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Estate Planning for Unmarried Couples: Understanding Your Options

October 15, 2025/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

When people think about estate planning, they often picture married couples creating wills, trusts, and powers of attorney together. But what about couples who aren’t married? In California, unmarried couples don’t have the same automatic rights and protections as married spouses. 

That means estate planning is not just recommended, it’s essential. Without proper planning, state law may dictate who receives your assets, who makes decisions for you if you’re incapacitated, and who is recognized as your partner.

Below, we’ll explore the key estate planning tools available for unmarried couples and how they can help protect your relationship and future.

Why Estate Planning Matters for Unmarried Couples

California’s intestacy laws (the rules that determine who inherits when someone dies without a will) favor legally recognized family members such as spouses, children, and parents. Unmarried partners are not included. This means that if you pass away without a plan, your partner may receive nothing, regardless of how long you’ve been together.

Plus, without proper documentation, your partner may have no legal right to make medical or financial decisions on your behalf in the event of incapacity. Estate planning ensures that your wishes (and your partner) are protected.

Key Estate Planning Tools for Unmarried Couples

Wills and Trusts for Unmarried Couples

A will allows you to name beneficiaries for your assets and appoint an executor. For unmarried couples, this ensures your partner inherits as you intended. However, wills must go through probate in California, which can be lengthy and public.

A revocable living trust is often a stronger option. Trusts bypass probate, allowing your partner to access assets more quickly and privately. They also allow you to name alternate beneficiaries and outline specific terms for asset distribution.

Powers of Attorney

If you become incapacitated, a financial power of attorney allows your partner to manage your financial affairs, such as paying bills, handling investments, and accessing accounts. Without this document, your partner may need to go to court to gain authority, which can be stressful and time-consuming.

Advance Health Care Directive

In California, an advance health care directive lets you name your partner as the person to make medical decisions if you can’t speak for yourself. It also allows you to state your wishes regarding life support, organ donation, and end-of-life care. Without this directive, medical providers may turn to family members instead of your partner.

Beneficiary Designations for Unmarried Couples

Some assets, like retirement accounts, life insurance policies, and payable-on-death bank accounts, pass directly to named beneficiaries. Be sure to update these designations to include your partner if that’s your intent.

Taking the Next Step

Estate planning for unmarried couples in California requires proactive steps to ensure your wishes are honored and your partner is protected. Wills, trusts, powers of attorney, and healthcare directives work together to give you peace of mind and safeguard your relationship.

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Work With an Experienced Estate Planning Attorney in the Bay Area

If you and your partner are ready to protect your future, it’s important to work with an experienced estate planning attorney who understands California law. A trusted attorney can help you create a personalized plan that ensures your wishes are respected and your partner is secure.

Contact Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri today to schedule your free consultation and start building the protection you both deserve.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Does Moving to Another State Affect Your Estate Planning?

September 24, 2025/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

Preparing to move almost requires a degree in logistics. It involves juggling numerous tasks, such as organizing and packing belongings, coordinating with movers, managing timelines, and ensuring that nothing gets lost or damaged in the process. 

Various forms need to be updated, such as the USPS change of address, driver’s license, vehicle registration, and voter registration. Furthermore, each state has its own laws, and what is legal in your current state may be outlawed in your new locale. Does that also include your estate plan?

How State Laws Influence Estate Planning

Your estate plan consists of legal documents that dictate what happens to your assets and healthcare decisions if you become incapacitated or pass away. The core elements include:

  • A will that directs how your assets get distributed after death and appoints guardians for any minor children
  • Power of attorney (POA) to handle your financial decisions if you can’t
  • Advance directives and a healthcare proxy, which outline your medical care preferences and appoint someone to make decisions for you
  • Trusts to manage assets during your lifetime and beyond

Each state has its own rules regarding these documents. What’s valid in California might not meet the requirements in Texas, Florida, or New York. For example, in California, probate can be expensive and time-consuming, taking 12-18 months and costing 3-7% of the estate’s value. Texas and Florida have relatively efficient probate procedures with lower costs, whereas New York has complex rules that can significantly extend the process.

California vs Other States

California is one of nine states that recognize community property. Any assets acquired during the marriage belong to both spouses equally. Other states follow the common law property rules, where the person’s name on the title determines ownership. Moving from California to a common law state requires a review of how assets are titled and potentially an update to your estate plan to reflect the new ownership rules.

California doesn’t impose state estate and inheritance taxes. However, 12 states and the District of Columbia have their own estate taxes, and six states impose inheritance taxes on the beneficiaries. If you move to another state from California, you might need to restructure your estate plan to minimize the tax burden on your beneficiaries. This could potentially save your loved ones a significant amount of money.

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If you continue to own property in California and purchase some in your new state, you need to consider that each piece of real estate is subject to the laws of the state where it’s located. You will also need to review your assets that are outside of your will and are passed on through beneficiary designations, such as life insurance policies, bank accounts, and retirement investments like a 401(k).

Your digital assets, including social media accounts and cryptocurrency holdings, also need to be addressed in your estate plan. Some states have adopted the Revised Uniform Fiduciary Access to Digital Assets Act, while others have limited or no specific laws governing digital assets. Complicating matters even more is the issue that tech companies may have their own policies that override state laws. Your estate plan should include provisions for digital estate management that comply with the laws of your new state.

Estate Planning Guidance from LPEP Law

Estate planning is complex, and interstate moves make it even more challenging. Our attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri specialize in estate planning and are familiar with the differences between states. They can work with you to review and update your existing plan.

Contact us at 408-553-0801 to schedule your free consultation. Remember, estate planning isn’t a one-and-done task. It’s an ongoing process that should evolve with your life circumstances, including where you live.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Estate Planning Across Borders: Navigating International Family Dynamics

September 10, 2025/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

In an interconnected world, international families are becoming more common. Loved ones may stretch across multiple continents in their search for more diversity and opportunities.

Estate planning can be daunting under normal circumstances. Factoring in family members living in another country takes estate planning to a whole new level. 

How do you ensure your wishes are carried out and your wealth is allocated fairly across borders when laws, taxes, and cultural expectations vary? Estate planning for international families is more about paperwork. It’s also about striking a balance. 

Key Challenges in International Estate Planning

Differences in legal systems, tax codes, and cultural expectations create challenges in international estate planning. Here are some of the key hurdles families may face:

Differing legal systems

Inheritance laws can vary significantly, affecting who inherits and the amount they receive. Some countries have a system of forced heirship, which means that the law dictates that a portion of the estate must be distributed to specific family members, regardless of what the will states. Other countries have more testamentary freedom and flexibility in determining how assets are distributed.

Tax Implications

Some countries have an inheritance tax, which can vary in rates and exemptions. They also vary whether they base their estate tax on the location of the assets or the domicile of the deceased. For example, countries such as the United States tax the worldwide assets of their citizens, regardless of where they live. 

When creating an estate plan, it’s essential to consider the risk of double taxation. This occurs when the assets are taxed in the deceased’s country, but the beneficiaries also face a tax bill from their country of residence. 

The United States does have tax treaties in place with several countries, including Canada, the United Kingdom, Germany, and France. Tax treaties on gifts and inheritances help mitigate the impact of double taxation.

Cultural and Family Dynamics

International estate planning also requires a balance between legal obligations and cultural expectations.

In certain cultures, primogeniture is the expectation in which the eldest son inherits most or all of the family assets. Other cultures tend towards an equal distribution of assets among all children, regardless of their gender or birth order.

Gender roles are another factor in estate planning. Some patriarchal societies don’t allow women to inherit assets, and property passes to the male relatives. This expectation can clash with legal systems that prioritize equal rights and look to ensure fairness among all beneficiaries.

These cultural differences can affect the recognition and enforceability of foreign wills.

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Collaborate with LPEP Law

When crafting an international estate plan, it’s vital to work with experts who are familiar with cross-border issues. At Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri, our attorneys, with their extensive knowledge and experience, can guide you through the complexities of international estate planning. We can explain how to use treaties, trusts, and other legal tools to your advantage, giving you the confidence that your plan is in good hands.

Estate planning across borders can be complex, but we have strategies to create a plan tailored to your unique needs.

Contact us at (408) 553-0801 to schedule your free consultation.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Coping with Estate Disputes: Strategies for Resolving Family Conflicts Amicably

August 27, 2025/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

When a loved one passes away, emotions run high, and when estates and inheritances are involved, unresolved tensions can quickly boil over. Estate disputes are sadly common, especially in cases where wills are unclear, outdated, or contested. 

Families in California often find themselves navigating a maze of legal and emotional challenges, but with the right approach, it is possible to resolve these conflicts without damaging relationships permanently.

Below, we explore practical and compassionate strategies for managing estate-related disagreements and keeping family bonds intact.

Understanding the Roots of Estate Disputes

Most estate disputes stem from one of three key issues:

  • Ambiguity in the will or trust
  • Perceived unfairness or favoritism
  • Lack of communication or trust among family members

In California, probate laws are relatively clear, but emotions can still cloud judgment. Even with a valid will or trust, siblings or other beneficiaries might question the intentions behind certain distributions or suspect undue influence. Recognizing these emotional undercurrents is the first step toward resolution.

Strategies for Resolving Estate Disputes Amicably

Prioritize Open and Honest Communication

One of the most effective ways to prevent or resolve conflict is through direct, respectful conversation. Whenever possible, gather family members for a calm, neutral discussion. Acknowledge that everyone is grieving and that emotions may impact how they perceive the situation. 

If a group conversation isn’t feasible, consider written communication or one-on-one meetings to express concerns and clarify intentions.

Involve a Neutral Third Party in Family Conflicts

If conversations become heated or unproductive, mediation can be incredibly helpful. In California, estate mediation is a voluntary, confidential process where a trained neutral party helps guide families toward a mutually acceptable resolution. 

Unlike litigation, it’s less adversarial and often faster and less expensive. Mediation also preserves privacy, a major advantage when compared to court proceedings.

Understand Your Legal Rights and Options

In California, heirs and beneficiaries have the right to contest a will or trust under specific circumstances, such as:

  • Suspected undue influence
  • Lack of mental capacity at the time the document was signed
  • Fraud or forgery
  • A more recent will that supersedes an older one

Understanding these legal grounds can help families determine whether a claim is justified or not, and prevent unnecessary legal battles.

Plan Ahead to Prevent Estate Disputes

The best way to avoid estate conflicts is with proactive planning. Working with an experienced estate planning attorney ensures that your documents are legally sound, regularly updated, and clearly reflect your wishes. This foresight reduces ambiguity and minimizes the risk of family strife after your passing.

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When to Seek Legal Guidance Regarding Estate Disputes

If your family is struggling with an estate dispute in California, don’t face it alone. A compassionate and skilled estate planning attorney can help mediate conflicts, clarify your legal rights, and guide you through probate or trust administration.

Need Help Navigating an Estate Dispute?

At Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri, we specialize in estate planning and dispute resolution throughout California. Our experienced attorneys offer thoughtful, solutions-focused support to help families protect their loved ones’ legacies, without tearing relationships apart. 

Contact us today for a free, confidential consultation.

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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How to Plan for a Pet Trust: Providing for Your Furry Friends’ Future

August 13, 2025/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

Do you have a plan for who will care for your pets after your death or if you become incapacitated and unable to care for them yourself? Many people assume that friends or family will volunteer to adopt their pets, but the reality is that many pets go unclaimed instead. Even if you’ve included instructions in your will to appoint a caregiver, it can sometimes be difficult to enforce your wishes legally.

So what’s the best way to provide a secure future for your beloved pets? Consider a pet trust.

What is a Pet Trust? 

A pet trust is a legally-enforceable agreement that allows you to designate a caregiver, set aside funds, and set out specific instructions for the care you want your pet to receive until their death. 

What to Include in a Pet Trust

We’ve put together the following tips to help you think about what to include in your pet trust.

Caregiver

The named caregiver will be the person who takes physical custody of your pet and becomes responsible for their daily care. Choose someone you trust but also someone who is both willing and capable of caring for your pet long-term. Have an honest conversation with them before assigning them as the caregiver and have a backup in mind in case your first choice cannot fulfill this role.

Trustee

Designate a separate person (or organization) to manage the money in the trust and make sure it is used appropriately for the care of your pet. Friends or family members can be good choices but you can also consider an attorney or even a non-profit organization that specializes in pet stewardship.

Funds

Set aside enough money to cover care costs for as long as your pet lives. Some people fund their trust through savings, a life insurance policy, or by selling property or other assets. It can be helpful to work with an estate planning attorney to make sure your method of funding the pet trust doesn’t conflict with your will and the rest of your estate plan.

When estimating the costs of care, think about food, veterinary visits and potential emergency care, grooming needs, medication, boarding or pet sitting, and burial or cremation. Try to factor in inflation and also think about how long you think your pet might live. Some species or breeds have specific health problems or shorter or longer lifespans. Do some research online or talk to your veterinarian to help you with estimates. 

Detailed Care Instructions

You know your pet best. Include as much detail as you can to help your chosen caregiver know exactly what your pet needs. Instructions should include things like:

  • Diet and feeding schedule
  • Any known health conditions
  • Medications
  • Behavior quirks and history
  • Routines
  • Preferred veterinarians
  • Exercise needs
  • Pet sitters or boarding facilities

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Consult with an Estate Planning Professional

Establishing a pet trust can give you much-needed peace of mind that your beloved companion will be well-taken care of when you are no longer able to do so. The Estate Planning Group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri (LPEP Law) can guide you as you make the necessary decisions to set up your pet trust and incorporate it into your estate plan. Schedule your free, no-obligation consultation to get started today.

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Understanding Intestate Succession: What Happens When You Die Without a Will

July 24, 2025/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

The best way to ensure that your wishes are carried out after your death is to draft a will. However, many people put off writing a will and estate planning, especially if they are young and healthy or don’t have many assets. So, what happens if you die without a will? 

When someone dies without a valid will in place, also known as dying intestate, the courts in their state of residence will distribute their property and other assets. Although the specific intestate succession laws are similar in most states and usually prioritize close family relatives to be beneficiaries, the distribution amounts may vary. 

The following is a general overview of how states might divide your inheritance, depending on your situation.

Spouse Only

If you were married but did not have any children, your spouse will most likely receive all your assets. Some states might require the spouse to share with your parents and siblings, however, which could lead to some family disputes.

Spouse and Children

For those who leave behind a spouse and children, most states will distribute your estate between them, depending on whether your children are minors or adults. In cases where you share all your children with your spouse (i.e., you do not have children from a previous relationship), your spouse would likely get a larger share of the inheritance, if not all of your estate.

Children Only

Your children (both biological and adopted) would most likely inherit your entire estate, distributed equally, if you do not have a spouse. Although this type of equal distribution might be fine, there could be cases where you might prefer a more equitable distribution among your children, especially if you have a special needs child or a child who would benefit from more financial help. Making a will is the only way to guarantee your estate is distributed the way you want.

No Spouse and No Children

In the absence of a spouse or children, the courts will seek out your closest relatives. Generally, the order of distribution would go:

  • Parents
  • Siblings
  • Nieces and nephews
  • Grandparents
  • Aunts, uncles, and cousins

No Living Relatives

Without any near or distant living relatives, the state would probably take ownership of your assets. Even if you have a romantic partner who you are not married to, stepchildren from a previous relationship, close friends, or charities you support, none of these are eligible to inherit, based on intestate succession laws.

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Get Help With Your Will Today

If you’ve been putting off writing your will but want to make sure your wishes are known when it comes to the distribution of your estate, set up a free consultation with the Estate Planning Group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri. We have years of experience in helping our clients consider all the ins and outs of writing a will, including tax considerations, setting up trusts, choosing guardians for minor children, and more. Having everything in place before you need it will simplify the process for your loved ones and ensure you can provide for them as you see fit. Don’t wait. Get help with your will today.

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Planning for the Future: How to Create a Comprehensive Will and Testament

July 9, 2025/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

Although it’s not the most comfortable topic, it’s important to plan for the future even if you are young and in great health. Many people put off writing a will, but drafting a comprehensive will and testament is an important step in making sure your wishes are carried out if you die or become incapacitated. Without a will, important decisions such as who will care for your minor children or who receives your assets might be left in the hands of the court. So how do you create a comprehensive will and testament? Consider the following tips:

Choose an Executor

An executor will be responsible for making sure the terms set out in your will are carried out appropriately. Since they will be managing your financial affairs, choose someone trustworthy who is capable of handling your estate and is willing to accept this role. It’s probably a good idea to name an alternate executor as well in case your first choice falls through.

Make a Detailed List of Assets

Assets are things that you own that have value such as real estate, financial accounts (e.g., bank accounts, stocks and bonds, retirement funds), personal property (e.g., car, boat, jewelry, heirlooms, art), cash, and business assets. Don’t forget to account for your virtual and digital assets as well. 

Designate Beneficiaries

How do you want your assets to be distributed? Be specific about the amount (or items) you want each individual, organization, or charity to receive. The more detail you can provide, the less chance for confusion and conflict.

Appoint a Guardian for Minor Children

For parents with minor children, one of the most important things to include is your choice of a guardian who will take care of them in your stead. Of course, you will choose someone you trust, but, if possible, try to find someone who has an existing (and good) relationship with your children. Make sure the person is willing and able to perform these duties in the long term.

Address Debts and Expenses

Your executor will use the assets in your estate to pay off any outstanding debts like mortgages, loans, credit card bills, medical bills, etc. However, it can be helpful to list your debts and expenses in the same way that you listed your assets to ensure that everything is covered and your beneficiaries will not be subject to creditors or legal action. 

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Sign Your Will Properly

Make sure you understand your state’s laws regarding wills. To be legally binding, your will needs to be signed by you and at least two disinterested adult witnesses (i.e., not beneficiaries). In some states, the witnesses must sign in your presence while other states accept a signed affidavit.

Consult with an Estate Planning Attorney

Although there is software available to help you write a will, it’s always a good idea to talk to a legal professional. They can help you consider tax implications as well as estate planning tools that might be best for your situation such as a special needs trust, a living will, healthcare directives, power of attorney, and more. Your estate planning attorney can also safely store your will for you and set up regular reviews and updates to account for major life changes like getting married or having a child.

Schedule a free consultation with the estate planning group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri to get started on planning your future today!

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Why Is It So Important To Have a Medical Power of Attorney?

June 25, 2025/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

Humans prefer predictable situations and outcomes. Predictability means less stress and anxiety and an overall sense of control. It’s why some people read their horoscope, visit psychics, or have tarot readings. After all, if we know what will happen, we can be better prepared.

But life is unpredictable, and we can’t know the future. However, we can still be prepared. That is what a medical power of attorney provides.

What is a Medical Power of Attorney?

A Medical Power of Attorney (POA) is a legal document designating a trusted individual, known as an agent or healthcare proxy, to make healthcare decisions on your behalf if you are incapacitated. 

Even with advanced healthcare directives, you still need a medical POA. Advance directives often outline your wishes for end-of-life care. It provides guidelines to your medical team regarding life-extending measures, such as no feeding tubes, Do Not Incubate (DNI), and Do Not Resuscitate (DNR). 

A medical POA covers situations not covered by your advance directives. For example, if you are in an accident, they have the authority to make medical decisions for you regarding your care, such as what types of treatment you should and should not receive.

A Medical POA Provides Peace of Mind

There are several good reasons to have a medical POA, such as:

  • It ensures your healthcare wishes are respected and prevents unwanted medical interventions
  • You are empowering someone who understands your values and priorities to act on your behalf
  • It avoids conflicts or confusion among family members about your care
  • Timely decisions can be made without delays
  • It ensures your decisions comply with state laws
  • It allows your healthcare proxy to access your medical records

Key Components of a Medical Power of Attorney

To ensure your medical POA is legally binding and accurately reflects your wishes, it should include the following:

1. Scope of Authority

Your medical POA should clearly describe the decisions your healthcare proxy is authorized to make, such as medical treatments, procedures, and care plans. Their authority is limited to what is listed in the document and the law.

2. Activation

There should be a clause specifying when the medical POA becomes effective, which is typically when a healthcare professional deems you incapacitated.

3. Preferences

You should include instructions if you have specific medical preferences you want your healthcare proxy to follow, such as life-sustaining treatments.

4. Revocation

The document should include a statement affirming your right to revoke or amend the medical POA at any time, as long as you are mentally competent.

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Your Medical POA is Part of a Comprehensive Estate Plan

Your estate plan is more than just deciding how to distribute your assets after you pass away. It also includes essential elements such as:

  • Appointing guardians for minor children or dependent adults
  • Management of your financial affairs if you’re incapacitated
  • Establishing trusts to protect your assets 
  • Having someone advocate for your medical preferences if you are severely injured

A comprehensive estate plan is about preparing for life’s unexpected events and reducing the emotional and financial burden on your family. 

Our attorneys at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri are experienced estate planners. We are ready to help you create a medical power of attorney and any other necessary estate planning documents. We understand that everyone’s needs are different, which is why any legal document we create for you reflects your values and protects what matters most to you.

Contact us at (408) 553-0801 to schedule your free consultation. You can’t predict the future, but you can be prepared for it.

 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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Estate Planning for LGBTQ+ Couples: Navigating Legal Considerations and Challenges

June 11, 2025/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

Anyone who has assets should have an estate plan. In some cases, estate planning for LGBTQ+ couples can be even more important to make sure that your wishes with regard to distribution of assets, guardianship of children, and healthcare and medical decisions are honored. Below, we’ll go over some specific legal considerations that LGBTQ+ couples should consider and unique challenges that you might face when it comes to estate planning. 

Marital Status and Legal Rights

Although same-sex marriage is recognized legally at the national level, some states might not automatically recognize the rights of same-sex partners, especially when it comes to healthcare decisionmaking, inheritance rights, joint ownership of property, and tax benefits for spouses. In some places, LGBTQ+ couples are limited to civil unions or domestic partnerships. Although these statuses offer some protection and benefits, they might not be as robust as couples would like, so it’s vital to clearly document what you want using the legal documents discussed below.

Wills and Trusts

One of the first things to think about in estate planning is creating a will. List all of your assets and debts and how you would like everything to be distributed. For LGBTQ+ couples, a detailed will is especially important if you have children from a prior relationship, if you are unmarried, or if your family members do not accept your relationship. Clearly state who the beneficiaries are and what they should receive. Note that you should also designate your partner as your primary beneficiary on life insurance policies, retirement accounts, and other financial assets to ensure these benefits do not default to a biological family member.

You might also consider establishing a trust to help protect your assets and ensure that your partner is able to inherit directly without any legal issues or familial conflict. Trusts can also sometimes provide tax benefits and protect assets from creditors and the probate process.

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Guardianship Provisions

For LGBTQ+ couples with children, it is important to establish legal parental rights, especially for the non-biological parent of stepchildren or for both parents if the children are adopted. This legal recognition means that both partners have custody and guardianship rights, which can protect against potential challenges from biological family members after the death of one of the partners. In addition, you can appoint a guardian for your minor children (including biological, adopted, and stepchildren) in your estate plan to clearly set out your wishes.

Healthcare Directives

Consider establishing a healthcare proxy or power of attorney for your partner. In some cases, without this provision, your partner might not be legally able to make necessary medical decisions for you if you become incapacitated. If you prefer, a living will can also specify your preferences for medical treatment if you become unable to communicate, which could become important if you are concerned that your family members might not recognize your partner’s role in your life.

Work with LGBTQ+ Estate Planning Experts

Clear, detailed, legally enforceable estate planning documents can help protect your partner and your family and minimize the risk of legal challenges from unsupportive family members. Given the unique challenges that LGBTQ+ couples might face, it’s a good idea to work with estate planning attorneys who are well-versed in these issues. The estate planning group at Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri can guide you through the estate planning process and help you navigate difficult and emotional decisions. Call us to schedule a free consultation today. 

 

Disclaimer: this article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter. 

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Elderly Parents and Estate Planning: Navigating Complex Family Dynamics

May 28, 2025/in Estate Planning /by Michael Lonich

Estate planning can be an emotional topic, especially when elderly parents are involved. But taking the time to talk through your loved ones’ wishes, prepare legal documents, and establish a clear plan can help avoid unnecessary stress, conflict, and legal headaches down the line. Here’s a guide to help you understand what to expect when it comes to these important conversations. 

Why Does Estate Planning Matter More with Age?

As parents get older, decisions about their health, finances, and assets become increasingly urgent. Without a will or trust in place, the state of California determines how property is divided—and that might not reflect your family’s true intentions.

Estate planning isn’t just about who gets what. It’s also about:

  • Designating someone to make medical or financial decisions (through powers of attorney)
  • Planning for long-term care
  • Reducing potential estate taxes
  • Preventing future disputes among siblings or relatives

Family Tensions Are Common, But Avoidable

In many families, different personalities and perspectives can lead to tension. Maybe one child lives closer and feels more involved, while another lives farther away but wants an equal say. Add in stepchildren, second marriages, or unresolved childhood issues, and things can get complicated quickly.

It’s important to remember that estate planning is not just a legal issue – it’s a family one.

Open, honest communication is key. Parents should have clear discussions with their adult children, ideally with the help of a trusted attorney or financial planner. Having a neutral third party can reduce misunderstandings and help everyone stay focused on what matters most: honoring your parents’ wishes and protecting their legacy.

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Tips for Navigating Difficult Conversations

Talking about death or declining health is never easy, but there are ways to make the process smoother:

  • Start early: Don’t wait for a crisis or a health scare. Early planning gives everyone time to think clearly and make informed decisions, before emotions run high.
  • Focus on their wishes: Keep the focus on what your parents want, not what family members think should happen. This helps minimize conflict and ensures the plan truly reflects your parents’ values.
  • Put it in writing: Once everyone understands the plan, make it official. A legally sound will or trust, created with the help of an experienced California estate planning attorney, is your best safeguard against future disputes.

How Lonich Patton Ehrlich Policastri Can Help

At the end of the day, estate planning is an act of love. It brings peace of mind to elderly parents—and provides clarity and comfort to the family members they leave behind.

Navigating these issues on your own can be a burden, and may not result in the best outcomes for you and your parents. At LPEP, our skilled family law attorneys can guide your parents through the process, help create a customized estate plan, and ensure it’s legally binding under California law. They can also serve as mediators if family disagreements arise.

Don’t leave anything to chance – ensure your family’s wishes are legally documented with LPEP’s estate planning services.

Schedule your free consultation today. 

Disclaimer: This article does not constitute a guarantee, warranty, or prediction regarding the outcome of your legal matter.

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