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When Child Custody Mediation Fails

August 20, 2025/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

Numerous studies have shown that children perform better academically and socially when both parents are committed to being involved in their lives. California courts prioritize the best interests of the child. They will typically award both parents joint legal and physical custody unless there is a compelling reason why the child would be better off with only one parent.

The court also requires the parents to participate in mediation before they make a ruling. Mediation, facilitated by a neutral third-party mediator, enables parents to develop a parenting plan that allows both to spend quality time with their child. The mediator’s role is to guide the discussion, ensure both parents’ voices are heard, and help them reach a mutually beneficial agreement. Instead of a contentious court battle, mediation focuses on creating a parenting plan through open communication and cooperation. In turn, this can lay the groundwork for a better co-parenting relationship.

Why Mediation Might Fail

Mediation isn’t always successful. Even though parents start with the best intentions, they might struggle to come to an agreement. Some reasons for failure include:

  • The divorce is high-conflict, making productive discussions impossible
  • One or both parents are unwilling to compromise
  • They are too far apart on key issues such as decision-making authority and schedules
  • There was domestic abuse
  • Some legal issues are still unresolved

Even if mediation fails, there are other options for resolving child custody issues.

What to Expect if Mediation Fails

When mediation fails, a family court judge becomes responsible for issuing a child custody order. They will hear both sides, consider the evidence, and make their decision based on factors such as:

  • The location of each parent
  • The parent’s ability to provide a safe and stable environment
  • The relationship between the child and each parent
  • The child’s preference, depending on their age

Before the court hearing, gather documentation such as medical records, school records, and any other evidence that demonstrates your ability to be a capable parent who prioritizes your child’s well-being. During the court hearing, stay focused on the child and avoid airing any grievances about the other parent. 

The judge may require additional information before deciding what is in the best interest of the child and may order a custody evaluation. An evaluator, such as a child psychologist or social worker, will conduct a thorough assessment, looking at factors such as:

  • Each parent’s relationship with the child 
  • How the child interacts with their parents
  • The ability of the parents to provide a stable environment
  • Each parent’s willingness to encourage a relationship between the child and the other parent

Upon concluding their assessment, they will provide recommendations to the judge.

Throughout the process, remember that your child is still adjusting to the new family dynamics. You play a crucial role in this adjustment. Prioritize their emotional health by maintaining a stable home environment and providing a consistent routine.

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Seek Legal Representation

There is too much at stake to navigate a child custody case on your own. You need the support and guidance of one of our experienced family lawyers at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri. Our attorneys have over 100 years of combined litigation experience. We will help present your case and advocate for a custody plan that is in the best interest of your child.

We understand that this situation is overwhelming, so we will be with you throughout the process, ensuring you know your rights and options.

Call (408) 553-0801 to schedule your free consultation. We look forward to working with you.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Navigating the Complexities of Blended Families: A Comprehensive Guide to Step-Parent Adoption

August 6, 2025/in Family Law /by Mitchell Ehrlich

Blended families are becoming increasingly common in the United States. When minor children are involved, some step-parents choose to take the significant and emotionally rewarding path toward legally adopting their spouse’s child. This process grants the step-parent all the legal rights and responsibilities of a biological parent, which can be important for custody, inheritance, healthcare and education decisions, and more. More than that, though, many step-parents feel that this legally-binding process reflects their dedication to a permanent parental relationship, which can strengthen emotional bonds and give the child a sense of security and identity. 

While step-parent adoption is rewarding, it can also present some challenges. This comprehensive guide explores the legal considerations and steps involved as well as some practical tips that can make the process smoother.

Legal Requirements and Eligibility

Although step-parent adoption laws vary by jurisdiction, some common requirements include:

  • Marriage: Most states require the step-parent to be legally married to the child’s biological or legal parent.
  • Consent: Usually, states require that the child’s non-custodial biological parent consents to the adoption unless their rights are terminated due to neglect, abandonment, or being unfit or deceased.
  • Background check: A criminal background check or home study might be required.
  • Child’s consent: For older children (usually over the age of 12), a court may also require their consent.

The Step-Parent Adoption Process

Because the adoption process can be complicated and laws vary by state, your first step should be to consult a family lawyer. They can help clarify the local legal procedures, file necessary paperwork, give you sound legal advice, and represent you in court.

Your family lawyer will file the adoption petition in your local family court. The petition will likely include consent forms, your marriage certificate, the child’s birth certificate, and proof that you have contacted (or attempted to contact) the non-custodial parent.

If you are unable to obtain consent from the non-custodial biological parent, the court must determine whether there are grounds to terminate their parental rights.

Once your petition has been filed, the court might ask for a home study to assess the living environment. This requirement is often either waived in the case of step-parent adoption or less rigorous than in other adoption petitions.

Finally, you and your spouse will attend a court hearing where the judge will review your case, ask questions, and either grant or deny the adoption. If granted, the child will receive a new birth certificate with the adoptive step-parent’s name, and the adoption becomes permanent and irreversible.

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Practical Tips

Include the child in the process, and be patient as they adjust to this new reality. Try to respect the existing parental relationship with the non-custodial parent, even if it is less than ideal. Consider family counseling and encourage open communication. Celebrate the adoption day as a family milestone by having a special ceremony or making a keepsake. Don’t be afraid to reach out and seek support. 

Interested in Pursuing Step-Parent Adoption?

The Family Law Group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri (LPEP Law) has years of experience in helping blended families navigate the challenges of adoption. Contact us to schedule a free 30-minute consultation to discuss your case today.

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter. 

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Guardianship Considerations in Estate Planning: Choosing the Right Caregivers for Minor Children

July 16, 2025/in Family Law /by Gretchen Boger

When it comes to estate planning, many people think of wills, trusts, and dividing up assets. But for parents of minor children, one of the most important decisions to make is choosing a legal guardian. If something unexpected happens to you, who will step in to raise and care for your children?

At LPEP, we understand that this question isn’t easy. But making a thoughtful plan now helps protect your children’s future and gives you peace of mind. Here’s what you need to know about guardianship considerations in estate planning.

What Is a Guardian?

A guardian is the person legally appointed to care for your minor child if both parents pass away or are otherwise unable to care for them. This includes making day-to-day decisions, providing a home, and ensuring the child’s physical, emotional, and educational needs are met.

In California, you can name a guardian for your child in your will. If you don’t make a plan, a judge will decide who takes on that responsibility, and it might not be the person you would have chosen.

What to Consider When Choosing a Guardian

It’s a big decision to make, but here are a few key things to think about:

  • Shared values: Does the person share your values, parenting style, and views on education, discipline, and religion? You want your children to be raised in a way that aligns with your beliefs.
  • Stability: Consider the guardian’s age, health, and overall lifestyle. Will they be emotionally and physically able to raise your children for years to come?
  • Location: Will your child need to move far away, change schools, or adjust to a completely different environment? Sometimes staying close to friends, relatives, or their familiar community can help provide comfort.
  • Existing relationships: Does your child already have a close, trusting relationship with this person? That connection can make a difficult transition a bit easier.
  • Willingness: Always talk to the person you’re considering. Don’t assume they’ll be able or willing to take on the role, as it’s a big responsibility.

Naming a Backup Guardian for Minor Children

Life can be unpredictable, so it’s smart to name an alternate guardian just in case your first choice can’t step in. This ensures your children are protected no matter what.

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Including Guardianship in Your Estate Plan

Once you’ve made your decision, it’s important to make it official. Work with an estate planning attorney to put your wishes in writing. This can be done as part of a will or a broader estate plan.

At LPEP, we specialize in helping California families create personalized estate plans that reflect their unique values and protect the people they love most. We’ll guide you through the process and help you make confident, informed choices.

Protect Your Child’s Future By Choosing a Legal Guardian

Choosing a guardian is never easy, but it’s one of the most loving things you can do for your children. By planning ahead, you take control of their future and give them the best chance for stability, care, and security, no matter what life brings.

Have questions about estate planning or guardianship in California? Schedule your free consultation with LPEP today – we’re here to help you protect what matters most.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges: A Guide for Divorced Parents

July 3, 2025/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

Divorce is often tough, but raising children together after divorce adds a whole new layer of complexity. Co-parenting isn’t always easy, but with the right mindset and a few practical tools, it can be successful. Whether you’re newly divorced or have been navigating this journey for a while, this guide is here to help you manage co-parenting challenges and focus on what matters most: your kids.

What Is Co-Parenting?

Co-parenting is when both parents remain actively involved in their child’s life after a separation or divorce. It means making joint decisions, attending school events, coordinating schedules, and staying in communication, preferably in a way that supports the child’s emotional well-being.

In California, family courts often encourage shared custody arrangements because studies show that children tend to do better when both parents are involved. That said, co-parenting successfully takes work.

Common Co-Parenting Challenges (And How to Handle Them)

Co-parenting comes with challenges, there’s no doubt about it. Here are some of the issues that many parents face when navigating this difficult situation. 

1. Communication Breakdowns

This is probably the most common challenge divorced parents face. Misunderstandings and emotional tension can make it hard to have clear conversations.

Tip: Use neutral, respectful language. Stick to the topic at hand and avoid bringing up past relationship issues. If face-to-face conversations are difficult, consider using parenting apps to keep everything documented and civil.

2. Different Parenting Styles

One parent might be more strict, while the other is more laid-back. This can confuse kids and lead to tension between parents.

Tip: You don’t have to agree on everything, but aim for consistency on the important issues like bedtimes, homework rules, and screen time. Focus on your shared goals: raising happy, healthy, respectful kids.

3. Scheduling Conflicts

Between school, sports, family holidays, and custody agreements, scheduling can quickly get messy.

Tip: Keep a shared calendar and plan ahead, especially for holidays and vacations. Be flexible when you can – life happens, and showing grace can go a long way.

4. Emotional Stress

Even if you’re on good terms with your co-parent, emotions like guilt, anger, or sadness can creep in.

Tip: Take care of yourself, too. Therapy, support groups, or just talking with a friend can help you process your feelings. The more balanced you are emotionally, the better parent you can be.

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When to Seek Legal Help for Co-Parenting Challenges

If you’re facing ongoing issues (like a parent not following the custody order, or constant conflict that affects your child), it may be time to revisit your parenting plan. In California, family law courts allow parents to request modifications when circumstances change.

At Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri, our experienced family law attorneys can help you understand your rights and options, and guide you through the legal process if needed.

Contact us today to schedule your free consultation.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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What To Know About Financial Affidavits

June 18, 2025/in Family Law /by Virginia Lively

Financial affidavits play a significant role in a variety of legal proceedings, such as divorce, child custody, and financial support. It’s a legal document that provides an in-depth look at an individual’s income, expenses, assets, and liabilities.

Why are financial affidavits so crucial, what needs to be included, and how can you ensure yours is accurate?

Let’s get started.

When Do You Need a Financial Affidavit?

Divorce proceedings are one of the most common scenarios requiring a financial affidavit. California’s community property laws require marital assets to be divided equally while each party retains their separate assets they had at the start of the marriage.

Still, dividing the assets and determining each person’s financial responsibilities can be challenging. With a financial affidavit, the court is better able to assess each person’s financial position and make decisions regarding the division of assets and debts and spousal support. 

The court can also ensure the child’s financial needs are met with support payments.

In addition to family law cases, financial affidavits may be required for large loans and mortgages so the lender can determine your ability to repay the loan. They can also be used to settle other legal matters, such as probate or the dissolution of a business partnership.

What Information Is Included in a Financial Affidavit?

California’s Income and Expense Declaration is very detailed and broken down into sections:

Income

In addition to your employer, education, and tax filing information, you must disclose all forms of income you receive, including wages (minus deductions), commissions, rental income, government assistance, and investments. You must also provide two months’ worth of paystubs and proof of other income.

Assets

This portion lists what you own, such as bank accounts, real estate, retirement investments, vehicles, and other assets you could easily sell minus the amount still owed.

Expenses

The form will ask you to list the people who live with you and if they are contributing financially to the household expenses. This section also wants details about your current financial obligations, like housing, utilities, and food. It also wants you to list your discretionary spending on entertainment and vacations.

Liabilities

Other financial obligations, such as car loans, student loans, and credit card payments, also need to be included so the court can have a comprehensive view of your financial situation. 

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The Importance of Transparency and Accuracy

Your financial affidavit is a legal document. Therefore, it’s vital that you present a truthful picture of your financial health. Avoid guessing at your numbers. Double-check and verify the information you entered and have your supporting documents ready.

If the court finds any discrepancies or omissions, it could harm your credibility, delay court proceedings, and result in legal consequences. Transparent and honest records pave the way for a fair resolution.

Let LPEP Law Help

Considering how crucial the financial affidavit is to your divorce proceedings, you don’t want to leave anything to chance. Our lawyers at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri can work with you to ensure your affidavit is complete and gives an accurate, in-depth picture of your finances and supporting documentation. Doing it on your own can be stressful. By letting us handle the details, you can know that our experienced professionals are working to protect your interests.

Contact us at (408) 553-0801 for a free consultation. 

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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New Legislation on Family Leave: Implications for Custody and Support Agreements

June 4, 2025/in Family Law /by Mitchell Ehrlich

Divorce is hard. Trying to negotiate and balance child custody agreements or determine child support can add stress to an already emotionally draining situation. Laws regulating family leave aim to protect families by providing a framework to allow individuals to take time off when they need it to care for children or other family members without the threat of losing their job and income. In this article, we’ll look at family leave and some of the implications for custody and support agreements.

State vs Federal Laws

Under the federal Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA), qualified employees are entitled to take up to 12 weeks of unpaid leave within a 12-month timeframe for specific medical or family-related reasons. While there have been proposals to broaden the scope of the FMLA, its current provisions remain limited. Parents may only take leave to bond with a newborn, newly adopted, or foster child, or to care for a child facing a serious health issue.

For those not eligible for the FMLA, you might find some relief through state-specific policies on family leave, although these vary greatly from state to state. Several states have enacted mandatory or voluntary paid family leave laws, which lessen the financial burden on parents who need to take time off to care for children. Even if your state does not yet have policies in place, it’s a good idea to keep checking because family law is a dynamic field, and changes could impact custody and child support agreements.

Impact on Custody Agreement

Whatever family leave policies are in place with your employer could affect your capacity for physical custody or availability for a visitation schedule. If you are able to take extended time off, or if your work schedule can be more flexible, you might be able to ask for joint custody or a more favorable visitation schedule (i.e., not limited to weekends).

Some state family leave legislation also provides for gender-neutral leave policies, which means that both parents can take time off as needed, which opens the door for a more balanced and equitable custody arrangement and visitation schedule.

If you already have a custody agreement in place, you might need to provide proof from your employer that you will be able to take leave to care for your child before any adjustments will be made.

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Impact on Child Support

Courts often calculate child support agreements based on parents’ income, so agreements might need to be modified in light of family leave, especially if it is for an extended time. Paid family leave, where available, can reduce the financial strain on parents and make it easier to meet child support obligations. However, if family leave is unpaid, a parent’s income might be reduced, which could then reduce child support obligations, at least while the parent is on leave.

Family Law Experts in California

If you live in California and have questions about state family leave legislation and how it might affect your custody or child support agreements, it’s best to speak with certified family law specialists who are committed to staying on the cutting-edge of important legal developments in family law. The family law group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri (LPEP Law) has extensive experience in helping clients navigate the family court system and will work toward the best outcome for you and your family.

Call LPEP Law at 408-553-0801 to schedule a free, no-obligation consultation to discuss your custody and child support issues. Get the help you need today.

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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The Effect of Rising Inflation on Alimony and Child Support Calculations

May 21, 2025/in Family Law /by Gretchen Boger

The last half decade has been marked by unprecedented events, including a global pandemic followed by the highest rate of inflation seen in 40 years. We are starting to see some prices decrease as inflation cools, but we still haven’t reached pre-pandemic levels. It’s likely we never will, as the cost of goods is affected by other forces.

Rising costs are felt everywhere. Alimony and child support payments that once seemed reasonable may now feel inadequate. How does inflation impact alimony and child support calculations? Do payments automatically increase, or does one of the parties need to request a modification in payment amounts?

The Cost of Living 

The cost of raising a child has substantially increased over the past few years. In 2019, it cost an estimated $233,610 to raise a child from birth to age 18, not including college expenses. In 2025, that estimate increased by over 60% to $375,000.

Families are seeing higher prices in more places than the grocery store. The price of housing, utilities, child care, healthcare, clothing, extracurricular activities, and private school tuition have risen dramatically. 

Inflation erodes the purchasing power of alimony and child support payments. When payments aren’t keeping up with rising costs, families risk falling below the poverty line, the very thing those payments are meant to prevent.

California’s Guidelines on Alimony and Child Support

California’s courts oversee spousal support, also known as alimony, and child support as outlined in the California Family Code. Alimony provides support to a spouse after a divorce or separation so both parties can maintain a standard of living close to the one they had during the marriage. It’s not uncommon for one spouse to experience financial hardship after a divorce, and alimony aims to address that imbalance.

Child support ensures that both parents are contributing financially to their children’s upbringing after the divorce. If the child resides primarily with one parent, the other parent may be expected to pay more towards their support.

However, neither alimony nor child support payments adjust automatically to keep up with increases in the cost-of-living unless the judge includes a cost-of-living adjustment (COLA) clause in the court orders. COLAs will automatically increase the payments to keep pace with inflation.

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Modification Requests

California courts allow requests for modification of alimony and child support payments. Requesting a modification requires proof of a significant change in circumstances. Typically, modification requests are associated with changes in income, the needs of the child, or parenting time. 

Rising inflation can also qualify as a significant change. If the alimony or child support orders don’t have a COLA clause, either party can petition the court and request a modification hearing. 

LPEP Law Can Help

Inflation affects everyone, but when alimony and child support payments aren’t keeping up with rising costs, it can cause financial insecurity. Fortunately, there are legal options available. Our attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri can help you petition the court for modification. We will guide you through the process and ensure you have the necessary documentation to support your request. With our assistance, your request for payment modification is more likely to be successful.

Contact us at (408) 553-0801 to schedule a free consultation. 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Remote Work and Parenting Plans: How Virtual Employment is Changing Custody Agreements

May 7, 2025/in Family Law /by Gina Policastri

The shift to remote work has changed many aspects of daily life, including child custody agreements. For divorced or separated parents, virtual employment provides new opportunities for flexible parenting plans, but also introduces unique challenges. Let’s take a look at how custody agreements have changed in the era of remote and hybrid work.

Increased Flexibility for Parenting Time

One of the biggest advantages of remote work is flexibility. Parents who work from home often have more control over their schedules, allowing them to be more involved in their child’s daily routine. This can mean:

  • More opportunities for shared custody or equal parenting time
  • Easier adjustments to schedules when children are sick or have school events
  • The ability to care for younger children without relying on daycare

For some families, this flexibility allows for co-parenting arrangements that would not have been possible with a traditional in-office job.

Modifying Existing Custody Agreements Due to Remote Work

If one or both parents now work remotely, they may need to modify their custody agreement to reflect this change. Some factors that courts consider when modifying agreements include:

  • Whether a parent’s work-from-home schedule allows them to provide proper supervision
  • The stability and consistency of the child’s routine
  • The ability of both parents to communicate and collaborate effectively

California courts prioritize the best interests of the child when reviewing custody modifications. If remote work enables a parent to take on more parenting responsibilities, they may have a stronger case for increased custody time.

Challenges of Remote Work and Co-Parenting

While remote work can offer flexibility, it also presents challenges for co-parenting.

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Disruptions During Work Hours

Working from home does not always mean a parent is available to care for their child. Video meetings, deadlines, and work commitments can make it difficult to balance parenting duties. If one parent argues that the other is not able to provide full supervision during work hours, this could lead to disputes over custody arrangements.

Relocation and Virtual Visitation in Custody Agreements

Remote work allows some parents to move to new cities or states while keeping their jobs. If a parent wants to relocate, the custody agreement may need to be revised to account for:

  • Long-distance parenting schedules
  • Virtual visitation arrangements using video calls
  • Travel costs and responsibilities for in-person visits

California law requires parents to seek court approval for major relocations that impact custody arrangements. The court will consider whether the move is in the best interest of the child and how it affects the co-parenting relationship.

Contact Us for Legal Guidance on Custody Modifications

If you are a parent navigating custody changes due to remote work, our family law attorneys can help. An LPEP lawyer can:

  • Assess whether your custody agreement needs modification
  • Help negotiate a fair parenting plan
  • Represent you in court if necessary

As remote work continues to shape family life, we understand that custody agreements must adapt to meet the needs of both parents and children. If you have questions about custody modifications or need to make changes to your current arrangement, contact LPEP to schedule a free consultation with one of our family law experts.

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Why Is It Important to Have a Family Lawyer?

April 23, 2025/in Family Law /by Virginia Lively

Family matters can be complex, emotional, and legally challenging. Whether you’re going through a divorce, dealing with child custody issues, or planning your estate, having a family lawyer can make a significant difference. A knowledgeable legal professional ensures your rights are protected and helps you navigate difficult situations with clarity and confidence.

Why You Need a Family Lawyer

A family lawyer specializes in legal issues related to family relationships. They handle cases such as divorce, child custody, alimony, adoption, and estate planning. Their expertise ensures that you understand your rights and responsibilities while providing legal strategies tailored to your situation.

1. Legal Expertise in Family Matters

Family law is a specialized field that involves various legal procedures and regulations. A family lawyer:

  • Provides accurate legal advice based on your specific case.
  • Ensures that all paperwork is filed correctly and on time.
  • Represents you in court or negotiations to secure the best outcome.

Without legal guidance, you might make mistakes that could impact your future and that of your loved ones.

2. Family Lawyers for Divorce and Separation

Divorce can be emotionally draining and legally complicated. A family lawyer can:

  • Help with fair division of assets and debts.
  • Negotiate child custody and visitation rights.
  • Ensure proper spousal and child support arrangements.

Having legal representation ensures that your rights and interests are protected during this life-changing process.

3. Child Custody and Support

When children are involved, custody and support become critical issues. A family lawyer will:

  • Advocate for the best interests of the child.
  • Ensure fair child support agreements are in place.
  • Mediate and negotiate custody disputes to avoid prolonged court battles.

Their expertise can help minimize conflict and create a stable environment for your child.

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4. Adoption and Guardianship with Family Lawyers

Adopting a child is a joyful occasion but involves many legal procedures. A family lawyer can:

  • Guide you through adoption laws and requirements.
  • Help with home studies and background checks.
  • Ensure all paperwork is properly filed and processed.

Similarly, in cases where guardianship is needed, a lawyer ensures that the process is legally sound and beneficial for the child.

5. Estate Planning and Wills

Planning for the future is essential to protect your family. A family lawyer can assist with:

  • Drafting wills and trusts to ensure your assets are distributed as you wish.
  • Establishing power of attorney in case you become incapacitated.
  • Avoiding legal disputes over your estate after your passing.

Proper estate planning prevents confusion and potential conflicts among family members.

6. Domestic Violence and Protection Orders

If you’re facing domestic violence, a family lawyer can help by:

  • Obtaining restraining orders to protect you and your children.
  • Representing you in court hearings for safety measures.
  • Providing legal options to secure your rights and well-being.

Having legal support is crucial in these difficult situations.

Set Up Your Family Law Consultation Today With LPEP

The Family Law team at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri is among the most established family law practices in the Bay Area. Whether you are facing a divorce, custody battle, adoption, or estate planning, having a trusted legal professional by your side ensures that you navigate these challenges with the best possible outcome.

Contact LPEP today to set up your free family law consultation.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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How Can an Order of Protection be Reversed in California?

April 9, 2025/in Family Law /by Mitchell Ehrlich

Protective orders can be requested by a police officer (Emergency Protective Order), a judge (Criminal Protective Order), a victim of domestic abuse, stalking, harassment, etc. (restraining order), or in some cases of divorce to protect assets (Automatic Temporary Restraining Order). If you have an order of protection against you in the state of California, you have the option to request modifications or dissolution to that order if you so choose. Usually, you will need to present evidence in court to support your request. The following guide outlines the steps you need to take.

File a Request to Modify or Dissolve

If you want to change any of the terms of an existing order of protection (e.g., modifying parental visitation rights) or if you want the court to dissolve or dismiss the order completely, you would file a request with the court. Once you have filed your request, the court will schedule a hearing to provide you the opportunity to present evidence to support your request. 

Provide Supporting Evidence

As with any other court case, you will need to gather and provide evidence supporting the need for a modification or dismissal of your order of protection. Witness statements, financial documents, texts, emails, doctor’s notes, etc. can all be used to show that circumstances have changed and the relationship has improved to the point where protection is no longer needed.

Attend the Hearing

It is very important to attend the hearing and provide your evidence to the judge in person. Both sides involved in the order of protection should be present. Based on the evidence, the judge will:

  • Modify the terms of the order as requested
  • Dismiss the order, which effectively reverses, dissolves, or lifts it, or
  • Deny the request, if the court finds that the order is still necessary for safety or other reasons

If your request is denied, you may choose to appeal the decision, however, the appeals process can be complicated, time-consuming, and expensive.

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Other Considerations

The family court will always prioritize the safety of the protected party when considering a request to modify or reverse an order of protection. Orders of protection only remain valid for a set amount of time (as little as a few weeks to as much as five years), but the protected party can request that the order of protection be extended as necessary. On the other hand, in some cases, the court might agree to end or modify the order earlier than the stated time frame, if the evidence supports it.

Consult With Family Law Experts for Help

Family law can be complicated, but you don’t have to do it alone. If you are considering requesting a change to, or reversal of, a current order or protection, get a free consultation from the family law attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri (LPEP Law). We have decades of experience helping our clients navigate the California family law court system, including working with restraining orders of all kinds. Let us help protect your rights. 

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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