Retirement accounts built over decades
  • Valuable collections or family heirlooms
  • Business interests
  • Investment portfolios

These assets represent years of hard work. A prenuptial agreement ensures that they remain separate and don’t become subject to California’s community property laws.

Second marriages also involve ongoing commitments from previous relationships, including:

  • Spousal support
  • Child support
  • Shared custody expenses
  • College funding plans

A prenuptial agreement provides clarification regarding these responsibilities so they don’t become a source of conflict during the marriage.

California’s Community Property Laws

California is a community property state, which means most assets acquired during the marriage are owned equally by both spouses. This includes:

  • Income earned by either spouse
  • Property purchased with marital income
  • Contributions made to a retirement plan during the marriage
  • Any business growth that occurred after the wedding

Without a prenuptial agreement, your spouse could claim rights to half of everything you received during your marriage. This could be problematic if:

  • You own a business that experiences growth during the marriage
  • You receive an inheritance that you intend to pass to your children
  • You contribute to your retirement using separate property funds
  • You make improvements to a separate property using community funds

A valid prenuptial agreement can override California’s community property laws. You and your spouse can agree to keep certain assets separate during the marriage, establish your own property division rules if you divorce, and protect business interests from community property claims.

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Taking Action to Protect Your Finances and Your Family’s Future

Prenuptial agreements are particularly crucial for second marriages, given California’s community property laws. A well-crafted agreement can provide peace of mind for you, your spouse, and your families. Our attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri have the experience you need to ensure your prenuptial agreement meets your needs and complies with California’s Uniform Premarital Agreement Act.

Contact us at 408-553-0801 to schedule your free consultation.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Can I Have an Annulment if my Spouse is Deceased?

September 18, 2025/in Family Law /by Gretchen Boger

Most people think about divorce as the ending of a marriage, but under certain circumstances, an annulment is more appropriate. Legally, an annulment nullifies a marriage so that it’s as if it never occurred.

If your spouse has died, and you are dealing with inheritance issues, spousal debts, or other issues related to you or your spouse’s estate you might be wondering if an annulment, rather than a divorce, could be an option.

The short answer is that when your spouse dies, the marriage is legally ended by their death, so an annulment is not usually an option since that process applies while both parties are alive. However, if an annulment is necessary to protect the rights and the best interests of heirs, family members can sometimes pursue an annulment if certain conditions are true and provable. 

What circumstances precipitate an annulment?

Legal Reasons for Annulments

There are several legal reasons for which a judge would grant an annulment of a marriage. In California, for example, a family court judge would grant an annulment in cases of:

  • Bigamy – one of the spouses is married to someone else
  • Incest – you are close relatives
  • Underage marriage – one spouse was under 18 at the time of marriage and did not obtain parental permission
  • Fraud – one spouse was tricked into the marriage
  • Unsound mind – a spouse lacked the mental capacity to agree to the marriage (including due to inebriation)
  • Forced marriage – one spouse was forced into the marriage
  • Lack of consummation – one spouse is physically unable to consummate the marriage

Declaration of Invalidity

In lieu of an annulment, you might be able to seek a declaration of invalidity through the family court system, which is similar to an annulment, to try to challenge or clarify the legal status of the marriage. You would need to present significant evidence that the marriage was void from the beginning and therefore never valid legally. Void marriages involve issues similar to those required for annulment, including bigamy, fraud, lack of consent, mental incapacity, incest, and fraud. Similar to an annulment, the process to declare a marriage invalid usually occurs while both spouses are alive, but some jurisdictions might consider it after the death of a spouse.

Key Things to Consider

Embarking on a legal challenge after the death of a spouse can take a huge personal toll on you mentally, emotionally, and financially. You should weigh these costs and recognize all the potential outcomes and their impacts on your family, especially if you have children.  

Since family laws related to annulments, declarations of invalidity, inheritance, spousal support, and more vary widely by jurisdiction, it’s important to consult with a family law attorney who specializes in this specific area of a law in your state of residence. 

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Get Help from Family Law Attorneys

The family law attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri (LPEP Law) have years of experience helping families work through complex issues related to annulments, pre-nuptial agreements, property division, and inheritance. Schedule a free, no-obligation consultation to speak with our team about your case. Let LPEP help you protect your rights and your family. 

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Can a Child Custody Agreement Be Changed?

September 3, 2025/in Family Law /by Virginia Lively

Child custody agreements aren’t set in stone, especially as life changes. What worked well when your child was three may no longer be ideal when they’re ten. 

If you’re wondering whether a custody order can be modified, the answer is yes, but there are rules and procedures to follow, especially in California. Here’s what you need to know if you’re considering a change in your custody arrangement.

When Can a Custody Agreement Be Changed?

In California, a child custody agreement can be modified if it’s in the best interest of the child and if there’s been a significant change in circumstances since the original order was made. The courts generally want to maintain stability in a child’s life, so they don’t make changes lightly. Some common reasons that justify a change include:

  • One parent is relocating
  • A change in the child’s needs (such as school, medical issues, or age)
  • One parent’s ability to care for the child has changed (due to illness, job changes, substance abuse, etc.)
  • The current arrangement is no longer working or safe

How to Modify a Custody Agreement in California

Here’s how you can make modifications to a child custody agreement in California. 

Work It Out Together (If Possible)

If both parents agree to the change, the process is usually smoother. You can draft a new parenting plan and submit it to the court for approval. The court will generally approve it as long as it serves the child’s best interests.

File a Request for Order (If You Don’t Agree)

If one parent wants to change the agreement and the other does not, the requesting parent must file a Request for Order (RFO) with the family court. This formally asks the judge to review and change the custody arrangement.

Attend Mediation

In California, you’ll likely be required to attend mediation with Family Court Services before the hearing. This gives both parents a chance to work out their differences with the help of a neutral third party.

Go to Court

If you still can’t agree in mediation, you’ll go to a court hearing where the judge will decide whether a change is warranted based on the evidence and arguments presented.

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What Does the Judge Consider when Changing a Child Custody Agreement?

The California court always puts the child’s best interest first. Judges will consider:

  • The child’s age and needs
  • Each parent’s ability to provide a stable, loving environment
  • The existing relationship between the child and each parent
  • Any history of abuse, neglect, or substance use
  • The child’s preference (if the child is mature enough)

Need Help Changing a Custody Agreement?

Yes, child custody agreements can be changed in California, but only when there’s a valid reason and the modification supports your child’s wellbeing. Whether you and your co-parent agree on the changes or need help from the court, it’s important to navigate the process carefully.

Our experienced family law attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri are here to guide you through the process. Whether you’re pursuing an agreed change or facing a contested modification, we’ll advocate for your rights and your child’s best interests. Contact us today for a free consultation.

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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When Child Custody Mediation Fails

August 20, 2025/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

Numerous studies have shown that children perform better academically and socially when both parents are committed to being involved in their lives. California courts prioritize the best interests of the child. They will typically award both parents joint legal and physical custody unless there is a compelling reason why the child would be better off with only one parent.

The court also requires the parents to participate in mediation before they make a ruling. Mediation, facilitated by a neutral third-party mediator, enables parents to develop a parenting plan that allows both to spend quality time with their child. The mediator’s role is to guide the discussion, ensure both parents’ voices are heard, and help them reach a mutually beneficial agreement. Instead of a contentious court battle, mediation focuses on creating a parenting plan through open communication and cooperation. In turn, this can lay the groundwork for a better co-parenting relationship.

Why Mediation Might Fail

Mediation isn’t always successful. Even though parents start with the best intentions, they might struggle to come to an agreement. Some reasons for failure include:

  • The divorce is high-conflict, making productive discussions impossible
  • One or both parents are unwilling to compromise
  • They are too far apart on key issues such as decision-making authority and schedules
  • There was domestic abuse
  • Some legal issues are still unresolved

Even if mediation fails, there are other options for resolving child custody issues.

What to Expect if Mediation Fails

When mediation fails, a family court judge becomes responsible for issuing a child custody order. They will hear both sides, consider the evidence, and make their decision based on factors such as:

  • The location of each parent
  • The parent’s ability to provide a safe and stable environment
  • The relationship between the child and each parent
  • The child’s preference, depending on their age

Before the court hearing, gather documentation such as medical records, school records, and any other evidence that demonstrates your ability to be a capable parent who prioritizes your child’s well-being. During the court hearing, stay focused on the child and avoid airing any grievances about the other parent. 

The judge may require additional information before deciding what is in the best interest of the child and may order a custody evaluation. An evaluator, such as a child psychologist or social worker, will conduct a thorough assessment, looking at factors such as:

  • Each parent’s relationship with the child 
  • How the child interacts with their parents
  • The ability of the parents to provide a stable environment
  • Each parent’s willingness to encourage a relationship between the child and the other parent

Upon concluding their assessment, they will provide recommendations to the judge.

Throughout the process, remember that your child is still adjusting to the new family dynamics. You play a crucial role in this adjustment. Prioritize their emotional health by maintaining a stable home environment and providing a consistent routine.

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Seek Legal Representation

There is too much at stake to navigate a child custody case on your own. You need the support and guidance of one of our experienced family lawyers at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri. Our attorneys have over 100 years of combined litigation experience. We will help present your case and advocate for a custody plan that is in the best interest of your child.

We understand that this situation is overwhelming, so we will be with you throughout the process, ensuring you know your rights and options.

Call (408) 553-0801 to schedule your free consultation. We look forward to working with you.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Navigating the Complexities of Blended Families: A Comprehensive Guide to Step-Parent Adoption

August 6, 2025/in Family Law /by Mitchell Ehrlich

Blended families are becoming increasingly common in the United States. When minor children are involved, some step-parents choose to take the significant and emotionally rewarding path toward legally adopting their spouse’s child. This process grants the step-parent all the legal rights and responsibilities of a biological parent, which can be important for custody, inheritance, healthcare and education decisions, and more. More than that, though, many step-parents feel that this legally-binding process reflects their dedication to a permanent parental relationship, which can strengthen emotional bonds and give the child a sense of security and identity. 

While step-parent adoption is rewarding, it can also present some challenges. This comprehensive guide explores the legal considerations and steps involved as well as some practical tips that can make the process smoother.

Legal Requirements and Eligibility

Although step-parent adoption laws vary by jurisdiction, some common requirements include:

  • Marriage: Most states require the step-parent to be legally married to the child’s biological or legal parent.
  • Consent: Usually, states require that the child’s non-custodial biological parent consents to the adoption unless their rights are terminated due to neglect, abandonment, or being unfit or deceased.
  • Background check: A criminal background check or home study might be required.
  • Child’s consent: For older children (usually over the age of 12), a court may also require their consent.

The Step-Parent Adoption Process

Because the adoption process can be complicated and laws vary by state, your first step should be to consult a family lawyer. They can help clarify the local legal procedures, file necessary paperwork, give you sound legal advice, and represent you in court.

Your family lawyer will file the adoption petition in your local family court. The petition will likely include consent forms, your marriage certificate, the child’s birth certificate, and proof that you have contacted (or attempted to contact) the non-custodial parent.

If you are unable to obtain consent from the non-custodial biological parent, the court must determine whether there are grounds to terminate their parental rights.

Once your petition has been filed, the court might ask for a home study to assess the living environment. This requirement is often either waived in the case of step-parent adoption or less rigorous than in other adoption petitions.

Finally, you and your spouse will attend a court hearing where the judge will review your case, ask questions, and either grant or deny the adoption. If granted, the child will receive a new birth certificate with the adoptive step-parent’s name, and the adoption becomes permanent and irreversible.

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Practical Tips

Include the child in the process, and be patient as they adjust to this new reality. Try to respect the existing parental relationship with the non-custodial parent, even if it is less than ideal. Consider family counseling and encourage open communication. Celebrate the adoption day as a family milestone by having a special ceremony or making a keepsake. Don’t be afraid to reach out and seek support. 

Interested in Pursuing Step-Parent Adoption?

The Family Law Group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri (LPEP Law) has years of experience in helping blended families navigate the challenges of adoption. Contact us to schedule a free 30-minute consultation to discuss your case today.

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter. 

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Guardianship Considerations in Estate Planning: Choosing the Right Caregivers for Minor Children

July 16, 2025/in Family Law /by Gretchen Boger

When it comes to estate planning, many people think of wills, trusts, and dividing up assets. But for parents of minor children, one of the most important decisions to make is choosing a legal guardian. If something unexpected happens to you, who will step in to raise and care for your children?

At LPEP, we understand that this question isn’t easy. But making a thoughtful plan now helps protect your children’s future and gives you peace of mind. Here’s what you need to know about guardianship considerations in estate planning.

What Is a Guardian?

A guardian is the person legally appointed to care for your minor child if both parents pass away or are otherwise unable to care for them. This includes making day-to-day decisions, providing a home, and ensuring the child’s physical, emotional, and educational needs are met.

In California, you can name a guardian for your child in your will. If you don’t make a plan, a judge will decide who takes on that responsibility, and it might not be the person you would have chosen.

What to Consider When Choosing a Guardian

It’s a big decision to make, but here are a few key things to think about:

  • Shared values: Does the person share your values, parenting style, and views on education, discipline, and religion? You want your children to be raised in a way that aligns with your beliefs.
  • Stability: Consider the guardian’s age, health, and overall lifestyle. Will they be emotionally and physically able to raise your children for years to come?
  • Location: Will your child need to move far away, change schools, or adjust to a completely different environment? Sometimes staying close to friends, relatives, or their familiar community can help provide comfort.
  • Existing relationships: Does your child already have a close, trusting relationship with this person? That connection can make a difficult transition a bit easier.
  • Willingness: Always talk to the person you’re considering. Don’t assume they’ll be able or willing to take on the role, as it’s a big responsibility.

Naming a Backup Guardian for Minor Children

Life can be unpredictable, so it’s smart to name an alternate guardian just in case your first choice can’t step in. This ensures your children are protected no matter what.

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Including Guardianship in Your Estate Plan

Once you’ve made your decision, it’s important to make it official. Work with an estate planning attorney to put your wishes in writing. This can be done as part of a will or a broader estate plan.

At LPEP, we specialize in helping California families create personalized estate plans that reflect their unique values and protect the people they love most. We’ll guide you through the process and help you make confident, informed choices.

Protect Your Child’s Future By Choosing a Legal Guardian

Choosing a guardian is never easy, but it’s one of the most loving things you can do for your children. By planning ahead, you take control of their future and give them the best chance for stability, care, and security, no matter what life brings.

Have questions about estate planning or guardianship in California? Schedule your free consultation with LPEP today – we’re here to help you protect what matters most.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges: A Guide for Divorced Parents

July 3, 2025/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

Divorce is often tough, but raising children together after divorce adds a whole new layer of complexity. Co-parenting isn’t always easy, but with the right mindset and a few practical tools, it can be successful. Whether you’re newly divorced or have been navigating this journey for a while, this guide is here to help you manage co-parenting challenges and focus on what matters most: your kids.

What Is Co-Parenting?

Co-parenting is when both parents remain actively involved in their child’s life after a separation or divorce. It means making joint decisions, attending school events, coordinating schedules, and staying in communication, preferably in a way that supports the child’s emotional well-being.

In California, family courts often encourage shared custody arrangements because studies show that children tend to do better when both parents are involved. That said, co-parenting successfully takes work.

Common Co-Parenting Challenges (And How to Handle Them)

Co-parenting comes with challenges, there’s no doubt about it. Here are some of the issues that many parents face when navigating this difficult situation. 

1. Communication Breakdowns

This is probably the most common challenge divorced parents face. Misunderstandings and emotional tension can make it hard to have clear conversations.

Tip: Use neutral, respectful language. Stick to the topic at hand and avoid bringing up past relationship issues. If face-to-face conversations are difficult, consider using parenting apps to keep everything documented and civil.

2. Different Parenting Styles

One parent might be more strict, while the other is more laid-back. This can confuse kids and lead to tension between parents.

Tip: You don’t have to agree on everything, but aim for consistency on the important issues like bedtimes, homework rules, and screen time. Focus on your shared goals: raising happy, healthy, respectful kids.

3. Scheduling Conflicts

Between school, sports, family holidays, and custody agreements, scheduling can quickly get messy.

Tip: Keep a shared calendar and plan ahead, especially for holidays and vacations. Be flexible when you can – life happens, and showing grace can go a long way.

4. Emotional Stress

Even if you’re on good terms with your co-parent, emotions like guilt, anger, or sadness can creep in.

Tip: Take care of yourself, too. Therapy, support groups, or just talking with a friend can help you process your feelings. The more balanced you are emotionally, the better parent you can be.

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When to Seek Legal Help for Co-Parenting Challenges

If you’re facing ongoing issues (like a parent not following the custody order, or constant conflict that affects your child), it may be time to revisit your parenting plan. In California, family law courts allow parents to request modifications when circumstances change.

At Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri, our experienced family law attorneys can help you understand your rights and options, and guide you through the legal process if needed.

Contact us today to schedule your free consultation.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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